ttcEmiy
mother to a 6 yr old girl
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Ladies, I really need help! I have a 6 year old daughter and dh has a 14 year old daughter. We are ttc a child together (in whick I got a faint 
today). My daughter has no contact and has never had contact with her bio-dad. My step-daughter has contact with bio-mom, but has always lived with my dh. My dh asked her permission all along the way, she said yes to allow my daughter to call him dad. 6 mo after my dd was calling him dad, my sd started to get rude, bossy, and mouthy. She told us she didn't like my dd calling him dad, we decided that was the way it was going to be, she was just going to have to deal with it. After several months of fighting and complete chaosis in our home, we decided to let her go live with mom for the first time ever, thinking it would help. 2 months she has been living with her mom and has cut me off and is always fighting with her dad. She puts a horrible strain on him, as this is his only daughter and the his whole world before we met. So she refuses to do anything with us, until we make my dd stop calling him dad. They were arguing on the phone a couple of nights ago and he told her we were having a baby. ( we both agree that it wasn't the right time to tell her, but he was just so furious with her attitude and behavior). So she is not talking to him or me, and refuses to have anythng to do with the new baby when he/she comes, and refuses to do anything with us. DH is extremely excited to have a baby as we have been ttc for a while, but now he is conflicted.
today). My daughter has no contact and has never had contact with her bio-dad. My step-daughter has contact with bio-mom, but has always lived with my dh. My dh asked her permission all along the way, she said yes to allow my daughter to call him dad. 6 mo after my dd was calling him dad, my sd started to get rude, bossy, and mouthy. She told us she didn't like my dd calling him dad, we decided that was the way it was going to be, she was just going to have to deal with it. After several months of fighting and complete chaosis in our home, we decided to let her go live with mom for the first time ever, thinking it would help. 2 months she has been living with her mom and has cut me off and is always fighting with her dad. She puts a horrible strain on him, as this is his only daughter and the his whole world before we met. So she refuses to do anything with us, until we make my dd stop calling him dad. They were arguing on the phone a couple of nights ago and he told her we were having a baby. ( we both agree that it wasn't the right time to tell her, but he was just so furious with her attitude and behavior). So she is not talking to him or me, and refuses to have anythng to do with the new baby when he/she comes, and refuses to do anything with us. DH is extremely excited to have a baby as we have been ttc for a while, but now he is conflicted.
she prolly just feels like shes loseing her daddy like u said it was just him and her against the world then u and ur little girl came into the picture now theres some other girl calling him daddy its just alot for her to get use too im sorry i hope it all pans out i can honestly say being 17 when i started getting contact with my bio-dad i was royally pissed when i heard he had a step daughter calling him "daddy". but my boi-dads a loser and choose other women and drugs over my mom and siblings it just hruts knowing he has a "New Family" that prooly hoe the 14yr feels that now he has a new family and she doesnt fit in.but it does hurt hearing another girl call ur dad daddy but then again she did give her consent. i hope she comes around 
really!? i love meeting my stalkers! oh yes CONGRATS on the BABY! sorry i didnt say that before! i bet ur excited! i'll keep u and your family in my prayers truly hope she comes around to the idea that she has a little sister/brother coming!
