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Old Mar 7th, 2011, 11:39 AM   1
lynlouc
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Anyone else over 30 having to wtc ????


Hi im 34 and although i already have 3 gorgous children i am SO BROODY for #4 I know it may seem selfish to all those people out there still ttc their first but i just cant help myself
We have a holiday to Florida booked in August for which we have saved for years and i know that i should be really excited about it , but i cant help worry about the passing months going by (each one making me older) and how long it may take me too conceive
I hope you dont think im too selfish and that out there are other over 30's wtc alittle brother or sister to complete their families



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Old Mar 7th, 2011, 11:57 AM   2
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You're not selfish at all. Wanting a baby doesn't make you selfish. For some people it's a natural wish. I'm 38 and waiting to try until around May or June because I have to loose some weight and come off antidepressants first. I really feel my biological clock ticking and hope it will work out for us.



 
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Old Mar 7th, 2011, 12:07 PM   3
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Not at all selfish! I'm 32 and WTT for #1. Waiting on OH... Doesn't sound like you've too long to wait which is great!



 
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Old Mar 7th, 2011, 13:45 PM   4
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Lets all hope we can get each other through the unforseen future , wishing you both loads of luck xxx



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Old Mar 7th, 2011, 14:12 PM   5
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Not selfish at all, I am 32 and waiting to ttc for baby number 2. We are hoping to try in December and I can't wait.



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Old Mar 7th, 2011, 14:20 PM   6
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Not at all. I think when that yearning for a baby comes - no matter what your age, or how many you have - there is nothing at all you can do about it! I'm 30 & a half (lol) and have 1 dd but desperately want her to have 2 siblings, and thinking tick tock! My TTC date is undertermined so I could be here for a while! Enjoy your holiday though - it sounds bloody awesome!



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Old Mar 7th, 2011, 15:01 PM   7
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I'm 30 and not yet ttc our first so I don't think you're selfish for wanting to have another!? I'd probably be the same in your situation. I always wanted four boys (I still do) but think I might have missed the boat for four!! X



 
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Old Mar 7th, 2011, 15:09 PM   8
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No, not selfish at all. You can't stop your feelings for wanting a baby for other people, I know I can't. Would it bother you being pregnant while on holiday? XxX



 
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Old Mar 8th, 2011, 03:19 AM   9
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I am 30 (31 in April) and I am WTT for #1 which is not looking likely until Aug-2012 feeling my clock ticking!!

I don't think your selfish at all



 
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Old Mar 10th, 2011, 15:06 PM   10
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Nope, not selfish. Babies are blessings. I'm 34 WTT# 1, so I'm anxious too.

I hope it happens fast for you when the time comes.



 
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