Anyone elses OH get annoyed when you talk about babies too much?

x Zaly x · Apr 14th, 2012, 11:53 AM

Just wanted to know if anyone elses OH's get annoyed when you talk to them about babies too much? Me and my husband have decided we will ttc in dec/jan time but to be fair I don't talk about it that much. Im just the kind of person that likes to plan a lot. so when i try to include him too much he says just wait till its time. It annoys me

goddess25 · Apr 14th, 2012, 11:57 AM

Yes my hubby does. He tells me I am obsessed and he finds it boring but like you I am a planner and like to talk about stuff. He just wants to dtd and if it happens it does and if it doesn't no big deal!

Snuffles · Apr 14th, 2012, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by goddess25

Yes my hubby does. He tells me I am obsessed and he finds it boring but like you I am a planner and like to talk about stuff. He just wants to dtd and if it happens it does and if it doesn't no big deal!

Lol that's almost like my OH, except he's a little more into it. But when I talk about it, he feels like he's being rushed. And he makes sure when we dtd it doesn't happen

goddess25 · Apr 14th, 2012, 12:06 PM

Funny... we love them but they are a pain at times.

x Zaly x · Apr 14th, 2012, 12:10 PM

Thats how my husband acts to! men arughhhh!

goddess25 · Apr 14th, 2012, 12:22 PM

Its hard when you want them to be on board as much as us... but they just don't feel the same way for the most part. They don't get the longing and the broodiness and just hte feeling that your not done!

I Love Lucy · Apr 14th, 2012, 12:48 PM

My OH will talk general things. But if I bring up our date at all he tends to get really irritated because he doesn't want to put an exact time on it because he says it's not a 100% sure thing. It's so frustrating because I'm definitely a planner so I like to know how much time I have.

tinkalink · Apr 14th, 2012, 14:44 PM

I asked my partner if I was too obsessed the other day and he said no and that I should enjoy every step of us TTC and becoming a mummy

I can't help but feel I only talk about pregnancy these days though......

Squarepants · Apr 14th, 2012, 18:21 PM

Hi guys

My DH knows im a planner. I cant help it ill admit i probably plan to much. He doesnt get irritated he knows i just need to have every detail planned out. He doesnt like talking about it to much at this stage because we are a while of TTC. But he has suggested opening up an account for out baby fund

He says thing like would u find out if it was a boy or girl and things like that but never really set conversations about it unless i bring it up

nikkiana · Apr 14th, 2012, 22:25 PM

OH is frightened of fatherhood, and this makes talking about anything related to potentially having children one day very tense. I have to be prepared to launch a very serious, potential very emotional discussion every time I point out that a baby is cute on the Internet.... so by far and large, I do my brooding on my own and try to talk about it when it's most opportune.

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x Zaly x Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Glasgow Posts: 647	Anyone elses OH get annoyed when you talk about babies too much? Just wanted to know if anyone elses OH's get annoyed when you talk to them about babies too much? Me and my husband have decided we will ttc in dec/jan time but to be fair I don't talk about it that much. Im just the kind of person that likes to plan a lot. so when i try to include him too much he says just wait till its time. It annoys me

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goddess25 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: vancouver Posts: 9,280	Yes my hubby does. He tells me I am obsessed and he finds it boring but like you I am a planner and like to talk about stuff. He just wants to dtd and if it happens it does and if it doesn't no big deal!

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goddess25 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: vancouver Posts: 9,280	Funny... we love them but they are a pain at times.

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x Zaly x Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Glasgow Posts: 647	Thats how my husband acts to! men arughhhh!

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goddess25 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: vancouver Posts: 9,280	Its hard when you want them to be on board as much as us... but they just don't feel the same way for the most part. They don't get the longing and the broodiness and just hte feeling that your not done!

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I Love Lucy Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Illinois, USA Posts: 6,498	My OH will talk general things. But if I bring up our date at all he tends to get really irritated because he doesn't want to put an exact time on it because he says it's not a 100% sure thing. It's so frustrating because I'm definitely a planner so I like to know how much time I have.

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tinkalink Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 668	I asked my partner if I was too obsessed the other day and he said no and that I should enjoy every step of us TTC and becoming a mummy I can't help but feel I only talk about pregnancy these days though......

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Squarepants Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Adelaide, Australia Posts: 243	Hi guys My DH knows im a planner. I cant help it ill admit i probably plan to much. He doesnt get irritated he knows i just need to have every detail planned out. He doesnt like talking about it to much at this stage because we are a while of TTC. But he has suggested opening up an account for out baby fund He says thing like would u find out if it was a boy or girl and things like that but never really set conversations about it unless i bring it up

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nikkiana Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: NYC Posts: 66	OH is frightened of fatherhood, and this makes talking about anything related to potentially having children one day very tense. I have to be prepared to launch a very serious, potential very emotional discussion every time I point out that a baby is cute on the Internet.... so by far and large, I do my brooding on my own and try to talk about it when it's most opportune.

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