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Old Feb 2nd, 2011, 16:31 PM   1
noshowjo
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my house purchase fell through , so plans change


hi all . as the title says , my house purchase has fell through , i was due tto move on the 11th and the seller has pulled out , im so depressed , this is are second choice in house too , the fist one we fell for came back that it needed underpinning as the house was subsiding ,
took me ages to come to terms with it , then we found another one , and now this thi , its been a year since we started looking ,
thing is my house im in is now sold so i gotta get out or pull out of my house sale too ,
if i gotta stay in this house i wont be able to ttc as my house just not big enough
I am so confused about what to do



 
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Old Feb 2nd, 2011, 16:51 PM   2
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I'm so sorry to hear about your house, my sister went through the exact same thing, no.1 house the greedy lady decided that she wanted an extra 20,000 1 week before completion so they had to pull out and lost all their survey money etc, then the second house, the lady had a last minute breakdown and pulled out 1 hour before exchange and decided to sell to someone who was chain free as that is what caused her the stress. My sister still sold their own house as getting out of the chain was a good option to try and make it third time lucky, they're now renting a small apartment and have said they will still TTC anyway as they really did go through it with the house stuff, as you are doing too. It totally sucks to mess with peoples lives like that. It is heart breaking. We were lucky on house no.3 but it is so hard.

I was going to write a nice motivational statement about there always being room for a baby and making it work etc, and I do beleive that but I also see you have a lovely little family already and so don;t want to run the risk of giving you advice when I don;t know what it's like for you in the current space you have, or whether rented and TTC/birth would be an option for you?

Just didn;t want to read and run knowing how heartbreaking it is to loose a house.

We on the other hand bought a nice big house with the view to starting a family (as I said 3rd time lucky on the house!) I fell pregnant on the very day we completed on the house and felt like my entire life was falling into place only to go for my 12 week scan in November to be diagnosed with a missed MC and Gestational Trophoblastic Disease. Didn't need Chemo and can officially TTC again in about 4 months but What a bummer. A big lonely house and no children to fill it. We should merge our stories and we'd be sorted Lol!!!!

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Old Feb 2nd, 2011, 16:55 PM   3
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Oh dear just realised I should change my status from 'Expecting', obviously havn't been on here in a while! : (



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Old Feb 3rd, 2011, 12:13 PM   4
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Sorry, what a pain. We're going through the same. Nothing worse than a seller pulling out and getting up your hopes



 
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Old Feb 3rd, 2011, 12:17 PM   5
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sorry for what u are going through, i hope u find another soon



 
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Old Feb 3rd, 2011, 12:29 PM   6
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Sorry about it not working out. I hope the third time is the charm.



 
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Old Feb 3rd, 2011, 16:21 PM   7
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Oh no! Our TTC is also depending on our house - which will hopefully go ahead on 11th! Our problem is we haven't actually sold out other house! Do you wanna buy it? Lol! No that really does suck hin!

What are your thoughts? What do you think you'll do?



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