I'm so glad you're going through the same thing. I've been stressing out about it since I found out. Especially considering they weren't even TTC. And if we start TTC when we plan (and hopefully fall right away) we'd be pg at the same time. I'm trying to think of the positives like it could be a great bonding experience for SIL and I and our LOs will probably be close since they could potentially only be months apart in age. But I think the shock/disappointment that I'm not going to be the only one pg in the family is taking over at the moment.

Chickenchaser, you might want to check with a mod/admin about whether or not the link in your signature is ok. I might be wrong, but I'm thinking anything where member's could potentially donate money has to be approved.

Thanks hun but already have, I checked with booflebump, she said it ok is signature and if I talk about it just not allowed to do a thread about it. Thanks anyway

I hope the post office in our new town is better than the one here. I usually avoid going in there all together because the first time I did, I had to send a package which I had never done before. Instead of being helpful the staff member made me feel like an idiot.

Today, I went to go get my mail with the new key but the only mail in my box was papers saying the box was vacant. Now I know there was a mix up last week where they were supposed to change a different box but instead changed my box. So I call the post office as the forms are from them and the guy I speak to tries to say it's my fault! Excuse me, I have not done anything to say my address has changed so this is not my fault. So I guess we'll see if my mail will be delivered tomorrow like the guy said. If not, I'm sure OH is going to be pissed because he has a $1500 check that is supposed to be in the mail tomorrow.

Just been for a swim and as I was going in the aquanatal class was coming out the torture! Not fair!

I'm tardy for the party, but can I join? We got married last September and have been debating when we should get our baby making on since . . . umm . . . pretty much as soon as we got back from the honeymoon! I'm 3 years older than OH, so I'm a little more antsy than he is. After many "discussions," we've finally reached a compromise that we're both excited about. We're planning on NTNP June-Aug and if we have no luck, then actively TTC starting in September. I am SOO excited I can hardly stand it.

I just stopped taking my BC in the middle of my cycle because OH and I hate how it makes me feel, and we just got sick of it. I'm sure all the medical professionals on this thread would not approve, but we just got fed up. I've charted before when we were using the FAM method, and I had really regular cycles and ovulation. I'm planning on charting until June to avoid pregnancy and make sure that my cycles are settling into a routine. Then, I'm hiding the thermometer. I tend to get obsessed with stuff, so I don't want to chart while we're TTC because I know I'll way overanalyze every temperature and make both myself and OH crazy!

Anyone else TTC their first in their 30s? I'll be turning 30 in June right when we're starting to NTNP.

So excited that I found this thread and have some people who are on the same general timeline that I am!

Welcome BakingEm I have added you to the list

I will be 36 in June so eeeekkkkkk you are not the oldest here

Hello ladies - a quick update on my situation - you may have seen the thread already but I got my this morning! Really not what we'd planned but a lovely surprise all the same. Almost enough to make me believe in fate! So I guess this is goodbye for now but I hope to see you in first trimester very soon - June's not far off now! Thanks for your support and I really hope this hasn't offended anyone - a couple of you said you'd like to know the outcome. Best of luck and lots of

YAY our first BFP. Congratulations and Good luck to you and I will change your status on the front page. Please keep popping in to say Hi. After all you are still part of our group we have claimed you

Aww thanks so much chickenchaser, that means a lot! I said to my husband earlier 'oh no, now I'll have to make new friends on my forum and I won't be at the same stage as my old friends!'

Awww pish posh what is a trimester between friends