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Old Mar 13th, 2011, 05:51 AM   1
Mrs Mc
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Hate feeling jealous:(


Just having moan really but feels like everytime I go on facebook people are posting all there new baby photos!
Try and tell DH but he doesn't get it as actually only got 6 more weeks til we ttc so he thinks I'm being really impatient (which I know I am!) he also likes to remind me that it is my choice to wait 6 more weeks as I don't want a Xmas baby. We've got loads of family events at Xmas like birthdays anniversaries etc swell as xmas and new year so want our baby to have their own special time.
Just feel so jealous and hate it. Wish these 6 weeks would hurry up as they seem to be going very slowly!!



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Old Mar 13th, 2011, 09:28 AM   2
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The 6 weeks will fly. I know it's hard when you see people posting pics of their kiddies. I get jealous too and can't wait until it is time for me to do that.



 
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Old Mar 13th, 2011, 12:08 PM   3
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totally feel for u girl im sure the 6 weeks will fly by at least u have a date to look forward too hey? thats a big positive x



 
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Old Mar 13th, 2011, 12:20 PM   4
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I know exactly how you feel. We are somewhere between WTT and NTNP. I am very much NTNP but DH is not really that enthusiastic about it and would WTT if he had a choice. I honestly think he would be thrilled if we got a BFP but is still sitting on the fence about wanting to commit to TTC fully! I am surrounded by pregnant friends and babies and feel soooo broody all of the time. I am obsessed by everything baby! Just want a BFP so that we can start to share the excitement together, rather than me just sneakily a look at baby websites on the internet...



 
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Old Mar 13th, 2011, 15:23 PM   5
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Totally understand. I go between feeling jealous of my friends who are pregnant or have a baby, and really really down about it. We're WTC but also considering NTNP. The main problem is that I'm in my final year of my nursing degree (qualify in december) so it makes more sense to wait until after i've qualified and have settled into a new job. However, all I want is a family and to start trying. I go between thinking "to hell with it, let's start TTC" and "we need to wait another year really". Ugh. Never would have thought it would be this complicated. I also have PCOS so it could take ages to concieve anyway.



 
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Old Mar 13th, 2011, 15:45 PM   6
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I DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO TOOOOOOOOOOOO every 12 week scan announcment and im thinking ohhhh i wish that was me i loved the scans / buying etc etc... oh clock get ticking - but then at the same time i dnt want aidens time flying by too lol xxx



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2011, 08:05 AM   7
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I'm sure 6 weeks will fly by hun and before you know it you will be TTC. I know how you feel though we are WTT for another year yet and it is my choice as we want to do other things before trying for number 2 but every time someone tells me they are pregnant or i see someone with a bump I get a little wave of 'I wish that was me' lol



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2011, 12:02 PM   8
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6 weeks will have come and gone before you know it! Hang in there, sweetie!

What about if you start a 6-week project to get you through it? You might have one of these already, but what if you start a journal of love letters to your future baby? Or make a calendar countdown with post-its where you tear off one of the post-its every day and it's got a special note or activity each day? I guess it's really just something to distract you for 6ish weeks

You're so close!



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2011, 12:42 PM   9
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Thanks for all your support. Feel better today , think i was just having one of those days!! Got a few things coming up to look forward to so hope that helps. Getting new car in 2 weeks (DH said I had to get one as mine is old banger and he wanted a new one for our soon 2 be precious cargo!) Got things on coming up at work and couple of weekends away so hoping all this will help each week zoom by!!



 
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Old Mar 14th, 2011, 12:57 PM   10
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wow thats something good to look forward too x



 
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