Forum Rules


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old Feb 25th, 2011, 06:18 AM   1
anniepie
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
 
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Posts: 9,226

Have you ever been tempted...?


I wouldn't do it, as I wouldn't want to betray the trust of my OH, but every morning I get up, shower, go back to my bedroom, open the drawer of my chest of drawers and think how easy it would be to just stop taking my BCP...



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 25th, 2011, 06:57 AM   2
MissKM
Waiting To Try (WTT)
Active BnB Member
 
 
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: London
Posts: 561
im the same, i couldnt do it...but it does cross my mind quite often x



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 25th, 2011, 07:07 AM   3
pennies
Pregnant (Expecting)
Active BnB Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Scotland
Posts: 688
I couldn't do it either, as much as I want to be TTC I still take the darn pill every morning!



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 25th, 2011, 08:05 AM   4
Smile181c
Mum (Mom)
BnB Elite
 
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Worcestershire, England
Posts: 10,881
I used to feel like that when I was on BCP (Not on anything anymore). I would never have done it but it is so tempting isnt it! x



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 25th, 2011, 08:09 AM   5
MummytoSummer
Mum (Mom)
Inactive
 
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Gloucestershire, uk
Posts: 2,785
If my oh wasn't the one desperate to ttc and I was still on bc I'd def be tempted but like you guys I just couldn't do it. It's so important to me that when we're pregnant it's because both of us want it.

I know someone that openly admitted to all her friends she'd secretly stoppedtaking the pill to fall pregnant (she'd only been with this guy 6 months). She was almost bragging about it. Everyone told her how selfish she was being as she'd not once discussed it with her boyfriend, he was due to go to America with his work and she knew that. Anyway one of the people she was bragging to told her oh what she'd been saying and he confronted her. She admitted it and a few weeks later she found out she was pregnant. He was absolutely devastated. Needless to say they broke up and he went to America as planned. She's had the baby and he supports her financially and sends things for the baby all the time but all she does is badmouth him to anyone who'll listen about how he's a rubbish dad and doesn't deserve the title so she calls him the donor. It's so sad cos he's a lovely guy, he just didn't want kids.

I don't think there are many girls who would be prepared to do what she did though!

X



Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 25th, 2011, 08:17 AM   6
Smile181c
Mum (Mom)
BnB Elite
 
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Worcestershire, England
Posts: 10,881
That's awful! And so sad too! Even though the ex bf didnt want kids that girl has still caused him to miss out on a relationship with his baby because of her selfishness!

Girls like that make me so angry!



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 25th, 2011, 08:28 AM   7
MummytoSummer
Mum (Mom)
Inactive
 
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Gloucestershire, uk
Posts: 2,785
I know, me too. He'll be in the states for another 9 months then he comes back and he said to her before he left that he'd like to see his son when he returns and have regular access etc and going away was just something he had to do for his job. But she's started being nasty about it now and saying she'll make him go through the courts to get access. Nobody can seem to make her see that the only one that will hurt is their son. He may not have wanted kids but he's done and doing everything he can to be supportive even though it broke him. He was seeing a lovely American girl for a while but they split because he couldn't trust her. He was never like that before. It's so sad to see such a lovely guy broken because of one girls pure selfishness.

X



Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 25th, 2011, 08:34 AM   8
Smile181c
Mum (Mom)
BnB Elite
 
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Worcestershire, England
Posts: 10,881
It proves how much of a man he is that he's willing to step up and be a dad even though he had no plans to have children. Girls like her are so frustrating cause they just ruin the trust that men have in all women! Very unfair. And then to slag him off? I hate hypocrites!

Look at me on my high horse x



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 25th, 2011, 08:38 AM   9
momse
Waiting To Try (WTT)
Active BnB Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: US
Posts: 116
Thats so horrible, she wasn't even with him but six months, so sad.



 
Status: Offline
 
Old Feb 25th, 2011, 08:39 AM   10
MummytoSummer
Mum (Mom)
Inactive
 
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Gloucestershire, uk
Posts: 2,785
No I totally agree with you. I think most people would. Thankfully most people know the whole history so when she does slate him they know the truth so take no notice. A lot of people were mutual friends with both of them but since all this she's unfortunately lost a lot of them. I think it's because she's got no remorse for what she did. She genuinely can't seem to see what she did wrong!

X



Status: Offline
 
Reply



Bookmarks

Tags
tempted

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search



SEO by vBSEO