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Old Mar 10th, 2011, 17:12 PM   11
ShireLass
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I've always secretly wanted an oops as well. I've always known I wanted a child but never wanted the judgement that my family would make if I had one really young, figured an oops would be the happy medium there (still lots of judgement if it had happened). I love and respect the OH too much to set one up too, though he never knows which part of the cycle I'm on.

Oh well, I'm old enough to have a real go now, but I'm still to scared to tell anyone we're going to try!



 
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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 03:01 AM   12
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We too are starting to use the pull out method now but I do not think DH cares so much about preventing any more. Half of me thinks, screw it just do it now and half thinks no, I must wait and be sensible.



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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 08:10 AM   13
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It's really hard, especially when you're not using hormonal birth control. I just need to remind my self that I have one year of my degree left which would be far too hard to pursue with a baby. I also must remember that when I'm done I'd love to travel round the world for 6 months!!
Obviously if it happened I would be overjoyed but I don't want to miss out on these special things. Imagine traveling round the world with a LO hahah!



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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 11:34 AM   14
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Someone I did my mature student access to Uni course with gave travelled around India with a baby from it's birth. Lol.



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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 13:16 PM   15
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WOW! it can be done then! i can raise a cool travelling hippie baby! sounds pretty good..



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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 14:09 PM   16
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I remember her saying she found it easy but I have no idea how she did it. The first 3 or so months going to the shops seemed like a massive trip out!



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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 21:13 PM   17
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Me Too!


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yeah im the same too.... why is it that the people that DONT want accidents end up with them and the the people that would secretly love one-it never happens to!
grr wish my body didnt respond to bcp sometimes!
That is so true!!! I pray for an accident all of the time and it never happens. Hubby and I use the pull out method and I haven't gotten prego yet. Don't feel bad a/b wishing for an accident I think it's natural.



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Old Mar 12th, 2011, 15:36 PM   18
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I have fantasies about sticking sewing needles into DH's condom stash.

I wish for an accident every month. He knows it too... I make it a point to let him know when AF comes every month. Is that mean?



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Old Mar 12th, 2011, 17:45 PM   19
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I wish for an accident every month. He knows it too... I make it a point to let him know when AF comes every month. Is that mean?
I do that too lol, we've been using the "standard days" method of avoiding pregnancy since I came off the pill. So I make sure to let him know it's worked every month, and every month I'm secretly wishing it wouldn't!



 
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Old Mar 13th, 2011, 03:55 AM   20
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Don't feel guilty, I'm like that too. My daughter is a result of me being in to 1% on the combined pill. I'm now on the mini pill - wish it would happen again, but what are the chances of that? lol x



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