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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 07:48 AM   1
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Well in the last week 5 friends have announced they r pregnant. Altho I'm happy for them at the same time I just want to cry. Y can't it be me. Sorry if I sound like I'm going on. I dont really have many people 2 talk 2 about it. And u girls are great and alway leave helpful comments. X



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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 08:15 AM   2
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Well in the last week 5 friends have announced they r pregnant. Altho I'm happy for them at the same time I just want to cry. Y can't it be me. Sorry if I sound like I'm going on. I dont really have many people 2 talk 2 about it. And u girls are great and alway leave helpful comments. X
I totally understand how you feel about this. I'd be very jealous too if people around me were getting pregnant and I was having to wait.

Just try and tell yourself that it's not your time yet but it will come and when you are excited and shouting about it from the rooftops someone else somewhere will be patiently waiting...



 
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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 09:43 AM   3
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You could look at it this way when your prego you can be the only one instead of having to share the spot light with friends. Just I thought, don't if helps any. I know it sucks I think that is what makes me miss it the most is seeing someone else prego and thinking how much I miss it.



 
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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 11:45 AM   4
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I hear ya. My cousin is pregnant along with Hubby's aunt and his cousin. It is just so hard right now. And my other cousin just had a 1 yr b-day party for her son and she doesn't stop writing status updates on him on facebook - it seriously is like 3x a day!

I really want it to me. I know my time will come and I just have to wait it out. I just keep on telling myself over and over again that now is just not a good time for us anyways. I want everything to be perfect and in place and if I were preggers right now it wouldn't be the way I want it to be....



 
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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 11:46 AM   5
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Totally understand how ur feeling chick, nearly all of my friends are either pregnant, or got a new born Im happy for them too but its just hard when its what u really want urself, our turn will come im sure x



 
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Old Mar 11th, 2011, 11:51 AM   6
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Just try and tell yourself that it's not your time yet but it will come and when you are excited and shouting about it from the rooftops someone else somewhere will be patiently waiting...
This is so true! When you have your LO you will think that if it was any other time it would not be that baby and then you will know it is the right baby at the right time.



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Old Mar 13th, 2011, 03:58 AM   7
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Well in the last week 5 friends have announced they r pregnant. Altho I'm happy for them at the same time I just want to cry. Y can't it be me. Sorry if I sound like I'm going on. I dont really have many people 2 talk 2 about it. And u girls are great and alway leave helpful comments. X
Totally know how you feel. Literally everyone I know, either my real life friends or online mummy friends have either: had a baby, got pregnant or starting TTC in the past 6 months or so lol. It's mad the baby boom thats going on at the moment! So hard when you wish you could be one of them. x



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Old Mar 13th, 2011, 04:57 AM   8
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I'm there with you girls! All my friends are popping, recently popped, due to pop soon, or just announcing their first, second or third bundle of joys. Also seems every time I turn on the TV people are announcing pregnancies- I think there were 2 on property development programmes in the last 2 weeks even! What's more, I work in a building just behind a maternity building. Would be nice for one day to not feel like the whole world is pregnant except for me. I was even at the gym yesterday and got caught up in 2 strangers conversations- the girl was saying how her OH really wants her to have a baby, but she's not ready...



 
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