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Old Feb 15th, 2011, 18:07 PM   1
Bumblebee20
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Honest opnions please?


Hi,am new to this thread.
Well,me and my oh already have two children together 3 yrs and nearly 2 yrs. We have been together 5 years have a rented house together. We are both 20 and are thinking about having another. What do you think?is it mad,stupid?
Please tel me your honest opnion?



 
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Old Feb 15th, 2011, 18:12 PM   2
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If you're having doubts then maybe you should wait until you are more sure?

At the end of the day, only you know what is right for you, if you are in a situation where you can have another child then you can choose to



and i don't think you are mad, if you were wondering



 
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Old Feb 15th, 2011, 18:29 PM   3
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Thanks ^



 
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Old Feb 16th, 2011, 04:36 AM   4
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Why do you think you shouldn't have another? Is it because of what other people think? or is it other reasons?

If you are both wanting another and already have the 2 then if you really want a 3rd then why not? don't let what other people think put you off what you want

Like your signature says you are proud young parents right?!



 
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Old Feb 16th, 2011, 06:01 AM   5
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I agree with Twag's comments. Maybe you could list the pro's and cons and make a decision from there?

I'm 30 now so I've missed the boat for being a 'young' parent (i'll settle for an average parent now!) but my Mum who had lots of us by the time she was 30 swears it was the best decision she made.



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Old Feb 16th, 2011, 12:52 PM   6
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I don't think you're mad at all! I want 3 but couldn't afford to even think about it till now . If you can afford it (you must be rich so young lol) then go for it!



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Old Feb 16th, 2011, 13:31 PM   7
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whatever feels best for you hun...nothing is mad or stupid if its what you want and your capable of having it x



 
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Old Feb 16th, 2011, 18:15 PM   8
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Thanks for all your great comments. Its the fact that were young and people just think we are just being silly and its hurts to hear people say that.
We could afford another child as my OH has a 5 day a wk well paid job in computing and I work weekends when he is off.



 
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Old Feb 17th, 2011, 10:14 AM   9
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I think you sound as if you are fairly set in life and don't see anything wrong with having another baby. If it feels right for you both then go for it. You certainly sound mature enough to make the decision and if you have two already then you know what to expect.



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Old Feb 17th, 2011, 13:37 PM   10
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I agree with the above, if you can afford another and have room for them in your house and think you can handle 3 kids under 5 then go for it! But if there's something putting you off, theres no harm in waiting a while.

I also want 3 kids, I don't think it matters how old you are or anything like that.

Good luck whatever you decide!



 
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