Forum Rules


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old Feb 23rd, 2011, 08:02 AM   1
Ilovemychild
Mum (Mom)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Jan 2011
Posts: 135

Eek!!!


So, its been a while since I've logged on. We've been taking advantage of the beautiful weather!! Quick update. I posted a thread a while back about wanting to TTC but my husband was not so eager. Well 3 days ago, he told me that he was ready. We did the deed last night and he ... yea. I know this is what I wanted, but I'm still so nervous. According to my charts, I ovulated/was fertile last week. I know the chances that I'm pregnant are slim, but there is still a chance. I'm very on the fence about what I think right now. Of course, if I am pregnant, I will be super excited. There is also a little part of me that will breathe a sigh of relief if I'm not, if that makes any sense?!! We are currently looking for houses (we rent an apartment and are looking to rent a house, more room, a yard etc) The situation would make having a baby "difficult" but not impossible or less than ideal!! I guess there are things we want to do if we aren't pregnant, but won't be disappointed if we are? I guess either way, I'll be okay?!!! At this point, I've turned to my faith to believe that everything happens for a reason.

I guess I don't really know what the purpose was in posting this, support and to just get it off my chest??!! Someone assure me that I'll be okay to be pregnant and chase around a crazy 16 month old. Someone assure me that if I'm not pregnant, that it just wasn't meant to be!! Assure me that everything else in life will fall into place... and that there is no "perfect" time in life to TTC.

Thanks girls.



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 23rd, 2011, 08:08 AM   2
BlaireUK
Mum (Mom)
BnB Elite
 
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: UK
Posts: 10,654
Yah! Congrats on moving over to ttc. Like you say, what will be, will be! Good luck. I hope you have lots of fun trying and you have a short wait!



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 23rd, 2011, 08:17 AM   3
Ilovemychild
Mum (Mom)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Jan 2011
Posts: 135
Quote:
Originally Posted by BlaireUK View Post
Yah! Congrats on moving over to ttc. Like you say, what will be, will be! Good luck. I hope you have lots of fun trying and you have a short wait!
Thanks so much for your kind words!!! I guess I can't say we are actively "trying" but we aren't "not trying". When we agreed to start TTC #1, we agreed no charts, pills, shots, or anything of the sort. We would do the deed, fully, once a month. When it was time for our miracle to happen, we would cherish it. We conceived Conner on our first try!! If I have the same luck this time around, I'm with child as we speak!! I guess we will just have to wait and see. My period is due on the 3rd and I have a routine obgyn appt on monday. I may ask then for them to give me a test, just to ease my mind!!! I'll be sure to keep you posted!! Thanks again for the comment!!



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 23rd, 2011, 09:43 AM   4
MummytoSummer
Mum (Mom)
Inactive
 
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Gloucestershire, uk
Posts: 2,785
Aw, congrats on ttc. I think it's totally normal for you to feel anxious now, even with all the planning in the world having a baby is a huge deal and having number 2 I would imagine is even scarier. But I'm sure things will be brilliant and I hope you get exactly what you want.

Oh and I don't think you're crazy for thinking about being pregnant and having a 16 month old to look after. We plan on ttc number 2 when my lo turns 10 months so if I conceive right away again there will be quite a tiny age gap. I'm terrified and excited at the thought all at the same time!

Good luck!

X



Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 23rd, 2011, 16:27 PM   5
mommy2be1003
Mum (Mom)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: New York
Posts: 636
As ive said before love, everything happens for a reason...If you are pregnant you of course will be a wonderful mother, because you already are! If you arnt well, i think you should wait 4 more months to ttc becuase well id love to have my best friend to be pregnant with!!! But either way im happy for you and im always here to support you! I love you!!!



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 27th, 2011, 11:49 AM   6
Aprilshowers
Waiting To Try (WTT)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Hamburg, Germany
Posts: 777
You'll be fine and everything will fall into place. Life just has a habit of working out the way it should. I'm a firm believer in faith and that what happens, happens for a reason. Meanwhile while you're waiting try to keep busy and not dwell on it too much. Get your gynae to do a test and that will ease your waiting a bit.



Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 27th, 2011, 12:41 PM   7
odd_socks
Waiting To Try (WTT)
BnB Elite
 
Join Date: Jun 2010
Posts: 10,611
i think u would adjust fine if u were to fall pregnant sounds like u have the support of ur OH which is great. My mum always said to me she enjoyed having my brothers close together as my eldest brother helped alot with the younger brother good luck x



 
Status: Offline
 

SEO by vBSEO