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Old Mar 22nd, 2011, 12:32 PM   21
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totally agree with this. this is how i'm feeling right now. i'm just so impatient!



 
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Old Mar 22nd, 2011, 12:51 PM   22
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Thanks so much guys! It does make it easier to know I'm not alone. I love that thought that God is busy making my baby whilst I wait! Started my last cycle yesterday so really not long now til we ttc! X



 
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Old Mar 22nd, 2011, 15:11 PM   23
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feeling soooo bad tonight found out today my cousins pregnant and another friends been for her first scan today and found out shes expecting twins i cant cope with this waiting anymore



 
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Old Mar 22nd, 2011, 16:01 PM   24
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Facebook is evil for this kind of thing! I'm 26 this year and my Facebook page seems to be flooded with friends posts about pregnancies, new babies, houses and weddings - enough to make anyone jealous!

But don't worry it will be you next 6 weeks isn't long at all even though it might seem like an eternity.



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Old Mar 22nd, 2011, 16:14 PM   25
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Facebook is evil for this kind of thing! I'm 26 this year and my Facebook page seems to be flooded with friends posts about pregnancies, new babies, houses and weddings - enough to make anyone jealous!

But don't worry it will be you next 6 weeks isn't long at all even though it might seem like an eternity.

totally agree there facebook is very evil for that everyone on mine near enough are pregnant or has new borns



 
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Old Mar 24th, 2011, 12:08 PM   26
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totally agree there facebook is very evil for that everyone on mine near enough are pregnant or has new borns
odd_socks, i completely understand what you are going through - i went through that stage - the worst times were my follow-up visits after m/c. everyone else was pregnant and i had come there losing mine at 7 weeks. the whole world seemed pregnant except me. one of my colleagues who came with me to office in the same bus was pregnant and it was extremely testing. on top of it, my hubby was in Chicago for a project for a couple of months (i live in Chennai, he is into software consulting and travels quite often and mostly for a couple of months). so i could not even try even though the 6 months WTT period was over after m/c.

trust me, when the time is right, you too will have a gorgeous baby and you might even be able to laugh at yourself for feeling so low during this time.

Good luck to you too!! Keep your spirits up and dont lose hope. your time will come soon!!



 
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Old Mar 25th, 2011, 00:30 AM   27
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totally agree there facebook is very evil for that everyone on mine near enough are pregnant or has new borns
odd_socks, i completely understand what you are going through - i went through that stage - the worst times were my follow-up visits after m/c. everyone else was pregnant and i had come there losing mine at 7 weeks. the whole world seemed pregnant except me. one of my colleagues who came with me to office in the same bus was pregnant and it was extremely testing. on top of it, my hubby was in Chicago for a project for a couple of months (i live in Chennai, he is into software consulting and travels quite often and mostly for a couple of months). so i could not even try even though the 6 months WTT period was over after m/c.

trust me, when the time is right, you too will have a gorgeous baby and you might even be able to laugh at yourself for feeling so low during this time.

Good luck to you too!! Keep your spirits up and dont lose hope. your time will come soon!!

I look forward to laughing about these baby fever times... sigh.

Sorry odd_socks... I was in Target today and the girl in front of me was preggggooooo. The lady checking her out asked when she was due and the pregnant girl said, "I am due very soon." and the cashier said... "I always tell my daughter, you keep your legs closed! I dont want to be a grandma." One minute I was jealous of the prego girl at target and the next minute I was like, "wow, you get to hear everyones unnecessary stories as a prego." It seems like a no win situation sometimes.



 
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Old Mar 25th, 2011, 02:25 AM   28
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After my two MMC's I did not just feel jealous, I felt angry every time I saw someone with a baby. My close friend (who lives in Australia so we keep in contact via facebook) got pregnant about 3 weeks after I did the first time and was still pregnant when I got pregnant the second. I was so happy for my friend and especially since she had a MC a while before that but I felt jealous too, sometimes I still look at her toddler and think my son/daughter would only be a few weeks older.

But 6 weeks will really fly by and you do seem to have the option to try now if you really can not wait. Most importantly remember every baby you see on facerbook will not compare to your future LO. Your own child will always seem a million+ times better than anyone else's.



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Old Mar 25th, 2011, 05:10 AM   29
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I am so jealous right now as if people on Facebook haven't just had a new baby, they are waiting to give birth or are just announcing pregnancies and sharing scan pic's!

Then to top that off the woman on my pod of desks at work announced and showed her scan picture yesterday and there is another woman pregnant on a pod near by

And my sister & friend recently gave birth a couple of months ago

I am really struggling at the moment with all this around me and still so long to wait



 
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Old Mar 25th, 2011, 10:24 AM   30
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I am struggling today with the jealousy. I am trying to be positive about it. I was talking to my mom about a upcoming family vaca. I asked if my cousin was going - she says that my cousin was prolly thinking about having another baby - her baby turns 1 next month. Which is the same reason as why we aren't going - but we aren't telling anyone that.

This just hurt my feelings because we would be trying around that same time. I feel like I won't get "my time" and that if I fall preggers after her our family will think I did it because she was preggers. I am kinda nuts I guess. I don't know... I just feel I am her shadow for everything in life always.... I just feel jealous and for no reason really. It is just so hard sometime - my mom just fawns over her child and talks about him all the time - it hurts.



 
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