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Old Feb 25th, 2011, 08:42 AM   11
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OMG! How could she do that? Like MummytoSummer said, when I get pregnant I want it to be because we both want it, not because I've tricked my boyfriend and deceived him.

You hear all these stories of women trapping their men, I just don't know how they could do it?



 
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Old Feb 25th, 2011, 08:46 AM   12
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I couldn't do it - knowing I would have to trick my OH into having a baby with me would just make me want a baby less! It's like I try to explain to him I don't just want to have a baby, I want his baby, you know?? x



 
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Old Feb 25th, 2011, 08:49 AM   13
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I know Clo, I say that too! Lol

MummytoSummer I would be letting that girl know exactly what I thought of her! It's more important to me that my kids grow up in a happy and stable environment. She must have known her boyfriend wouldn't be happy, which is why she's had to deceive him in the first place, and she's quite happy that she's ruined/ruining her son's relationship with his Dad



 
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Old Feb 25th, 2011, 09:24 AM   14
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I'm tempted every single time I never would though, its just wrong xx



 
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Old Feb 25th, 2011, 09:32 AM   15
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I have thought of it in the past but could'nt do it. I desperately wanted a 3rd child and DH did not. We did have him as an oops baby because of 1 night, we both knew it was a risk. He didnt want a fourth either but we talked that one over and decided together that we would have another, he's now agreed to a fifth which I am quite shocked about but he is a brilliant dad and husband and we are a happy family so why not The more the merrier!!

MummyToSummer, It's awful what that girl did to that poor fella. I hope she sees sence and allows him access to their baby.



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Old Feb 25th, 2011, 10:33 AM   16
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Glad I'm not the only one that feels this way. Finding it really hard. OH wants to wait until we have bought a house, which could be another 2 years. Have debated stopping BCP so many times!



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Old Feb 25th, 2011, 11:26 AM   17
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I'm not on the pill but I am guilty of trying to talk the OH out of using a condom and going with the flow. Thankfully he's more sensible then me and always uses his rain coat



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Old Feb 25th, 2011, 12:21 PM   18
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i wouldnt do no but its tempting, besides we use condoms so a little more obvious he always checks them before using anyways



 
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Old Feb 25th, 2011, 12:55 PM   19
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It's tempting, but I could never do that to OH. It would just eat away at me and I'd have to tell him.



 
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Old Feb 25th, 2011, 13:12 PM   20
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I could never do it but we also use condoms on top of birth control. someone said to me I should do it and I was like "no.. that's not right."



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