11DPO and got a BFN on Digital Test

[Queenie23]

Hello

I have a pretty spot on 31 day cycle. I always get a peak on the Fertility monitor on CD16. I have been TTC for 6 cycles now and never get any symptoms apart from this cycle!!!

I am currently 11DPO (CD28) and I have had tiny little twinges and cramps in my lower stomach which is weird for me. I also keep having weird twinges on the outside of my boobs, which is also unusual for me.

I tested this morning with a Clearblue Digital and it said "NOT PREGNANT" god those words hurt.

Do you think there is still hope. Or are they pretty accurate. It says 86% of women get a positive result 3 days early which I am. xx

 

[Chels.Milne]

Of course there's still hope! From what I understand, there are a lot of women who just won't get a BFP until after AF is late. You're not out yet! Good luck!

 

[river_mommy]

Maybe you are one of the 14% who are preggo and get bfn with those. Try a FRER.

 

[cloud9]

try a test with higher sensitivity i think the digital ones are not as sensitive as a frer etc. you could've implanted late (anywhere between 3-12 days after ovulation) so up to 2 days before af starts. and then you will only get a positive around 2-3 days after implantation! so thats why alot of women who implant late dont get a positive until after their af is late. i would wait a few days and take a test on the day af is due if she hasnt shown up. and 2-3 days later again just incase you are pg and you just implanted late. i know i didnt get a positive with my 2nd pg until 15 dpo (very faint) and 18dpo it got darker....

 

[ESpacey]

Yeah, the ditto about the digitals! They're not as sensitive as the FRER! Not to mention you're only 11dpo, there's still hope!!

 

[Queenie23]

Thank you for your comments. I am trying to stay positive until AF shows. Baby dust to all of you! I will keep you posted! xx

 

[ohmyitschelsi]

I'm also 11dpo...and got my negative yesterday been spotting off and on for a few days...hoping my damn af doesnt come..its like hide and seek at this point.

 

[Queenie23]

awwww could be implantation! Fingers crossed. It's so depressing isn't it. Especially when you set your BFN and then have to go to work and pretend to be happy all day. You just want to lock yourself away and cry! x

 

[beckiieboo]

hey
this month i tested at 11dpo with a digi and it also said not pregnant, however a FRER was a VREY faint line, von 12 dpi it was a dark lne and 13DPO a digi confined pregnant.. so there is still hope.. my boobs hurt as of 10 dpi at night and 11dpo onwards.. x

 

[Queenie23]

Beckiieboo, Congratualtions!! You must be so excited.

I'm so glad there is hope for me I feel a little more positive now, Thanks so much everyone! X

 

[ohmyitschelsi]

awwww could be implantation! Fingers crossed. It's so depressing isn't it. Especially when you set your BFN and then have to go to work and pretend to be happy all day. You just want to lock yourself away and cry! x

I've been HOPING/PRAYING that it could possible be implantation, but every day it feels like AF is closer to coming, which makes me even more depressed, because I got my hopes up, once again.

 

[yellowyamyam]

Well I think there's still hope for you too! I hope there's hope for me too!

I tested this morning with FRER on 10dpo and I think I saw a VERY faint shadow in the 2nd line position but can't be sure. As tomorrow's my birthday, am planning to test again... Not sure if it's a good idea though. NO symptoms apart from creamy CM in the morning til about 2-3pm. Boobs aren't sore.

 

[ohmyitschelsi]

I don't know about testing on your birthday, it could be a good start..or bad start...maybe wait until a day after your bday, make tomorrow all about me, HAPPY BIRTHDAY by the way. My boobs aren't sure eithier, I don't think, its funny, I'll randomly push on them to see if there sore, so I'm sure there not...if I do that to check hahha.

 

[Mizztina14]

same over here too...tested with FRER DIGITAL this morning with FMU and got a :BFN: but when i opened it upit had a very faint line...so im confused guess ill just wait till 3 days and test on my expected test day due to my ov chart.

