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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 12:13 PM   1
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Disturbing Conversation with OH


So... I don't even know where to begin! The OH and I have this discussion recently where we were talking about kids and he starts asking me all these questions about how my body is going to change. He stated that he loves my body and having a "hot wife" and he doesn't want to lose that. Am I wrong to have completely freaked out and felt like he was being so shallow? He said that he doesn't know anything about kids and babies and pregnancy and that it terrifies him immensely. Especially the birthing part - he said that's the most terrifying. He said he's not even sure if he wants to be in the room with me when the baby comes. I was like ARE YOU EFFING SERIOUS?!

Anyone else dealing with this craziness?



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 12:16 PM   2
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So... I don't even know where to begin! The OH and I have this discussion recently where we were talking about kids and he starts asking me all these questions about how my body is going to change. He stated that he loves my body and having a "hot wife" and he doesn't want to lose that. Am I wrong to have completely freaked out and felt like he was being so shallow? He said that he doesn't know anything about kids and babies and pregnancy and that it terrifies him immensely. Especially the birthing part - he said that's the most terrifying. He said he's not even sure if he wants to be in the room with me when the baby comes. I was like ARE YOU EFFING SERIOUS?!

Anyone else dealing with this craziness?

YES!!! u could have just been writing that about my OH hes the same, he said if i have a natural birth he wont be having for a long time afterwards pregnancy, birth and kids scare him bigtime



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 12:17 PM   3
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So... I don't even know where to begin! The OH and I have this discussion recently where we were talking about kids and he starts asking me all these questions about how my body is going to change. He stated that he loves my body and having a "hot wife" and he doesn't want to lose that. Am I wrong to have completely freaked out and felt like he was being so shallow? He said that he doesn't know anything about kids and babies and pregnancy and that it terrifies him immensely. Especially the birthing part - he said that's the most terrifying. He said he's not even sure if he wants to be in the room with me when the baby comes. I was like ARE YOU EFFING SERIOUS?!

Anyone else dealing with this craziness?

YES!!! u could have just been writing that about my OH hes the same, he said if i have a natural birth he wont be having for a long time afterwards pregnancy, birth and kids scare him bigtime
Haha! We should be moral support for each other then!



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 12:27 PM   4
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i think we will be yeah men grr!! lol



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 13:03 PM   5
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My hubby said that when Im pregnant he doesn't think he will want to have sex because it might hurt the baby and feel wrong!! A bet after a few days without it, he will soon change his mind!!!

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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 14:54 PM   6
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my OH is the otherway!! i think he'll want to be too involved.. strict diet and pretty much take over with the birth lol! he was watching one born every minute and talking bout stuff like he's a pro! bear in mind neither of us have had kids... think he's just crazy!
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 14:56 PM   7
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My hubby said that when Im pregnant he doesn't think he will want to have sex because it might hurt the baby and feel wrong!! A bet after a few days without it, he will soon change his mind!!!

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mine would be the same too



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 14:56 PM   8
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LOL! Silly men.



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 16:52 PM   9
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I haven't asked my OH about all of this... hmm...
I am curious how he'll feel about sex while I'm pregnant and after.. Guess I'll just have to put on some lingerie, and I'm sure he'll be more interested.



 
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Old Jan 18th, 2011, 22:19 PM   10
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OH was worried I'd end up a whale after, I am 25lbs heavier than I was when we got together, which is enough at 5ft 1, but I still look like "me" and he is still attracted to me, thinks I'm beautiful etc.

OH's coworker warned him not to watch as the baby was coming out (vaginally) or he'd never want to be near my vagina again I thought it was insensitive of him, but to be honest it is graphic so maybe I wouldn't want to watch either.

OH was in for a treat though, I had a c-section and they do not wait for everyone to be seated nicely lol, they had already started when he had to walk past me to get to the chair at the side of my head and saw plenty of bloody surgical sponges being thrown on the floor, he said he saw some "organ'" and then looked away because it was so gross and he thought he'd pass out, lol



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