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Old Jan 31st, 2011, 10:06 AM   1
MissKM
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does anyone ever feel torn between WTT and TTC


hiya everyone,
i was just wondering if anyone ever feels really torn between WTT and just trying now?

theres a few reasons as to why me any my fiance want to wait, but sometimes (most of the time) i just dont want to wait any longer!!

i feel alot of the time that im waiting for him more than anything else...



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Old Jan 31st, 2011, 11:00 AM   2
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I would love to TTC now and basically have to remind myself that it is not the right time. The way I feel and logic seem to be in a constant battle but it is not like starting a month early or something like that, it is a 2 year wait for me.



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Old Jan 31st, 2011, 11:14 AM   3
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ye i feel like that all the time, i just keep trying to remind myself that its my last year of uni and i need to be able to do my work...especially if i didnt have an easy pregnancy...id probably be the type to get constant morning sickness lol.

sometimes i just dont want to listen to these worrys!!

how come your waiting 2 years? if you dont mind me asking



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Old Jan 31st, 2011, 11:19 AM   4
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I wish that we could be TTC right now but i guess for now i have to wait...



 
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Old Jan 31st, 2011, 11:23 AM   5
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how do you keep up the strength to wait...im just find it unbearable sometimes x



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Old Jan 31st, 2011, 11:25 AM   6
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how do you keep up the strength to wait...im just find it unbearable sometimes x

i honestly dont lol i often cry myself to sleep and break down when i see a baby or someone tells me they are pregnant, i totally understand how u feel....if u need a chat feel free to PM me i know how u feel tho



 
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Old Jan 31st, 2011, 11:28 AM   7
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I'm torn as well...we're going to start very soon. Just waiting for some health things to clear up. But I'm torn for a few reasons....mainly can we handle two? And the BIG HUGE reason....will my son be ok? I feel like I'm cheating on him...lol...and it'll hurt his feelings. Silly I know. Then there's part of me that can't wait to start TTC again.



 
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Old Jan 31st, 2011, 11:35 AM   8
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aww im sure your son will be ok...it will probably take some adjusting but once the new little one is old enough to play, im sure your son will be over the moon lol.
sometimes i wish i had a magic wand!!



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Old Jan 31st, 2011, 11:47 AM   9
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I can totally relate!! I'm ready to TTC number 2 but my husband isn't. I can see his reasoning, our financial situation isn't as good as it could be, I'm a stay at home mom right now, but I dont think we could afford for me to stay home if we had 2 kids, our relationship needs some mending, we want to move into a house rather than this apt building, the list goes on.

I've got baby fever something fierce right now and it doesn't help that almost all of my friends are pregnant or are planning to try soon.

I just have to remember that it takes two of us to parent. If he's not ready, WE aren't ready. My time will come.. and yours will too!!



 
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Old Feb 1st, 2011, 04:26 AM   10
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I just tell myself that the time isn't much in the long run of things, even a year isn't a long time in your life - logically!

But yes, emotionally, it's reaaaally hard. Depressing sometimes.

I have a big list of things to get done to the house first, and determination and a spreadsheet to pay off some debt first, which means i need to be in work a bit longer to earn the money to pay it off, concentrating on that has helped me cope! (kind of )

I do wish everyone around me would stop getting pregnant though! LOL.

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