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Old Mar 24th, 2011, 16:16 PM   1
MissKM
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what do you think?


hiya ladies!!

can i have your opinions please....
me and OH DTD today and after going to retrieve my pill OH said 'you sure you want to take it' hmm now im sat wondering whether to take it or not...cause this is very sudden, OH has always been adamant that we are not going to try for a while yet!!

if i dont take the pill tonight (im on the mini pill) what do think my chances of conception are? i think they are very low, i mean ive missed the pill before and never got pregnant, but would my chances be different if i didnt take it tomorrow either?
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Old Mar 24th, 2011, 16:37 PM   2
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I don't know a lot about the mini pill, but I think it all depends on where you are in your pack, etc. I personally do not think you'd have much of a chance of conceiving from that specific time - unless you stop them and then continuing DTD for the next while.



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Old Mar 24th, 2011, 16:44 PM   3
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i dont think u would get pregnant no but there is always a slight risk, maybe your OH is coming around to the idea



 
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Old Mar 24th, 2011, 16:48 PM   4
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Hey that sounds like he is certainly coming around. Don't take it and tell him you didn't and that you are now unprotected and see what his reaction is. If he says don't take it tomorrow either then tell him you could get pregnant and if he says so what then you are NTNP. Whoopeeeeeee



 
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Old Mar 24th, 2011, 17:13 PM   5
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thanks for your replies girls...it seems like my gut instinct was right however.

it appears OH had a moment of weakness...i knew it was too good to be true. i feel stupid for even letting myself believe it could have been a possibility

he just looked at me and said 'maybe you should take it after all...nows not really the time, we both know that'

sometimes i feel like i should be used to getting let down with ttc its happened a few times now. i mean i know he wants kids which is why he has his 'moments' but my OH is pretty much ruled by his head when it comes to decisions like this xx



 
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Old Mar 24th, 2011, 19:15 PM   6
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Aw...maybe it's time for another talk about when the right time will be and how you get there.



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Old Mar 25th, 2011, 05:17 AM   7
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Unfortunately I think all men are ruled by their heads whereas us women tend to be more ruled by our hearts and then our heads take a part too

Sorry he changed his mind x



 
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Old Mar 25th, 2011, 08:28 AM   8
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OH does this to me, tho he needs to get a VR, but says I will get it done at the end of summer then changes his mind, and says in 4 years, then next year, I feel like my brain is gonna explode !



 
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Old Mar 25th, 2011, 09:52 AM   9
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sorry to hear about him changing his mind Miss KM, but atleast he's showing he's more tempted by the idea...
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Old Mar 25th, 2011, 16:44 PM   10
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thanks for your replies girls...it seems like my gut instinct was right however.

it appears OH had a moment of weakness...i knew it was too good to be true. i feel stupid for even letting myself believe it could have been a possibility

he just looked at me and said 'maybe you should take it after all...nows not really the time, we both know that'

sometimes i feel like i should be used to getting let down with ttc its happened a few times now. i mean i know he wants kids which is why he has his 'moments' but my OH is pretty much ruled by his head when it comes to decisions like this xx
Why do they tease us like that???



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