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Old Feb 12th, 2011, 14:39 PM   11
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I was a bit naughty and pretended my period was late, got a test (obvs negative) and told him that really I was kind of gutted I wasnt pregnant. he admitted he was too and I came off the pill the next day xx
haha naughty Pixie! I like your style though!x



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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 11:01 AM   12
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I agree with cinnamum, try to keep it casual and lighthearted. See what his reaction is and go from there. If he doesn't seem totally freaked out then you can try to get a more serious conversation going and actually start talking dates!

My oh was the one who wanted babies before me and when our friends started getting pregnant he'd whine and say when are we gonna have one, then we sat down one night just watching tv and he said 'seriously j, I really want us to try for a baby, are you ready yet' and that was it, we did!

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Old Feb 19th, 2011, 16:24 PM   13
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Well we talked in a light hearted manner about it a week ago and he thinks its best when we're 27! He said he wants to get married first, then try for kids around two years later. I'm quite gutted about it, but he's a lot more sensible than I am and I respect that. I guess I'll need to be more patient! Heh. x



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Old Feb 20th, 2011, 10:14 AM   14
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We've been together just over 7 years, and have been married for just over 6 months. We've been talking about babies since very early on, in the way that we always knew that we wanted to have children together. We're always talking about what we hope our children will be like, and I think it was actually hubby who brought the subject up first, in the dim and distant past!

Since we got married my broodiness has rocketed, and I actually said to hubby last night that I am getting really badly broody and I really want to have his babies . He said 'what, right now?' and I had a giggle and told him no, not right this minute, they require a bit of baking first! If I hadn't had AF I might have dragged him bedwards...!

Anyway, we're waiting til we've bought a house or near as dammit, as if we haven't bought a place by the time we have babies, we never will, and no way are we staying as renters forever, it's just not right for us. If it wasn't for that, I think we'd be trying, but we're both too sensible

ETA - we're both 30 this summer, btw, so we don't want to leave it too much longer, in case of problems...hopefully 2 years, 3 absolute max!!!



 
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