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Old Feb 17th, 2011, 20:39 PM   31
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Hey everyone!

I'm 27, OH is 32 (almost 33) and we live in CA. We've been WTT because I wanted to be married first. He proposed on 6/26 last year and we're getting married on 6/25 this year so we finally get to start trying!! :-) I'm SO excited! I should technically finish school first - I'm studying to be a teacher, SO is already a teacher - but I really just don't want to wait anymore. I hope that doesn't sound selfish but I always thought I'd already have at least one LO by the time I was 26 and I guess that just wasn't in the cards for me. I took a long break from school after high school so I won't finish my teaching credentials until Summer 2013 if I stay full time. With a LO, I'm hoping we can afford for me to work part time so I can still do school full time. Right now I work full time and go to school full time but I don't think adding a baby to that without cutting down on one or the other would be fair to my LO, you know?

Anyway, I'm having my IUD removed next Friday and we'll be in the NTNP mode until our wedding in June. If we get a BFP before June, I'm completely okay with that too though!! :-D



 
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Old Feb 18th, 2011, 02:38 AM   32
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hi omiomen, im really sorry about your loss with your first two LOs. how much longer do you have at uni? i admire you for coping at uni with a baby...i dont know if i could do it, i find uni on its own stressful enough xx
Any MC is awful but I personally find it easier now DS is here, he is so amazing and if I had not had those MC's I would not have him.

I am in my first year so will finish in 2013. It is really hard having a baby and going to uni, the hardest part is trying to get work done at home while looking after DS. I know it will be worth it in the end though but may be mad thinking about TTC a few moths before my finish date.



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Old Feb 18th, 2011, 04:34 AM   33
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Hey
Id love a WTT buddy to carry on with through to the next bits sections!

Im Becy im 19 (but i feel alot older!) OH is 22 working away in france as a holiday rep atm but hes back 26th feb due to being hospitalised over there 3 times .. we both live Nottingham area, i have a son Mason-Jack whos nearly 13 month old .. had him with my ex but its a hell of a long story what happened there! its in my WTT journal anyway.. OH's planning on proposing as he says he wants to anyway soon, we move into our apartment next month ! Waiting till July i think as i don't want another baby same time i had my son lol abit hectic around dec/jan/feb for me!

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Old Feb 18th, 2011, 05:02 AM   34
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id really like my 1st by the time im 25 too!! ive never really known why i want it to be before im 25 though just one of them things i suppose x
I'm not sure why I picked 25 either, just don't want to be an old mum and always saw myself having 2 or 3 so don't want to leave it too late to try for #1!

If anyone fancies buddying up with me just give me a shout!



 
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Old Feb 18th, 2011, 05:13 AM   35
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I'm Emma, I'm 19 and have been with my OH who is just about to turn 19 for just over 3 years. I'm in 2nd year at uni and this is the reason that we aren't TTC until 2014
hi emma, what are you studying at uni? hope its all going well xx
I'm studying pharmacy, and it's going really well thanks hard work though!



 
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Old Feb 18th, 2011, 13:13 PM   36
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hi girls im claire and im 29, my OH ian is 28 and we are wtt for #1

i originally wanted to ttc summer 2007 but had to put it off till july 2010 due to financial problems and deaths in the family. i got a BFP in nov but had a mc at just under 8 weeks

at the scan after the mc they found a big cyst on my left ovary that im waiting on getting removed so im not allowed to ttc until after the op. i should be getting my op in about may so if i get away with just key hole surgery ill be back to ttc in june, if i get open surgery ill probably not be ttc till autumn time



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Old Feb 18th, 2011, 14:22 PM   37
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Becyboo__x me and my other half are the same age as you and yours although im wtt for my first ...

Totally agree about having at least one before im 25 dunno why i chose that age though

My WTT list is

1) Completing or being near to completing my level 3

2) Going on holiday - (tickets are booked so can technically tick this one off!)

3) Possibly moving house although we can stay where we are for now

4) Although it doesnt really need ticking off just genreally saving money in the meantime

Soo once all thats done well be good to go



 
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Old Feb 18th, 2011, 14:46 PM   38
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Hi All Iím 34, 35 in a couple of months. DH is 42 we have been together 15 years married for 12. We both have great jobs and own our own home. We have waited for many years to TTC and still waiting for that perfect time. Some days are easier than other. Last year we planned to TTC this year but it is all a bit up in the air right now due to DH having a very poorly sister (who also happens to be my best friend) and we both feel we are under a bit too much stress right now to TTC. Plus we would like to get our house finished. But we are working hard and aiming for later this year and hoping every thing will turn out OK.
I would love a WTT buddy to share the ups and down. Please send me a message if you are interested.
hi chickenchaser, just wanted to say that i hope your OH's sister gets better soon
how much do you have left of your house to get finished? x
Hi Miss KM, Thanks she is doing really well, we are seeing improvements in her every day.
The house is going well also. As for how much we still have to do depends on how broody I'm feeling LOL. When it's really bad I would be happy with just a lick of paint (we have lived with it looking like this for so long so what difference does it make? ) But when the broodiness is not so bad, I long to convert the garage and knock down a few walls. We have cut back a lot of the work as I don't really want to put things back to far it's just a case of finding a balance. I'm hoping for September time. but we will see. Thanks for your good wishes.



 
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Old Feb 18th, 2011, 14:58 PM   39
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Yammas - If you do ttc in july or anywhere near there then just give me a bell and we can be buddies!



 
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Yammas - If you do ttc in july or anywhere near there then just give me a bell and we can be buddies!
eeek how excitin

Hopin for may at the moment but will have to see how far i am into my course want to try to get it done by christmas if my assessor will hurry up! lol



 
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