14dpo BFP.. need advice

[Alia S]

So last month i was trying to get pregnant. ... blah blah yea but this time around im not but i wasn't preventing it from happening, but i know for a fact i had sex around my ovulation day but tmi i had a yeast infection so i was taking the medicine to cure it and i was thinking that the monistat would kill the sperm so i wasn't worried. ..... but i thought wrong :-/ today june 8 my period is supposed to start but idk i just been having a feeling that it wasn't going to come but i was brushing it off like no it's going to start your just tripping so just to make sure i took a and i ended up getting a BFP.. BIG SURPRISE .. im for sure my boyfriend (father to my first child) is going to tell me tonot keep it. ... i want the baby but if he doesn't what to do? I need advice idk what to do

 

[Alexas Mommy]

So you said you were trying last month, but not this month, but you are unsure if your boyfriend wants to keep it? Was he all for it last month? Just curious, no judgment It is up to you, really... I am sure he would eventually come around to the idea of having another baby though it may be a shock at first! BTW congrats on your and good luck!

 

[Vixs]

Well first of all congratulations! I think you need to talk to OH, he might surprise you! Many men don't want children when given a choice because they're more practical - thinking about money etc but things might be different when he finds out you ARE pg. He loves you and if you tell him how you feel then I'm sure he will listen - he must have known there might be a chance you might get pg - unprotected sex and all that! Good luck and stay strong XX

 

[Alia S]

He wanted another baby at first then he changed at the last minute. ..

 

[AP]

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