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Old Feb 11th, 2011, 14:35 PM   11
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Nobody knows nothing but me and hubby. And y'all of course.

I don't really want to tell family or friends for it to be a total suprise. We have originally been saying to close friends, not any family, January 2012 but hubby and I moved the date up in hopes of a summer baby for him to help out with and our debt will be paid off sooner than expected. So July 2011 here we come to TTC. Can't wait!!!



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Old Feb 11th, 2011, 19:56 PM   12
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My friends definitely know we sre wtt but they dont realise its so soon. I hsave tried to tell them to expect it soon lol but i dont think they believe me! I am not too close with my family but my oh sister knows we are wtt ad she recently had a baby i cudnt resist it slipped out!



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Old Feb 12th, 2011, 18:49 PM   13
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We havent told anyone, except on here. I think our families will have loads to say considering the close age gap. My family wont be so bad, but they know i'm trying to lose weight, but OH's family may moan, as they did last time. But it may be different next time round as we would be married by then.

Also, Id like to wait longer into the pregnancy to tell people as with Amara it seemed to go on FOREVER, and all we got was hassle from OH's family in the early stages.




 
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Old Feb 12th, 2011, 19:10 PM   14
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I've told my a few of my family members when we plan to start trying again, even though it won't be for a while. I've always wanted my children close together but DH doesn't want anymore for a while so....



 
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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 02:15 AM   15
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Our family and friends know we definatley would like a brother or sister for our dd but they don't know when we will be ttc. I don't think we will tell anyone either as I like the fact that no one knows and its less stress on us as we won't have everyone asking questions all the time :-) X



 
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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 03:08 AM   16
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Everyone thinks we'd like kids In a dew years, my mum and sis know it'll be end next yr we start trying in.

Family mostly know I'm broody, and some friends, but I play it down with most people. Certainly my closest friends have no idea of when or that I am broody - funny how the ones less close know but that's because I knew they'd understand where as my closest friends have no interest in kids yet !!! Xx



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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 07:44 AM   17
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I've tried not to let on that I wants kids at all as I don't want to be pestered, although OH assures me that our families have definitely guessed as we are planning to move house. I've denied it flat out at work and haven't told any friends, mostly because I don't want any pressure and because I'd be basically saying me and OH are going to have lots of unprotected sex which seems a bit TMI for me!



 
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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 07:55 AM   18
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I've told my sister and her fella as she wants babies and has problems with infertility and I wanted to make sure she was ok with us ttc as I would not want to hurt her feelings. They are looking into and saving for fetility treatment so hopefully they wont be too long either but I feel slightly guilty that I can just decide to have a child and its a pretty easy process - or it has been before and she has been on a 3 year road to get this far and still isnt pregnant.



 
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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 13:01 PM   19
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We are going to ttc this summer and I have told my coworkers (I work in a very small office) and my in-laws. I have not told my family because they will have a fit and tell us to wait.



 
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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 13:12 PM   20
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Everyone knows that we're eager to have babies, but timeline is murky as we just let people wonder.

We won't tell anyone anything until there's a baby on the way.



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