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Old Jan 23rd, 2011, 16:15 PM   1
xxshonaxx
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how am i going to last that long???


even though we agreed that our girl would be our last oh has agreed dispite all the chat of " u have enough " to try for another which will be no 5. the only thing is he wants to wait for 8 yrs!!! how am i going to last that long????



 
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Old Jan 23rd, 2011, 16:35 PM   2
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why doesnt anyone wanna talk to me



 
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Old Jan 23rd, 2011, 16:42 PM   3
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You need to take ageing into account and your fertility will more than likely be not as good as it is right now!, maybe you can compromise with him and say four years? haha if you work on him and try to get through to him how important this is to you then maybe he can change his mind? Good luck xx



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Old Jan 23rd, 2011, 16:49 PM   4
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^^^wss. Thats a very long time to wait! Is there a reason for that length of time? It'll be quite a big age gap for your children too.



 
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Old Jan 23rd, 2011, 16:51 PM   5
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You need to take ageing into account and your fertility will more than likely be not as good as it is right now!, maybe you can compromise with him and say four years? haha if you work on him and try to get through to him how important this is to you then maybe he can change his mind? Good luck xx
thank you for replying im trying not to push my luck to far. im greatful he letting us have another i might try to reason with him hopefully he will give in i think its people talking that making him wait so long. its really annoying him and upsetting me why does it matter to people how many kids we have???



 
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Old Jan 23rd, 2011, 17:27 PM   6
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8 years! That is a long wait. Hopefully you can talk him down a couple years.



 
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Old Jan 23rd, 2011, 22:15 PM   7
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eight years???


How old are your other kids? Why does your OH want to wait so long?



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Old Jan 23rd, 2011, 23:09 PM   8
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eight years? ohhh hun that is so long :/



 
Old Jan 24th, 2011, 02:58 AM   9
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How old are your other kids? Why does your OH want to wait so long?

they are 8, 5, 3 and almost 4 weeks. im not sure i think its because of people saying "you have enough" or " you can stop now" that he is waiting. i think he is hopeing that it will stop or not be as bad then



 
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Old Jan 24th, 2011, 03:58 AM   10
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How old are your other kids? Why does your OH want to wait so long?

they are 8, 5, 3 and almost 4 weeks. im not sure i think its because of people saying "you have enough" or " you can stop now" that he is waiting. i think he is hopeing that it will stop or not be as bad then


8 years is such a long time hunny, and you both need to do what you feel is right, tell him that it dosent matter what other people think, what matters is how you and he feel.



 
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