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Old Jul 22nd, 2011, 20:26 PM   1
LaurenDC
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A little nervous :/


So I was just fb messaging my friend asking her if she had any OBGYN recommendations since I don't have any in the area yet... My hubby and I want to start TTC in October and I'd like to have a preconception visit. Well, she said "last time we spoke about babies, you weren't on the pill or using condoms, right? You might want to see a reproductive endocrinologist." I'm confused. We have been using the pull-out method for about six years now and I never got pregnant. Do you think this means I'll have trouble conceiving? My husband doesn't have any pre-"stuff" and I can't use BC pills bc they make me throw up and give me chronic yeast infections. Now I feel a bit bummed anyway though. Am I being paranoid?



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Old Jul 22nd, 2011, 20:58 PM   2
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no some people can just use it fine, and there is only a few days a month that you actually can get pregnant, so mabye you neer had sex on those days or pulled out at the right time, even if a little bit got in there you need millions to make that trip so many of the little fellas die



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Old Jul 22nd, 2011, 23:44 PM   3
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I wouldn't be worried, the pull out method is very effective if used properly and OH knows when to pull out.



 
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Old Jul 23rd, 2011, 07:33 AM   4
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Yes my husband has NEVER even gotten close to making a mistake and not pulling out on time. He's very good with the timing... So I never really thought we wouldn't be able to conceive, just because we hadn't gotten pregnant using the pull out method. But after my friend said I should see a reproductive endocrinologist I was kind of surprised and it worried me a little.



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Old Jul 23rd, 2011, 07:42 AM   5
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Im pretty sure this aint true. considering if your oh pulls out and nothing gets in there then your not gonna get preg and when you are trying he aint pulling out!!



 
Old Jul 23rd, 2011, 07:50 AM   6
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Right right exactly. And he always pulls out at least ten seconds before, and then I sort of help him along to finish him off... . So I don't think we necessarily have any fertility issues, I just think he's good at timing the pull-out, and we've also probably been a little bit lucky!!



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Old Jul 23rd, 2011, 07:53 AM   7
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Right right exactly. And he always pulls out at least ten seconds before, and then I sort of help him along to finish him off... . So I don't think we necessarily have any fertility issues, I just think he's good at timing the pull-out, and we've also probably been a little bit lucky!!
Exactly

It would be diff if he wasnt pulling out or something was getting in there and nothing was happening but thats not the case x



 
Old Jul 23rd, 2011, 07:57 AM   8
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what does obgyn mean hun? x



 
Old Jul 23rd, 2011, 08:05 AM   9
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what does obgyn mean hun? x
Ohh sorry!! Here in the US we call our "lady doctors" OBGYNs, AKA obstetrician/gynecologist.



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Old Jul 23rd, 2011, 08:07 AM   10
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what does obgyn mean hun? x
Ohh sorry!! Here in the US we call our "lady doctors" OBGYNs, AKA obstetrician/gynecologist.
Oh i see lol
you guys do it differently to here in the uk lol

is it oct your stating to try? will it be your first? x



 
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