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Old Mar 26th, 2011, 08:56 AM   1
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Possible accident *update* advice needed


Well yesterday i was day 14 of my cycle, 6 days after DTD and having accident.....wasnt feeling great yesterday but i put it down to lack of sleep, however last night in the bath i noticed (sorry TMI) i had a small amount of blood come away, i totally freaked out and spoke with my mum and she said its possibly just midcycle stuff and i shouldnt worry, however ive been cramping and didnt have any more bleed until i just went to the bathroom, wasnt alot but am i worrying over nothing or is it possible that its implantation bleed? im freaking out b/c i know my OH wouldnt be happy if we were pregnant and im keeping it from him that ive had a bleed and i hate keeping it from him Maybe b/c my cycles are all over the place, all the stress of the past week could have made me AF come early? My doctors are closed till monday so i cant even go see them.......Help



 
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Old Mar 26th, 2011, 09:03 AM   2
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It does sound like a possible Implantation Bleed honey, have you got a test to be sure?



 
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Old Mar 26th, 2011, 09:07 AM   3
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i havent no would a test show yet? x



 
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Old Mar 26th, 2011, 09:11 AM   4
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Hmmm I have heard of women getting very faint positives, maybe wait a few more days see if AF does show up? When is AF due? And if she doesn't show up don't worry, it's not the worlds biggest mistake and if you are pregnant, i'm sure the OH will come around, my OH and i were together for 5 years and he freaked but now he's come to terms and is fine, don't worry to much honey until you know for definate.



 
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Old Mar 26th, 2011, 09:11 AM   5
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Hi odd socks,
If I were you i'd talk to your OH about it. You're obviously upset and worried about what he will think but maybe, and i've seen that you've been wtt for ages now, actually being put in a situation where neither of you have purposefully set out to get pregnant, might just make him come round to the idea of a baby. I think it would be better him knowing and having his support, than trying to deal with this on your own.
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Old Mar 26th, 2011, 09:16 AM   6
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thank you both AF is due april the 8th so a while away yet, i will speak to him in a minute when ive calmed down, it just freaked me out is all. Ive had loads of stress this week which makes me wonder maybe it is just AF but then after having accident now im convincing myself i am pregnant. Its my OHs reaction if i was pregnant that worries me most. I will try get a test if i can or get into the doctors monday xx



 
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Old Mar 26th, 2011, 09:20 AM   7
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Hiya,

I'm sorry you're having so much stress over this but I definitley agree you should sit your oh down to fill him in on what's happening. If you did turn out to be pregnant I'm sure he'd come round and I bet he'd be happier you told him what you were going through.

It does sound like it might be implantation bleeding although like you said it could just be all the stress throwing your cycles out of whack.

When is af due? If you wanted to take a test then get a frer one as they are designed to detect pregnancy hormone up to 7 days before it's due. My best friend got a positive with one 12 days after dtd.

Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.

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Old Mar 26th, 2011, 09:25 AM   8
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im freaking out b/c i know my OH wouldnt be happy if we were pregnant and im keeping it from him that ive had a bleed and i hate keeping it from him
Hon, i doubt your OH would be mad if you had a bit of spotting & you're just trying to understand what it is....... as soon as you get some answers, i'm sure you'll discuss it with him. You don't know if you're pregnant or not, so you're certainly not keeping anything from him! And yes, it's too early to test & get an accurate answer. So there is no way of knowing. Also, if you are having sex & "had an accident" your OH knows there is always a chance of pregnancy. Unless he is very controlling and/or very mean... i don't think you have anything to worry about.

How long are your usual cycles? DTD at CD8 seems too early to conceive, and CD 14 seems too early for implantation bleeding. Based on a typical 28 day cycle... you would be ovulating around now, or at least currently be in your fertile period. You can generally tell when you're ovulating bc there is alot more cervical mucus/discharge.



 
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Old Mar 26th, 2011, 09:32 AM   9
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my cycles are usually between 28 and 34 days, the past 3 months ive been 30 days, 30 days and then 32 days so i really thought it was impossible to fall pregnant from the accident on day 7



 
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Old Mar 26th, 2011, 09:37 AM   10
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It's never unpossible if your cycles are crazy, I haven't told anyone this... but this one i'm carrying was the result of a missing period for over 3 months and 20 seconds of not full sex XD Don't wanna worry you, but our bodies sometimes go a little crazy and you may ovulate late or early, and stessful times can't be helping you any and sperm can stay in the body upto seven days but i hope you get the answer you want and everything works out fine, i'm sure you OH will support you either way



 
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