12 weeks still very sore

[Ellie130891]

Please help!
12 weeks post delivery and tried sex this morning for the millionth time but im still so sore inside. i had stitches but the nurse said i look all healed up just a bit red
should i ask for a smear?
ive felt very ill since ruby was born very sick all day every day and anti sickness tablets dont help :9
feel like i still have morning sickness and im so bloated and get a lot of pains and a constant empty feeling
im really scared dr thinks its coeliacs but im not so sure

xxxxx

 

[natty1985]

Hey didnt want to read and run x I had alot of stitches with my little man and it took a good 6 months for it to feel anywhere near "normal" again and i couldnt even try sex hun so the fact your able to physically and metally try it is a good thing x I couldnt sit on a hard surfaced floor for the first 9 months without crying .... it will get better 12 weeks is still really early xx

 

[Ellie130891]

ty so much hun ive been so worried the dr thinks i need a biopsy and that my bowel/stomach were damaged during the birth or something xxxxx

 

[natty1985]

god , it gets you down so much doesnt it and you feel like you will be the only person in the world to feel like this "just my luck" i thought but trust me time is a healer! i dont think i felt properly back to normal until Fin was 2 but it didnt effect my every day life like it used to !! Dont get me wrong sometimes i still struggle with sex now and again and you can imagine im scared to death about having this baby x

 

[Ellie130891]

i think my partner thinks ive gone off him or something!!!! ive been feeling so ill the dr doesnt know what it is i have a constant empty feeling like so hungry il be sick but i eat all the time im so down right now i sometimes wish i hadnt had ruby just because ive never felt so ill but then she smiles and i cant imagine life without her!

 

[natty1985]

ahhh i cant say as i had the empty feeling, sounds really bad hun i hope they get it sorted for you x