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Old Jan 24th, 2011, 16:49 PM   21
wanaBmummy
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pfffft my sex drive is nothing compared to my other half lol i could quite easily go without it lol though he wouldn't be too happy about that. BUT i do have phases if that makes any sense. i won't want to do anything for a few weeks and then for about a week or two i'll be up for doing it every day sometimes twice a day lol i couldnt change my approach to it more could i hahaha x



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Old Jan 24th, 2011, 17:54 PM   22
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It just depends for us. Sometimes work/school is really stressful for me and I'm tired and don't get in the mood as much as OH does. Other times it's the opposite. But we both LOVE sex and know it's an important connection with each other that we need to take care of and maintain for our relationship. Then, after we're done I like to sing "I just had sex" by the lonely island, cause sex rocks! Haha



 
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Old Jan 24th, 2011, 19:18 PM   23
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Thanks for all the replies, glad i'm not the only one with a higher sex drive than OH. Things are stressful for him at the moment as we have just brought a house and i am still on maternity leave but my payments have stopped. So he is stressed out and trying to sort out all the financial stuff which makes him not think about sex as much as he normally would. We are also living with his dad. I think once we get into our new house and i start working again he will be less stressed and we can have lots of fun with all the new rooms in the house lol. Also maybe i just have to accept that i will always have a higher sex drive than Oh



 
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Old Jan 24th, 2011, 19:19 PM   24
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Hahahaha if my OH half could read this it would amuse him! Sorry Im not laughing at you but I am completely like this too, and I ask him all the time has he gone off me becuase he doesnt want sex as much as I do!

Dont get me wrong we normally manage at least every 1-2 days but I would like it every day so I know what you mean about feeling unattractive sometimes etc!

But dont worry its normal to feel like that and your OH hasnt gone off you or anything everyones just different. Your OH probably loves the fact you're so attracted to him and that you want to have sex so dont feel down hunny!!

Again sorry for laughing at the start, I just find it a relief that someone else feels the same as I do!!!

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Lol don't worry about laughing, i'm glad to hear that i'm not the only one with a high sex drive xx



 
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Old Jan 24th, 2011, 19:26 PM   25
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pfffft my sex drive is nothing compared to my other half lol i could quite easily go without it lol though he wouldn't be too happy about that. BUT i do have phases if that makes any sense. i won't want to do anything for a few weeks and then for about a week or two i'll be up for doing it every day sometimes twice a day lol i couldnt change my approach to it more could i hahaha x
I go through phases too because i am on the copper IUD i still have natural cycles, so i find that just after my period has finished until a week before i get my period again i want it lots but the worst is when i am ovulating. I could easily have it 2+ times a day when i am ovulating but OH can mostly only manage once a day around then and possibly twice if we watch a bit of porn together lol (sorry tmi)



 
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Old Jan 24th, 2011, 19:40 PM   26
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I don't belong in WTT but I had to post because I totally belong in this thread! I used to get sooooo frustrated at my DH until I came to terms with the fact that my DH simply has a lower sex drive than I do. He says 2-3 times a week is his ideal, though honestly, it's rarely even that frequent I would like 4-5 times, occasionally more even. Makes it very frustrating to be sure, especially when TTC and I'm in my fertile window and he just isn't in the mood...
Although in fairness he does have an excuse for the last two months as we've been living with my parents, and my grandparents have been here as well for the last 3 weeks. They used to be gone a lot in the evenings, but they've been sticking closer to home a lot more lately *sigh*



 
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Old Jan 24th, 2011, 20:12 PM   27
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I used to think maybe i should leave him because we didn't have compatible sex drives but love means more to me than sex and most of the time we have it every 2nd day so i guess i can't complain. If we were having it once or twice a week i would be extremely sexually frustrated and we would argue all the time. We do still still argue a bit because i get sexually frustrated, does anyone else find they argue alot because of this?



 
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Old Jan 25th, 2011, 10:56 AM   28
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i wish i had a sex drive like you woman , i just dont , my oh is sex mad and really wants it all the time , but maybe because i experience so much pain with intercourse , because i have endometriosis , then thats my excuss why mine is lower than his ,
but wish i was a bit more wanting it , i always feel guilty when i reject him .



 
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Old Jan 25th, 2011, 12:18 PM   29
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aww sorry some of u have to feel bad about it, im sure ur OH's still love you, i think romance doesnt have to be just making love, spontanious cuddles and kisses is amazing. Baths together or showers for that case and giving each other a massage can bring couples closer together without feeling the need to have sex everytime xx



 
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