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Old Mar 28th, 2011, 15:17 PM   1
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Struggling today!


I feel really upset today. I only have 8 months to wait, and having a date has really helped lately but today, I feel so teary at the thought of not having another baby for so long! I don't know how I am going to get through this. I have never wanted anything so bad! Even the 2 yrs or so I spent waiting for my dd were more bareable than this! Maybe it's because I know how much pleasure a child brings? Does anyone have any spare hugs for me?



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Old Mar 28th, 2011, 15:29 PM   2
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{{i want it all}}

Lots and lots of hugs for you! I don't have a child yet, but I understand how difficult it is to reign in patience and try to get through it without losing sanity. It's not easy! But the months will fly by sooner than you think - we set our date a few months ago and I've been surprised how time has passed so quickly.



 
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Old Mar 28th, 2011, 15:30 PM   3
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i think it probably is b/c u know how amazing motherhood is and u want to share that love with another child, i hope it flies by for you, i have another 10 months to wait and i honestly dont know how i will last that long either x



 
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Old Mar 28th, 2011, 15:38 PM   4
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I hear you! Is there a specific reason why you are waiting?

I always find that helps me - I remember that it is better for everyone if we wait a little while longer, in terms of our careers. It is hard on days, but know it will all be wonderful when the time actually comes!



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Old Mar 28th, 2011, 15:42 PM   5
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i think it probably is b/c u know how amazing motherhood is and u want to share that love with another child, i hope it flies by for you, i have another 10 months to wait and i honestly dont know how i will last that long either x
10 months? When did oyu set a date?!!! I'm so chuffed for you! That's wicked! You made me smile now!



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Old Mar 28th, 2011, 15:46 PM   6
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I hear you! Is there a specific reason why you are waiting?

I always find that helps me - I remember that it is better for everyone if we wait a little while longer, in terms of our careers. It is hard on days, but know it will all be wonderful when the time actually comes!
Money mainly. We have bought a new house which is needing doing up, and we are getting there just slowly! And we need to sell our house, but by the new year (worst case scenario) we should be able to afford both houses, and for me to not work for a year.

I know it will be better to wait, but sometimes that doesn't get me through the day! I don't want to whinge on again at my hubby, as he is doing the best he can, for us all, but my urge for another baby is so strong right now.



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Old Mar 28th, 2011, 15:58 PM   7
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Aw hugs for you!

I dont have quite that long to wait! hoping to ttc in july! but its all very exciting!! and i wish it was july now!



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Old Mar 28th, 2011, 17:24 PM   8
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I have days like that. We're waiting until September but it seems like it just cannot come quick enough. I'm go to university and am actually eagerly awaiting finals because I know that I will be super busy then so less time to dwell. I keep trying to find things to keep busy with and keep my mind off of it!



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Old Mar 28th, 2011, 17:28 PM   9
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Old Mar 28th, 2011, 18:11 PM   10
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i know how you feel huni...one of my friends has just announced shes pregnant with twins today...as happy as i am for her i just keep thinking 'i want it to be my turn'. its been really hard this past week, broodiness really does come in waves xx



 
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