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Old Feb 6th, 2011, 09:20 AM   1
LunaRose
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OH was a naughty boy!


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OH & I last night and OH did his 'business' in me even though I told him twice not to .. Even though I want another baby so badly, now just isn't the right time

We didn't plan Jayden, as such, so I have no idea about what the chances of getting pregnant are and when?! I worked out I'm in my fertile window (yesterday too). I know the chances are slim but I'm worried because there are already three of us in our one bedroom flat! We are planning on moving soon but who knows when ..!

It makes me sad because I always imagined I would be really excited when I would be waiting to test and I feel anxious more than anything.

I know I just have to wait and see but I just needed to get it off my chest

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Old Feb 6th, 2011, 09:36 AM   2
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The "pull out" method isn't very effective (since he can pre-ejaculate before the "big finish") so you never know! I know exactly how you feel - I would love to start trying again but we aren't in the best place right now. OH has to finish school and we need a house before we can start... though I kinda keep hoping an "accident" will happen..



 
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Old Feb 6th, 2011, 09:53 AM   3
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I know that feeling! When my period comes part of me is always disappointed!

We have never used the 'pull-out' method before because I know it isn't effective but I was tired and I figured there would be less chance of getting pregnant if he didn't ejaculate inside me. I know I should have got condoms or something but my bed was so lovely and warm



 
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Old Feb 6th, 2011, 09:57 AM   4
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We use condoms (since BC has always made me feel terrible!). Is it horrible of me to sometimes secretly hope one will break? I think I'm baby crazy...



 
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Old Feb 6th, 2011, 10:01 AM   5
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I think we all are!



 
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Old Feb 6th, 2011, 12:35 PM   6
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We use condoms (since BC has always made me feel terrible!). Is it horrible of me to sometimes secretly hope one will break? I think I'm baby crazy...

lmao exactly the same for me lol i wait for oopsy but never happens lol



 
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Old Feb 6th, 2011, 12:53 PM   7
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Once we move somewhere bigger I'll be hoping for 'oopsies' too



 
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Old Feb 6th, 2011, 13:01 PM   8
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Aww hun, this exact same thing has happen to me about a week ago! Again its not best timing for us too as we got some holidays that we wouldnt be able to go on!!

On a slightly different subject. Hope you dont mind me asking, but how is it in a 1 bed flat? do you find it ok? are you all still in same room sleeping?

Just asking as we are in a one bed, and may still be stuck here when we are ready to TTC and are torn by wether we should or not in a one bed.

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Old Feb 6th, 2011, 14:29 PM   9
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We bought the flat and then found out I was already pregnant when we signed the contracts

Personally, I worried about space. There is definitely enough room in a one bed flat for a baby .. There are no stairs to worry about either! Jayden does still share a room with us so we are planning to move when he needs to start sleeping in a bed. It was nice living in a smaller place when he was little because I didn't have to worry about keeping loads of rooms tidy (always a bonus ) My only gripes are that because he doesn't have a bedroom by living room looks more like toy town now! Also I live on the first floor so lugging the buggy up and down the stairs is a pain!

I would say, as long as you are planning to move when baby becomes a toddler, it's absolutely fine living in a one bedroom flat! We have enjoyed it anyway!

Hope this helped xxx



 
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Old Feb 6th, 2011, 15:25 PM   10
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Thank you!xx



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