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Old Feb 19th, 2011, 12:14 PM   21
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sorry ebony marie, dont know why i put rose x



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Old Feb 19th, 2011, 12:46 PM   22
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Well im a teen mum.. I lost a baby when i was 15 was with the guy for 2years but we ended up splitting up about 6 months after it happened because i guess things just got hard (yeah 15 is young! and it was a really bad thing to even do but it was a accident we always used protection), then I got pregnant at 17 .. and had my son when i just turned 18 .. i went through like half of my pregnancy with my boyfriend.. and then he left me at around 20 weeks pregnant which i would have never expected he was everything to me.. and i was to him and basically hes never saw his son and doesnt want to ... but its a long story and thats all in my WTT journal.. but age doesnt matter like many have said.. i wouldnt change my son for the world but i just didnt expect life to go like this i wanted a family and i was happy .. but it goes to show you really need to think before you do something that will dramaticly change your life could be for better could be for worse.. but im still now only 19.. and im WTT now till July for #2 .. no1 should be judged, many teens i know have been in realtionships for years and there pregnant or had a baby.. and they cope fine same as older people do,, All i think is if youve got your head screwed on and everything then go for it!



 
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Old Feb 19th, 2011, 12:59 PM   23
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I wasn't the least bit interested in having any children until I was at least 30. When I was 30, I was still single and there was no way I wanted to be a single mom. I met my OH and married him 1 month before I turned 35. We weren't ready to try for a child until a year later. We discussed it beforehand and when we both felt we were ready, we started ttc.
I can't really say what's too young because I had zero desire to have a baby when I was a teenager/young adult.
I know some 21 year olds whom I feel are too young and some 21 year olds who I feel are mature enough. My own brother was too young. Had 3 by the time he was 21, but him and his wife managed all right. Doesn't mean that I don't think he was too young and he would agree.



 
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Old Feb 20th, 2011, 12:48 PM   24
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We started TTC the first time when I was 18, as long as you are in a stable relationship, have a home and the money for a baby I don't think it matters at all what age you are! xx



 
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