I've been a VIP member there since 2010. Most of the women who were there when I started left around the time my last VIP ran out. I decided to wait and see what happened. My hubby was concerned enough about me being depressed and not having anyone to talk to in real time about what happened and told me to get it back. When I posted about it, including the emails between their "customer support" and myself, he was outraged to say the least. And to find out that one of the women, who had been a FB friend but got blocked after she had gone off on me for posting about our struggles financially when he was hurt at work, had others SPYING on me and reporting to her, made him so angry. I'm having to think up a way to figure out who the traitor is so that I can report the stalking to the proper authorities, or at the very least remove and block the person who is spying. It's pathetic how juvenile these "grown women" act. And it's pathetic that for 3 years people have been asking FF to put a block/mute/ignore feature on their site and they refuse. Almost seems like they want to stir up controversy, especially when I got booted from the VIP for reporting her actions. And that "WARN" button they tell you to use is useless. Nothing happens. One time a woman came into the chat room and was WARNED more than 100 times and NOTHING HAPPENED!! So, yeah, I sure won't ever go back to their site. I'm keeping the charting going until I find another site I like then I'm closing the account completely and permanently.