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Old Feb 27th, 2011, 08:37 AM   1
Becyboo__x
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Stuck weather to wait or not?


Im in a abit of a sticky situation.. OH will TTC anytime and iv said i don't really want to TTC to be due around christmas-end january because it will be hectic with my son at christmas and its my sons birthday 28th january.. then in february its all my familys birthdays Dad,Mum,Sister

But it seems a lifetime away to wait till June/July to TTC and then its saying Next year we will be due, i don't know im impatient i guess and we would love to TTC now but the baby would be due December/Jan now wouldn't it?

I know people will think why does it matter when the babys due but it really does id rather have a baby when the times all right and theres nothing major going on because i wouldnt want to ruin anything and im thinking it will be really ecpensive around christmas and first 2 months of next year if that makes sense?

Anyone give me any advice or what you would do if you was in my shoes?




 
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Old Feb 27th, 2011, 08:53 AM   2
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My thoughts are there are no guarantees on when you will actually conceive. There are tons of ladies that are several cycles into ttc and still waiting. Then again you may get pregnant immediately (I gladly give you tons of sticky baby dust so that may be the case).

So it's just something to keep in mind.



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Old Feb 27th, 2011, 08:57 AM   3
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I would maybe wait a few months and that will help get you into the earlier months of next year. It would be very hectic being due and having all the birthdays etc going on. If I were you I would just wait a couple of months.



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Old Feb 27th, 2011, 09:03 AM   4
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The earliest we said about TTC is start of June/July because i would be due around march/april which is alright just the fact my friends kid was born 23rd of march so i wouldnt want to be due on her sons birthday i think she'd be abit angry tbh .. my other friend had #2 on christmas eve like 3minutes before 12! lol and she hasnt got any problems but i think start december wouldnt be as bad because my birthday is 3rd december.. and my family always managed with my birthday then christmas etc i dont think theres much point in TTC now because it could take a while and ill end up being due at a bad time and itll most likly stress me out i think
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Old Feb 27th, 2011, 09:12 AM   5
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Well if you start trying in June you would be due in about March or April if things work out the first time. That would at least let you skip all the birthdays etc. Use the time between now and then to take vitamins and get your body ready.



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Old Feb 27th, 2011, 10:19 AM   6
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June will soon be here hun it's hard to keep the broodiness at bay. Like one of the other ladies said you may not conceive straight away anyway so maybe you could start ntnp?

One benefit of having another around the same time of year though is that if you have another boy you will have lots of clothes that will be the right size and right seasons



 
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Old Feb 27th, 2011, 10:23 AM   7
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Were going to NTNP now weve decided but if it does take long then we will have a break and wait till July i think or June im not sure yet but its worth a shot i think!

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Old Feb 27th, 2011, 10:50 AM   8
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Well enjoy the ntnping



 
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Old Feb 27th, 2011, 12:46 PM   9
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enjoy ntnp x



 
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Old Feb 27th, 2011, 12:51 PM   10
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We wanted to avoid September as our families pretty much fill the whole calandar with birthdays, yet the one month we was being careful we got pregnant now I couldnt be happier. Have fun NTNP ps, I cant believe how cute and grown up your little boy is. He's one day older than Daisy and she cant stand alone for long yet! x



 
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