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Old Jan 22nd, 2011, 06:50 AM   1
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OH still won't give final decision on TTC dates!

I wish OH would make up his mind about when we are going to TTC! He keeps pushing the dates back and I just want to get started!

Forget the money worries, forget the fertility issues, forget the risks and just go for it! The time will never be right! Can I get a decision out of him no!

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Old Jan 22nd, 2011, 11:37 AM   2
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Sounds like my OH to be honest, he keeps pushing dates backs too, wont give me a date, has a list of reasons why we cant TTC is so frustrating

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Old Jan 23rd, 2011, 06:02 AM   3
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Sounds like my OH... Even when we decided to TTC he still didn't *ahem* well... you know.

As long as you have enough money, and a good enough relationship to provide a stable home, you're right - you should just go for it! Can't you just *slip* the condom off in the heat of the moment and hope he gets carried away? That way, you're not tricking him, but you get to ntnp... Good luck!

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Old Jan 23rd, 2011, 08:31 AM   4
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It's so tough isn't it!! I'm exactly like you ladies and have said quite often that this is exactly the problem I have at home! I'm really trying to understand the issues/reservations my OH is having, but I more lean to the thinking that we will never be in the perfect situation, things will never be 100% right, so why not just take the bull by the horns and give it a try?? I set a date for September, he reluctantly agreed with 'That's a bit early isn't it babe?', so, who knows!

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