16, 7 weeks pregnant, and I have no clue what to do!

[Frazmataz]

. We told my parents friday, and they said they will support any decision I make. My boyfriend swears to stick by me no matter what I decide. My best friends are here for me no matter what. I guess by all means I've got it pretty good right now. I have a lot of love and support surrounding me, and I still have no idea what to do.

I'm just starting my junior year of high school. I know having a child would make finishing school extremely hard, not to mention I don't have a job yet, or my license. My boyfriend has his license and a car, but is still looking for a job. Termination is probably my best option right now. But I don't know if I can go through it. I know I'm about 7 weeks, which is still within the time range for taking the Abortion Pill, but I just don't know if I could handle it. I've known about this baby for a week and I already love it.

My boyfriend thinks termination would be the smartest thing to do, but when we agreed that it was the most intelligent option, he just laid there and held my stomach and cried, telling the baby that we're so sorry and that no matter what, we love it. It broke my heart to see him like that. If we both care about it so much, is abortion really an okay choice?

I'm horribly confused and any advice would be immensely appreciated. Thank you!

 

[libbymarks198]

you can't talk about abortion on this site hun,
sorry your going through this but no one can help you decide what to do.

 

[Burchy314]

Sorry I can't give you any advise about your decision, but if it helps...

Finishing school may be hard, but with the right motivation you can do anything you set your mind too!

 

[Burchy314]

Oh and if you do decide to keep the baby, this is a great website to talk with other girls about everything, ask any questions you have, etc.

If you just want to talk and ask questions you can message me anytime. Im Tina by the way, 17 and pregnant with my first. I am also on facebook and aim. My contact info is on my BNB profile.

Hope I can help!

 

[Leah_xx]

Hi Hun!
I'm Leah and I'm 17. I got pregnant when i was 16 and a Junior in high school.
I am currently 33 weeks and 3 days pregnant.
We cant talk about abortions on here.
Let me ttell you though making the choice is yours.
I am currently doing home instructing cause my lil girl has tried to come out twice already and it hard but managable.
Please feel free to Pm on here.
Or im me on my aim account or facebook. Info is on my profile on here

 

[Tanara]

Look I got pregnant at 15, had him 2 months after I turned 16.
no one can make this choice for you,
but know this choice either way is a life changing decision.
so think it threw, my sons my whole life
wouldnt change my decision for anything
even threw out the hard and good.

 

[vpeterman720]

Has anyone even THOUGHT about adoption?
I know there are 1 million couples that are unable to have children that could provide for your baby.
Abortion and keeping it are not the only choices.

 

[BabyMama89]

Abortion is not a topic that is to be discussed on BNB. however, we're all here to support you BUT, i strongly insist that you make someone else's world brighter by giving them this child.....rather than, well you know.

Good luck to you. I hope you make the right decision.

xx

 

[polo_princess]

As per forum rules

While BabyandBump try to remain pro-choice on most subjects, out of respect for majority of our members that are either trying to conceive, or pregnant, we ask that you do not discuss topics on abortion and terminations outside of the 'Ethical Prenatal Losses' forum.

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