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Old Feb 1st, 2011, 06:08 AM   11
wishandwant
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yes, i'd love to ttc right now but have to control myself sometimes, its so frustrating

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Old Feb 1st, 2011, 07:30 AM   12
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ye i feel like that all the time, i just keep trying to remind myself that its my last year of uni and i need to be able to do my work...especially if i didnt have an easy pregnancy...id probably be the type to get constant morning sickness lol.

sometimes i just dont want to listen to these worrys!!

how come your waiting 2 years? if you dont mind me asking
I had 4 months of really (really, really) bad "morning" sickness and the rest of my pregnancy got worse with things like hypertension, borderline pre-eclampsia, breech positioning and smaller things like strep-b. So although the MS was really awful it was sort of easier to carry on through (if you do not mind throwing up every 20 minutes, lol). Although the reason we are waiting until then is that it will take us to my last year of Uni. We will be trying in January 2013 so that even if it takes right away I will only have a few months left there.



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Old Feb 1st, 2011, 07:50 AM   13
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Ilovemyson your situation sounds so similar to ours. I an currently a stay at home mum with a 1 year old son. Im desperate to have another so the age gap isn't so big but my partner reminds me money is tight and says we should wait a year so when the next baby is born my son will be in nursery. Its s hard fighting with such strong emotions!!



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Old Feb 1st, 2011, 11:39 AM   14
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its somewhat comforting to know im not alone in my battle lol.
my friends either have kids or have no desire for them which makes it really difficult to talk to them about it...they dont seem to understand.
sometimes logic escapes me and i just get really frustrated!! xx



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Old Feb 1st, 2011, 13:07 PM   15
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90% of the time I feel confident in our decision to wait until we have ticked a few things off our to-do-before-children list. But my reason for waiting is based on an assumption that i'll fall pregnant as soon as we start trying. But if I don't (the odds say it won't happen straight away) then i'll be mad and a little upset for not trying sooner and ticking off the list while we wait.

I'm not sure that makes sense but I hope you get the jist!

So yes, i'm torn too!



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Old Feb 1st, 2011, 13:21 PM   16
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i totally get you...i think a lot of us think under that assumption, i know i do. but every now and then i sit and think 'what if its not that easy' and i end up sat worrying about if ill come across problems. that sounds really silly but ive never actually been pregnant before, ive had a few scares but never a positive test, so sometimes i just cant help it xx



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Old Feb 1st, 2011, 14:03 PM   17
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YYYESSS!!!!! I totally feel torn!!! We have so many reasons to wtt, but sometimes it just feels like, ahhhh screw it..lets just do it!!! But then I have to think about the potential baby we will make and how to give him/her the best conditions possible to come into!! But that isnt to say...deep down I'd love to TTC RIGHT NOW!!!!! And it doesnt help that my DH has extreme fever!!!! haha!!!



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Old Feb 1st, 2011, 14:31 PM   18
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id love a magic wand!! then i could put in place everything thats making us wait so that TTC could being now

wishful thinking i think



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Old Feb 1st, 2011, 17:44 PM   19
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Me and my partner didn't plan our first baby and we were both in a bad place at the time with our relationship...plus he was in a houseshare and I was living at my parents.

In those 9 months we bought a house, car, furniture.......and made a family and a home....and now we are stronger than ever. Don't ask me how we made it here but we did and it was the most fulfilling year I have ever had.

I know this isn't the same for everyone and it was a huge risk but it's got me believing that where there is a will there is a way. Would there have ever been a right time? Will there ever be a right time to have number 2?

Not knowing what is going to happen tomorrow could be a reason both for following your heart and taking that leap or it could be a reason not to!! I think it's all about perception. haha....am I talking a load of rubbish?

I guess what I'm saying is, I want another baby



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Old Feb 1st, 2011, 18:16 PM   20
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True, there never is going to be a so called "right time", I wanna take that leap!!!



 
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