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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 15:23 PM   11
noshowjo
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totaly agree hun its your life your plans , and yes its fab that they are both gonna be experenceing lovly things , but you should too and in what time scale suits you xxx



 
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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 16:28 PM   12
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i ended up finding out we were preg the day after our wedding.
my dress was really weird to do up, my aunty said... '' your boobs are bigger and you tummy is bigger too, you ok?'' lol.
i was a FAT bride, and i still look back admiring my special day.
i know its not your wedding but i dont think that there is anything more feminine than a pregnant woman. is there?
i feel prettier when i am pregnant, i really do glow.
i am sure you will too, i wouldn't worry about it.
what will be will be and you will look great regardless of being bumpy or not. xxxx
just focus on making babies and worry about other people last (obviously putting baby 1st), your happiness is what matters.
not your bosses or your mates, do it when you both planned. xxx



 
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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 16:40 PM   13
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You choose what fits in with your life plan. Other people have theirs and you have yours - if only we could all fit in with each other's timescales. TTC is not a known quantity and there isn't a particular time frame within which it happens - you could all be experiencing life changing events together which would be even more special. Hope everything works out for you and you get sticky soon.



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Old Feb 14th, 2011, 04:51 AM   14
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I agree with all the other ladies, don't put your life on hold you only have one chance at it so make it the best you can!

Work will deal with it, it really isn't your worry! and your friends Wedding as wonderful as it is, is her Wedding and her future, don't put your future on hold because of it! If she is truely a friend she will be happy for you either if your pregnant for her wedding or just had your baby



 
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Old Feb 14th, 2011, 17:21 PM   15
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I certainly wouldn't let your friends set your life plans for you! Don't worry about work - other people have covered this, but it's not your responsibility to find someone to cover for you. As for the wedding, even if you're pregnant, there are certainly maternity bridesmaids dresses available, and even if you have to get a different dress, it wouldn't look weird for the honor attendant to be wearing something different.

Good luck!



 
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Old Feb 15th, 2011, 15:34 PM   16
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Thanks Girls. Unfortunatley my friend has lost her baby

Poor thing...



 
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Old Feb 15th, 2011, 15:36 PM   17
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Oh no that's really sad!



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Old Feb 16th, 2011, 07:35 AM   18
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Oh that is so sad



 
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Old Feb 16th, 2011, 14:52 PM   19
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I know bless her.



 
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