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Old Mar 18th, 2011, 11:23 AM   1
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one step forward ten steps back!!!!!!!!!


Need to vent!!!
my oh and I are getting married in July and were hoping to start ttc straight away.
my oh has a chronic illness and was unsure if his worked properly so when we were at one of his hospital appointments we spoke to the Dr about it and he sent my oh for a test! Got results today and his doesn't work! I was trying to stay positive but this crushed me! my oh has to take medication to see if it helps if not after 18months and no luck we will have to have IVF
Sorry its long just feeling down!!!!!!!!



 
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Old Mar 18th, 2011, 11:35 AM   2
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Hi Besty

Sorry to hear your news...

Try and stay positive (I know it must be hard), and I really hope the meds work. Is this something they'll follow up on in the coming months? Try and focus on your wedding- there's not long to go now for that.



 
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Old Mar 18th, 2011, 11:38 AM   3
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I didn't want to read and run so I just wanted to say I am so sorry about your news and I hope the med's work and everything works out for you x



 
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Old Mar 18th, 2011, 11:42 AM   4
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Aww honey that's sucky news!



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Old Mar 18th, 2011, 11:44 AM   5
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Hi thanks for ur reply.
The hospital has told us to focus on the wedding and come back in August. They don't want to change his medication he's on atm as it can cause stress on the body and with the stress of the wedding he could become very ill! I guess I shouldn't learn not to get my hopes up! Once his medicine is changed in Aug it can take atleast 6months to work just feeling upset as so broody at the moment and everyone seems to be pregnant or having babies/children



 
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Old Mar 18th, 2011, 12:00 PM   6
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sorry to hear that chick, as said above try to stay positive, have a look online i know a change in diet can also help x



 
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Old Mar 18th, 2011, 12:27 PM   7
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aww huni, im so sorry about your news...i sure everything will work out ok though, keep smiling and we're all here for you xx



 
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Old Mar 18th, 2011, 13:06 PM   8
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Thank you so much girls means alot that your all here. Its so hard to think positively atm but im sure as the days go on I will feel a bit better xxx



 
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Old Mar 20th, 2011, 18:45 PM   9
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Didn't want to read and run. Sorry about the news. I know it's hard but try not to focus on the negative. You don't need any more stress with the wedding coming up! Hopefully you will have the best case scenario and get that soon!



 
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Old Mar 21st, 2011, 03:55 AM   10
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Sorry to hear this hun hope it all works out ok in the end



 
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