12 DPO (Aug 1st)

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still 11 DPO for a few more minutes or so, haha.

I'd like to share my symptoms and get some suggestions - feel free to share your concerns as well :)

1-3 DPO - extreme cramping/sharp pain, lower right side.. I've never had ovulation pain that I've ever been aware of.. but I'm pretty sure that's what it was.
3-8 DPO - I've had a mixture of extreme fatigue (even having to take naps), actually having dreams (haven't been having any the past few months), more frequent than usual urination, gas, and breaking out mid-cycle (not normal for me).
9 DPO - took a clear blue digital, got NO results after the hourglass disappeared & started getting those cramps and sharp pains again, they come on suddenly and come in waves for a couple minutes then disappear.
10 DPO - took a first response test, got a BFN.
11 DPO - (currently) having those cramps again.

& AF is due in 2-3 days (Wednesday, the 3rd of Aug.) and if AF doesn't show, that's when I'll be testing again.

I've never had EWCM in my life - that's also a concern.. maybe I'm not ovulating at all? I'm kind of worried about it.. has anybody ever NOT had EWCM and ended up pregnant?

I've also been dealing with HGSIL for the past 4 years, as well as HSV 1 & 2 (but have never had an outbreak). And, the douchebag I lost my virginity to gave me chlamydia and it went untreated for 5 months before I found out I had it (4 years ago).

Does anybody know the possibilities of fertility/infertility because of these.. unfortunate setbacks? Because of my lack of responsibility as a young teenager, I think it might be turning around and biting me on the butt right now.

I'm just so disappointed in myself right now :(

Has anybody else had to deal with any of this?
 
Hi I am 13DPO my thread is just below this one, had a faint line at one stage but think it was a dodgy test...lots of people don't have EWCM and get pregnant, have you had a basic blood test to make sure you are actually ovulating? That would be a start. What is HGSIL?
 
Hi I am 13DPO my thread is just below this one, had a faint line at one stage but think it was a dodgy test...lots of people don't have EWCM and get pregnant, have you had a basic blood test to make sure you are actually ovulating? That would be a start. What is HGSIL?

No, I haven't had a basic blood test.. I'm new to the whole TTC thing, so I'm not exactly sure what steps I should take.

HGSIL is high-grade cervical dysplasia. I've had it "off and on" for 4 years. If untreated or unmonitored, it can develop into cervical cancer - but I'm not worried about that.
 
I think most STD's can cause fertility problems but is rare, with the HSV virus' you may have to have a c-section if they suspect an outbreak near your birthing time because you can pass it along to the baby in the birth canal.
From the CDC: In women, untreated infection can spread into the uterus or fallopian tubes and cause pelvic inflammatory disease (PID). This happens in about 10 to 15 percent of women with untreated chlamydia. Chlamydia can also cause fallopian tube infection without any symptoms. PID and “silent” infection in the upper genital tract can cause permanent damage to the fallopian tubes, uterus, and surrounding tissues. The damage can lead to chronic pelvic pain, infertility, and potentially fatal ectopic pregnancy (pregnancy outside the uterus).
You did get treated though so you hopefully you will be okay. What a *******! I hope everything goes well for you and you have a healthy pregnancy very soon :)
 
Can't say much about the HGSIL but HSV got nothing to do with your fertility. The only thing you got to worry bout there is when you are actually giving birth and you said you don't get outbreaks anyway so that's fine. As for chlamydia, I think it only causes problems if it is left long enough to cause PID. Otherwise I'm sure you are OK, it's very common and people are still having babies! As long as you don't have it when you are pregnant.

How long have you been trying? Yeah I have heard of people getting pregnant without EWCM, you can search for old threads about it on this very forum! I didn't get any this cycle but I think that's because I've just come off the pill. I got a really strong OPK on Thursday so I think I am ovulating. I used that Concieve Plus stuff..... I've got ages to see if it has worked!!
 
This is only my 1st cycle actually "trying". But I've never been on birth control or taken many precautions - my mom says I've just been lucky all these years, but maybe it is PID. I'll ask my GYN when I see her in October. I really hope that ******* didn't cause me to be infertile.. or I'm going to find him and give him a vasectomy. :smug:
 
Good luck hun, try and stay positive!! This is only your first month actually trying and I know it doesn't make it any easier because I am actually in the same position.... never been all that careful but have always been 'lucky', I have somehow always just had this feeling that I am infertile even though I have never had chlamydia or anything like that. This is my first month actually trying and half of me is scared that I might not be able to do it but the other half is very positive. I'm using OPKs so I'm at least getting the LH surge and been using sperm friendly lube and having sex nearly every day. If you think about it the fertile window each month is very small so it's not that strange that you have had unprotected sex before and not fallen pregnant.
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I've been tracking all of the days I've had sex and my periods for the past 6 months.. and I've looked back and have had unprotected sex in my fertile window =/ hopefully we get our BFP's soon.. FX for us.
 
FX'd for you. Oh and have you ever considered it might be him and not you? xx
 
he accidentally got one of his exes pregnant, but she miscarried after a few weeks.. but he said I'm the only girl he's ever TTC with.. so I don't think it's him =/
 
I'm 11dpo and getting bfn thought the witch got me but looks like she has gone
 
yeah, I'm 12 DPO now.. took a test a few minutes ago using FMU, still looking like a BFN.. nothing "faint" about it :( 2 days until AF is supposed to show.. so far, no signs of her! FX.

@Krystysbump: possibly implantation bleeding?
 
here are my BFN's.
 

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also - anybody get the hypnic jerk? I've been getting that the past couple nights, and sounds like somebody talks right into my ear.. usually one syllable, and I wake up all sweaty and scared.. gahh..
 

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