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Old Apr 6th, 2012, 06:55 AM   #801
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Oh Jbell, I sure hope so! Kind of taking what OH has sais as a mini freak out (I believe many men don't get the whole baby thing and stress overe it) and carry on as normal ----- if he is willing to 'dip' without protection then he is excepting parenthood -- right I mean the condoms are right next to the bed in HIS drawer and I point this out to hime EVERY time --=- I even put one in his hand the other night and he still didn't wear it

Emma, that is deffo a BFP --- I didn't have to squint either. Whan is AF actually due?


 
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Old Apr 6th, 2012, 07:37 AM   #802
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Mrspeanut- Omg I can definately see a line!!! I would say that's definately a positive!!! You have really nice nails by the way! Yey!


 
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Old Apr 6th, 2012, 08:16 AM   #803
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mrspeanut, I think I see a faint line as well - fingers crossed it's your BFP!!


 
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Old Apr 6th, 2012, 08:31 AM   #804
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Thank you all, I've put it on the pregnancy tests gallery and one person has warned me that this brand are known to give pink evap lines and that's what I'm afraid. I'm going to retest on Sunday with a different brand. If there's a line on that one then I'll get excited!

D your hubby knows how kids are made so if he's willing to take the risk i'd say he's not definitely against another kid, perhaps it was a bit of a panic. How have things been since?


 
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Old Apr 6th, 2012, 08:42 AM   #805
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Things have been ok --- he has been exhausted just recently so wondering if this is playing a part in him saying no My 'plan' is to leave him be for a while. Make sure he is getting enough rest (middle of the night is NOT bedtime when up at 6) and carry on as normal.....

My worry is, if I fall pregnant due to not using protection, what if he blames me somehow I mean if he truely has changed his mind and he knows I haven't He might resent/hate me then --- but I don't want to go back on the pill only to come off it again if he changes his mind. Plus, the pill triggers my migraines dreadfully -- the doctor took me off of the pill. He knows this! That is why we were using condoms -- until recently when pull n pray became our motto

Blagh, what would you girls do? Such a shame -- he is a wonderful father!


 
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Old Apr 6th, 2012, 08:44 AM   #806
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and my 3 year old would make an amazing big sister --- she would love it sooo much!


 
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Old Apr 6th, 2012, 08:48 AM   #807
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I would sit him down and have a discussion - no more guessing what might happen. I would tell him that I wanted to stay off the pill, due to migraines and Doctor's orders, and if he isn't ready then he will need to use condoms during that time. Make him aware that there is a chance he could become a father again if he doesn't.


 
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Old Apr 6th, 2012, 08:55 AM   #808
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Thankyou puppymom -- that is exactly what I said when we discussed it the other evening. x


 
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Old Apr 6th, 2012, 10:58 AM   #809
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Omg!!! Emma that's a bfp for sure!! What's your EDD??

Baby - you are doing all the right things - don't you worry!!!


 
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Old Apr 6th, 2012, 12:37 PM   #810
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Oh I can't believe I forgor to tell you this! My temps have jumoed from 36.4 to 36.8 this morning --- which is 98.6 F!

Big jump??


 
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