10DPO and its all going wrong, wrong, wrong...why me

Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive' started by Ilovemysoldier, Aug 19, 2009.

  1. Ilovemysoldier

    Ilovemysoldier Well-Known Member

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    :cry: Feeling a bit sorry for myself here peeps. I was feeling so many symptoms last week and was really hopeful that this would be our month. So when i got to 7DPO and got some brown spotting- i was v.happy and knew this must of been inplantationl.
    Sadly i think its all going the same way as before. Ive been spotting for 3 days now (but its not increasing and its only brown) and all my hope has gone out the window.
    This happened in feburary and i tested a day before my period got a positive then the next day my period came.
    Its all going the same way now and im fed up of this disappointment every month :growlmad:
    -sigh-
    xx
     
  2. Ilovemysoldier

    Ilovemysoldier Well-Known Member

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    sigh sigh sigh
     
  3. starrilicious

    starrilicious First time mommy

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    Don't be sad hun, try try and try again. Is all you can do... :hugs:
     
  4. willbamom1day

    willbamom1day Truly blessed - I'm a mom

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    I am 8 dpo and have been brown spotting off and on all day today - not alot just when i wipe and i have NEVER had this before I am 5/6 days til af
     
  5. wait.and.see

    wait.and.see Please stick little bean

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    After getting positive tests for a week and a half, positive at doctors, then getting my period yesterday i understand the dissappointment you may be feeling.
    There is really nothing you can do, but keep trying.
    I plan on not testing so early this month so hopefully if i am going to have a chemical i wont know about it.. thats the plan anyway ( i know i probably wont stick to it lol)
    Good luck hunni xo
     
  6. MsLesley

    MsLesley Well-Known Member

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    dont give up hope yet...you dont know if the same thing will happen if you are pregnant. Tho, I do understand your worry. In my last pregnancy, i had very light light implantation bleed for the first time out all my pregnancies and it ended in miscarriage so im worried that if i have implantation bleeding again, that it might mean the same thing. But you know, in reality...it could have been a coincidence, and probably was.

    i dont think you should start worrying yourself just yet...chin up sista ;)
     
  7. Megg33k

    Megg33k Going with the flow!

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    Take everything as a positive until proven wrong... but don't expect... only hope! That's all I've got. It doesn't really work for me, but maybe it'll work for you! :hugs:
     
  8. Mrs.T

    Mrs.T c'mmon BFP!!!!

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    have faith! Sometimes, life surprises us. Dont lose hope until the AF comes. And when she does come, you still have many more months to try for a BFP.

    Baby dust to everyone!
     
  9. Emmysmommy

    Emmysmommy Well-Known Member

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    Hon be optimistic, with my daughter I had what I thought was my light af and then after positive tests at the dr and at home I had another "light" af and thought I was miscarrying I went to the er and was told that everything was fine and that sometimes the embryo will nestle deeper in the uterine wall causing a second implantation bleeding, now i have a beautiful little girl. The same could be for you, if the dr confirmed a positive then in 9 mos you could be having a beautiful baby of your own. If not then next month will be your month, don't get your spirits down you will have a baby very very soon. Lots of fairy dust and prayers for you.
     
  10. Ollieburger

    Ollieburger Well-Known Member

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    I understand how you are feeling. I am 11dpo and I think I have started AF today, 4 days early. Whats going on? I have had brown spotting all week. Its all so wierd and I thought my body was quite regular obviously I am wrong. I just feel like crying today as I was feeling hopeful this month.
     
  11. Ilovemysoldier

    Ilovemysoldier Well-Known Member

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    Omg this is happening to me too. Ive had this brown spotting all week and now its turned red but im not due on my period for another 4 days either...what is going on indeed.

    Thank you for all your support and positive comments girls i appreciate it so much. My body hates me i swear it.
    Im so disapointed this month because oh is going away on tour for 6months this week so this was our last month to get a bfp until he comes home. I know we can try again next year when hes back but we sooo wanted it to be this month -sigh- never imagined it would be so hard to get pregnant i really didnt.
    Oh well maybe this red bleeding will stop tomorrow and ill have a miracle happen...fingers Xd
    Thanks again for all the comments
    xxx
     

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