16 dpo and still bfn. anyone in the same boat??

[JohnsonGirl]

That sounds really promising Lilydasical.
Do you plan to re-test?
Fingers crossed x

 

[beads]

Sorry Johnsongirl,only just seen you put your symptoms at the bottom! now my post looks like i was saying your symptoms arent noteworthy. :-S

teary is a big PG symptom. my sister and bff are both PG and are emotional wrecks! xx

I really hope so but i usually get really teary the day before AF and Im feeling pretty sceptical after my BFN with a FRER. Still I suppose im not out until AF arrives!!!

Thats what i keep telling myself. i hate being in limbo . just want to know either way so i can plan next steps. you ever been late b4? x

 

[JohnsonGirl]

Sorry Johnsongirl,only just seen you put your symptoms at the bottom! now my post looks like i was saying your symptoms arent noteworthy. :-S

teary is a big PG symptom. my sister and bff are both PG and are emotional wrecks! xx

I really hope so but i usually get really teary the day before AF and Im feeling pretty sceptical after my BFN with a FRER. Still I suppose im not out until AF arrives!!!

Thats what i keep telling myself. i hate being in limbo . just want to know either way so i can plan next steps. you ever been late b4? x

Im normally pretty regular, if anything a day or two early. How about you?

 

[jaydsmom71611]

welcome everyone. i hope everyone gets a bfp soon, no symptoms to report other then eating more. another bfn. going to test monday if af doesnt show. two more daysand im a week late. anyone get any faint lines or more convincing symptoms. and i know how you feel beads, this is my first time being late with a bfn. veeeeery frustrating

 

[lilydaisical]

That sounds really promising Lilydasical.
Do you plan to re-test?
Fingers crossed x

I do plan to re-test. I'm just not sure when. I'm not wanting to turn into a POAS addict lol... but that is starting to look like what is gonna happen, at least until AF arrives. :

 

[beads]

i was 5 days late June just gone which is first time ever. that would take me to tomorrow. if AF stays away after then then i'll be a little more hopeful x

 

[jaydsmom71611]

sadly.. i have turned into a poas addict haha. i heard that if you can waituntil you are 19-21dpo with no af, you are almost certian to get a bfp (if you are pregnent) sometimes the egg is a late bloomer, which i am hoping is the case for everyone here

 

[beads]

welcome everyone. i hope everyone gets a bfp soon, no symptoms to report other then eating more. another bfn. going to test monday if af doesnt show. two more daysand im a week late. anyone get any faint lines or more convincing symptoms. and i know how you feel beads, this is my first time being late with a bfn. veeeeery frustrating

drives you mad doesnt it! im trying not to think about it but its slapping me in the face as soon as i wake up lol

 

[JohnsonGirl]

welcome everyone. i hope everyone gets a bfp soon, no symptoms to report other then eating more. another bfn. going to test monday if af doesnt show. two more daysand im a week late. anyone get any faint lines or more convincing symptoms. and i know how you feel beads, this is my first time being late with a bfn. veeeeery frustrating

Thanks for starting this thread...its keeping me sane in this crazy waiting period.

I had no sign at all of a line on the FRER- and i held it in every direction under bright lights!!!!

 

[jaydsmom71611]

i know the feeling. doesnt help that i have a thermometer and tests on my night stand. i promised myself that i was taking a relaxed aproach this time, which i did, until i had an af no show. not so relaxed now... i think im driving my husband nuts. *sigh*

 

[jaydsmom71611]

wow, im glad im not the only one holding tests under lights same here no line anywhere no matter what i do to the test hahaha, im just glad im not the only one, the company is deffinatly keeping me sain.

 

[beads]

i even took one apart Johnsongirl! not obsessive in the slightest haha. it feels like a longer time period then 2ww from due date to now grrr

 

[jaydsmom71611]

it feels like its been months.... ug

 

[lilydaisical]

I kind of didn't wait very long at all with mine. Once a minute passed with no second line, I just sort of threw it away and didn't look at it again. Which was probably stupid. But it did stop me from stressing for a few days.

 

[jaydsmom71611]

i would check on mine every two minutes for about 10 min. then gave up. so im going to the doctors tomorrow and if its still a negative im going to give up until next month.

 

[beads]

I kind of didn't wait very long at all with mine. Once a minute passed with no second line, I just sort of threw it away and didn't look at it again. Which was probably stupid. But it did stop me from stressing for a few days.

i need your willpower. i keep going back to check mine. i think im an addict!

 

[jaydsmom71611]

hahaha i have tested 15 times in three days, im pretty bad.

 

[lilydaisical]

lol at the time I think I needed a BFN. There were a few stressful things going on, and I think if there had been a positive I would have flipped. Now my head is a little clearer now that all of that is over, so whether it's a BFP or a BFN I'll be able to handle it.

 

[beads]

hahaha that makes me feel a little better. i have tested about 4 times. although i would more if bf would let me. i tested last night against his wishes and i sulked like a 5 year old until he relented

 

[jaydsmom71611]

well im glad your a little clearer. i hope that whatever the outcome is, it is the best lilydaisical. beads: i had to sneak buying the tests and i was doing really good, until he found the boxes. now i have one left and that it lol.