*Update* So I have decided to go to a LaLeche meeting they are supposed to be having on friday. And I talked with a lactation specialist at my wic office and they just encouraged me to keep at it and they told me to try fenugreek.And she said most likely the reason we are so much trouble is because of the stress that is going on in my house right now. So yesterday I talked with my husband and we cleared up some issues that were causing me stress. And soon after that I was able to latch lo one to the left breast no problem.And now this morn. he took from both breast. So things are going better and I know now that I have to have more patience and be calm.