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Old Mar 8th, 2011, 16:21 PM   1
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Ugh torn


I so want another baby but just can't convince myself I want to start over. I just want a little girl so bad but then I know it will be stressful with 3 kids to. So divided!



 
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Old Mar 8th, 2011, 16:26 PM   2
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you need to think that you might have another boy, does that change your mind or not? xx



 
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Old Mar 8th, 2011, 16:28 PM   3
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you need to think that you might have another boy, does that change your mind or not? xx
If I have another boy it wouldn't bother me but the chance of having a girl makes it worth it. My hubby defo wants another, I'm just wondering if its to much.



 
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Old Mar 8th, 2011, 16:30 PM   4
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then i say, if you can handle 3 go for it!!!! xxxx



 
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Old Mar 8th, 2011, 16:32 PM   5
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I think I can handle it, I just want to make sure that its not just that I miss being pregnant and that I truly want another one its hard to tell the difference.



 
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Old Mar 10th, 2011, 12:04 PM   6
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hi.
I really understand how youre feeling. Im in the same boat. My two are very young (Harry nearly 2 and Emily 5 months) and I thought we were done. But over the last little bit i cant shake the feeling i want another.

I was thrilled to end up with one of each so i really have no preference what we would have next, but i really didnt enjoy being pg either time before and ended up developing PND with Emily so REALLY dont want to got through all that again or the night feeds/lack of sleep.

Its tough though - i think we all have a switch that is either off or on. I guess mines still on. Im not done yet. sounds like youre not either!

Millions have 3 or more children and cope. Im sure you would be the same! good luck with your decision!



 
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Old Mar 10th, 2011, 12:45 PM   7
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my mum had two boys and felt the family wasnt complete, 6 years later i came along x



 
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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 09:16 AM   8
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hi.
I really understand how youre feeling. Im in the same boat. My two are very young (Harry nearly 2 and Emily 5 months) and I thought we were done. But over the last little bit i cant shake the feeling i want another.

I was thrilled to end up with one of each so i really have no preference what we would have next, but i really didnt enjoy being pg either time before and ended up developing PND with Emily so REALLY dont want to got through all that again or the night feeds/lack of sleep.

Its tough though - i think we all have a switch that is either off or on. I guess mines still on. Im not done yet. sounds like youre not either!

Millions have 3 or more children and cope. Im sure you would be the same! good luck with your decision!

Yeah I know when are you planning to try again? I think I may in about 5 months. I That would put my 2 youngest over 2 years apart.



 
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