 

[Queenie23]

What's with all the BFN's. I'm so glad it's not just me. When my best friend test me saying she was pregnant I felt like my insides sunk! When ever I see her I smile and I feel so fake. It's so hard to try and be happy for people and then look down and see a "NOT PREGNANT" result. It's like a massive reminder that you are alone compared to those around you. Especially when you have wanted it so much longer than your friends.

Ohmyitschelsi- I think that sounds really promising!! I hope it is implantation! Please keep us updated won't you! I noticed lots of women on here never post if they got their BFP and just disappear! I'm dying to know how these women got on with their test. lol.

Fingers and toes crossed for all of us. Would be amazing if it worked out for all of us around the same time! X

 

[cloud9]

it's very hard! 3 family members have had children and 5 friends have been pregnant and most had their babies since i started ttc. the best thing to do is just concentrate on you stay positive you will get your bfp

 

[Queenie23]

Its madness isn't it. You sound like you have been waiting forever. Have you actually been timing sex all this time! Or just on and off?

My DH is getting his swimmers tested in the morning; I really hope it all comes back as ok. He is so worried it is him.

I'm hoping for a BFP either this month or next month... In time for Christmas announcements! I haven't taken another test today as too scared to look. I have had a lot worse cramping in my stomach and top of my legs today. I don't know if this is because I’m coming on though

 

[ohmyitschelsi]

What's with all the BFN's. I'm so glad it's not just me. When my best friend test me saying she was pregnant I felt like my insides sunk! When ever I see her I smile and I feel so fake. It's so hard to try and be happy for people and then look down and see a "NOT PREGNANT" result. It's like a massive reminder that you are alone compared to those around you. Especially when you have wanted it so much longer than your friends.

Ohmyitschelsi- I think that sounds really promising!! I hope it is implantation! Please keep us updated won't you! I noticed lots of women on here never post if they got their BFP and just disappear! I'm dying to know how these women got on with their test. lol.

Fingers and toes crossed for all of us. Would be amazing if it worked out for all of us around the same time! X

ill keep you updated I'm going to test again Friday so we'll see, fingers crossed! I hope we all get our bfps soon!!

 

[MrsPearson]

Hi
I'm new to this site but thought I'd write something too. If you don't mind...
I'm 15dpo today on cd33.
No periods for 12 months, got started on Clomid (fertility drug) and last month had 1st period, which arrived on cd24. So was expecting it to be cd24 this month too- in that case I am 9 days late!!
I tested on Sunday 12dpo and bfn. So hoping I just tested too early!
Looks like we're all just waiting!
Fingers crossed to us all

 

[cloud9]

Its madness isn't it. You sound like you have been waiting forever. Have you actually been timing sex all this time! Or just on and off?

My DH is getting his swimmers tested in the morning; I really hope it all comes back as ok. He is so worried it is him.

I'm hoping for a BFP either this month or next month... In time for Christmas announcements! I haven't taken another test today as too scared to look. I have had a lot worse cramping in my stomach and top of my legs today. I don't know if this is because I’m coming on though

i have had 2 mc's 1 year apart and my cycles have taken a while to get back to normal this time and it makes it worse my hubby works away alot so he is rarely here when i am ovulating which is sooooo frustrating this is our 2nd cycle since last year that we were able to try because he was here around ovulation but i decided to give up the charting, temping, opk's, preseed etc and just go with the flow! its how i got my last 2 bfp's ...hoping its 3rd time lucky i think i have been very unfortunate as we have had tests done and they were all clear there is nothing wrong with either of us

hope your dh test results show the all clear and good luck for your xmas bfp that would be the best christmas ever!

Hi
I'm new to this site but thought I'd write something too. If you don't mind...
I'm 15dpo today on cd33.
No periods for 12 months, got started on Clomid (fertility drug) and last month had 1st period, which arrived on cd24. So was expecting it to be cd24 this month too- in that case I am 9 days late!!
I tested on Sunday 12dpo and bfn. So hoping I just tested too early!
Looks like we're all just waiting!
Fingers crossed to us all

sounds promising you could've implanted a little late therefore it wouldnt show on a test until a few days after. ive always had my bfp's from 15dpo onwards. good luck and let us know how you get on