Forum Rules

LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old Mar 4th, 2011, 04:34 AM   1
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: East coast of Iceland.
Posts: 2,901

How mutch do you talk about it?

How mutch do you talk about your WTT and TTC?

I have been trying not to talk about it and not saying 3 months 2 months and so on to him because he does not like to start counting down to things untill there are maby 2 weeks befor it happens hehehe.

But lately we have started talking more. The funny thing is we are both convinced we will get another boy when we are talking about extra rooms or kid rooms we imeedieatly say the boys rooms and so on. It just popps out without thinking! But we both would love to have a litle girl hehehe at least I am krossing my fingers.
We have talked about these "ways" to have a girl and if we should try it just for fun of it hehehe.
We talked about that we are kind of tired of waiting and would love to let the condom go but we dont want december baby so we wont risk it.
It has been so mutch fun talking these past days that Im geting more broody and am more broody than ever! or maby not ever, just similar to last time I TTC

So mutch long time to wait!

Status: Offline
Old Mar 4th, 2011, 05:02 AM   2
Mum (Mom)
BnB Elite
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: UK
Posts: 10,654
We hardly talk about it at all. That's why i'm on here!!! With my husband you need to plant the seed first and give him some time to digest it. I then wait for the right moment to mention it in passing again and again and again (without giving him the impression it's all I care about!). We had a chat about it at Christmas and again very recently but I noticed he was getting a bit jumpy about it so i've pulled back a bit! Planning not to mention it until my next AF has been and gone then it'll just be a subtle reminder that we'll not be needing any more condoms after next months AF!!!

Some people would call this a little manipulative but I'd say its just being resourceful and creative!!

Status: Offline
Old Mar 4th, 2011, 05:30 AM   3
Mum (Mom)
BnB Addict
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: East coast of Iceland.
Posts: 2,901
hahaha I know what You mean! Before Christmas I was like that. But It is not that I had to plant a seed. He was ready before me to start TTC but we decidet to wait untill I had worked long enaugh to get good maternity pay.

But with him if it is a thing that we are looking forward to and it is in no near future (near futur is within a month or less hehehe) he sometimes gets anoyed. But I understand him a litle bit. I think most women are mor in to talking endlessly about AF, cycles, TTC and stuff but my Oh is not so mutch untill if there are weeks and weeks untill we can start TTC. But he has been thinking alot about the house and how we would fit in it all and if we should try to expand it and so on, talking about the boys rooms hehe withs is cute

Status: Offline
Old Mar 4th, 2011, 08:04 AM   4
Waiting To Try (WTT)
Active BnB Member
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Hamburg, Germany
Posts: 777
We talk about it all the time. I think it's because I am obsessed with the idea and my hubby just likes to indulge me.
I am constantly thinking about it too. I do have OCD after all so babies are my number one obsession.

Status: Offline
Old Mar 4th, 2011, 08:26 AM   5
BnB Addict
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: NC, USA
Posts: 3,001
We talk about it all the time. I am a planner by nature and having a baby requires (at least to me) alot of things that need to be order before trying. I am in that stage of "getting all our ducks in a row". Because hubby and I are a team I feel it is necessary to go over everything that need to be done and get his input and opinions on things. After all we are in this together. And I make sure that we are both on the same page and understand eachother. Communication is key to me. This is one of those things in life that we can share just the 2 of us. That is so special. I love sharing this with him and it being a secret from everyone else.

And we have fun - this morning - we were talking about how long we think it is going to take to get preggers. Hubby thinks, of course, 1st month. I am a bit more cautious and said on the 3rd or 4th month. Last night we both threw around some more names and we picked out the stroller we would like together.

Status: Offline
Old Mar 4th, 2011, 12:38 PM   6
Trying to conceive (TTC)
BnB Addict
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 5,302
My husband and I talk about it alot!! We are always saying "when we have a child", "when we have a baby", "when we are trying to get pregnant" etc....

We are in the process of buying a bigger house at the moment and are excited about that and looking forward to TTc in Septmeber !

Status: Offline
Old Mar 5th, 2011, 05:00 AM   7
Mrs Eleflump
Posts: n/a
We are talking about it quite a lot, on and off. Hubby knows I am insanely broody, but as we're still saving up for a house we're going to be WTT for longer than I'd like - a couple of years. We're always talking about 'when we have kids' and what our children will be like, though

Old Mar 5th, 2011, 05:03 AM   8
Posts: n/a
We don't talk about it alot.. maybe once a week or so? When we do tho it's mostly positive with a little bit of fear but thats normal lol

Old Mar 5th, 2011, 05:50 AM   9
Mum (Mom)
BnB Elite
Join Date: Dec 2009
Posts: 11,696
We don't talk about it too much now, now we've set a date I can relax and not have to pester him for a date! Before we did I would always go on about.

I know when it gets close to the date, I'll go on about it

Status: Offline
Old Mar 5th, 2011, 08:45 AM   10
Pregnant (Expecting)
Chat Happy BnB Member
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: immingham, uk
Posts: 1,586
We talk about it all the time, hubby has already picked a name for a girl and insists it will be a girl this time - because he thinks he can pic and only send out the girl sperm!!

what are they like eh?

but he is the one that always starts the conversation too, which I like - It shows he is as enthusiastic as I am!!

Status: Offline


mutch , talk

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search