nearly an oops!

babyfan82 · Feb 13th, 2012, 10:58 AM

oh my goodness. Well, this morning me and oh were... Ahem, busy

and he asked me if i just wanted to forget protection knowing its not a safe time! This is the man who doesn't seem a hundred percent behind the idea of a fourth baby! Well it was very tempting, its a good job i've got willpower. Ha ha ha ha! I just had to really think about why we are waiting in the first place. Hope he doesn't spring that one on me again tho as i'm not sure how long my will power and sensible head will last

Vonnie18 · Feb 13th, 2012, 12:34 PM

Men! They like to mess with our heads eh? X

babyfan82 · Feb 13th, 2012, 12:40 PM

oh yes! Need to keep focused on the long term plan!

OliviaRae · Feb 13th, 2012, 17:00 PM

Oh wow! Good for you though

I would not be able to resist haha. What are your reasons for wtt? If you don't mind me asking of course

k.mcmahan2010 · Feb 13th, 2012, 17:03 PM

Ugh this sounds just like my DH. Never wants to use protection, but says that he isn't ready for kids yet....men, I swear! Lol

jbell157 · Feb 13th, 2012, 21:19 PM

Oh I'm proud of you!

It's tough to say no. My OH knows I want to wait until May but he is always talking about us getting pg or trying and I'm like nooooo. Doesn't it feel like we spend so much energy trying to convince them then we turn around and have to restrain them? I agree with k....men!

MollyWeasley · Feb 13th, 2012, 21:45 PM

Wow! You have some very strong willpower. That would have been very tempting.

Men!

babyfan82 · Feb 14th, 2012, 05:31 AM

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Originally Posted by OliviaRae

Oh wow! Good for you though

I would not be able to resist haha. What are your reasons for wtt? If you don't mind me asking of course

well we're waiting for work and financial reasons really. I'd really like to take a full years maternity leave off next time and i'm waiting to go through a threshold at work so january next year works out best all round for ttc. I'm a teacher so i could unofficially start my maternity leave at the start of the summer hols in july and not go back until september the following year. It will be our last baby so i don't want to rush everything and miss out on lots of time with him/her. I'm enjoying wtt and planning every detail! I'd love a home water birth next time and i want a new pram and our children's rooms need new furniture in order to make space for new baby. Busy busy! Ha ha! And i seem to fall pregnant very quickly so i know an oops for us would mean a new baby appearing before everything is in place. Hee hee. I sound bonkers don't i? Willpower is a must! Silly husband doesn't understand my need to plan

OliviaRae · Feb 14th, 2012, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by babyfan82

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Originally Posted by OliviaRae

Oh wow! Good for you though

I would not be able to resist haha. What are your reasons for wtt? If you don't mind me asking of course

well we're waiting for work and financial reasons really. I'd really like to take a full years maternity leave off next time and i'm waiting to go through a threshold at work so january next year works out best all round for ttc. I'm a teacher so i could unofficially start my maternity leave at the start of the summer hols in july and not go back until september the following year. It will be our last baby so i don't want to rush everything and miss out on lots of time with him/her. I'm enjoying wtt and planning every detail! I'd love a home water birth next time and i want a new pram and our children's rooms need new furniture in order to make space for new baby. Busy busy! Ha ha! And i seem to fall pregnant very quickly so i know an oops for us would mean a new baby appearing before everything is in place. Hee hee. I sound bonkers don't i? Willpower is a must! Silly husband doesn't understand my need to plan

Gotcha, those are all very good reasons for wtt. It will fly I'm sure! It's already almost March! Good luck xx

I Love Lucy · Feb 14th, 2012, 10:35 AM

Good for you for being able to stick to your WTT plan. I think if OH asked me that I'd agree immediately.

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babyfan82 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Derbyshire Posts: 137	nearly an oops! oh my goodness. Well, this morning me and oh were... Ahem, busy and he asked me if i just wanted to forget protection knowing its not a safe time! This is the man who doesn't seem a hundred percent behind the idea of a fourth baby! Well it was very tempting, its a good job i've got willpower. Ha ha ha ha! I just had to really think about why we are waiting in the first place. Hope he doesn't spring that one on me again tho as i'm not sure how long my will power and sensible head will last

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k.mcmahan2010 Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Florida, USA Posts: 245	Ugh this sounds just like my DH. Never wants to use protection, but says that he isn't ready for kids yet....men, I swear! Lol

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jbell157 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Georgia Posts: 663	Oh I'm proud of you! It's tough to say no. My OH knows I want to wait until May but he is always talking about us getting pg or trying and I'm like nooooo. Doesn't it feel like we spend so much energy trying to convince them then we turn around and have to restrain them? I agree with k....men!

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