16 dpo and still bfn. anyone in the same boat??

[jaydsmom71611]

congrats danillex27!!!!!!

 

[kpk]

Negative at 14 dpo I'm 16 dpo today, light to 'medium' AF cramps for about 3 days then nothing today. Headache this morning that woke me up, shooting pain in boobs when I rolled over onto my stomach. Low back ache.This is the first month off of my bc, though, so I'm trying not to get my hopes up. Not testing until next week sometime.

 

[jaydsmom71611]

thats a good sign. i had a light period thing with my first and then found out i was pregnant a week later. have my fingurs crossed for you.

 

[Josie1013]

Hey Girls ! Same boat - 16DPO ...All BFN's Sick of Period Purgatory..wish the witch would show so I can move on. I never dreamed TTC would be so frustrating Congrats Danielle & loads of to everyone!

 

[jaydsmom71611]

ttc is more complicated and frutrating then actually being pregnant... how does that worK? lol having dull cramps... maybe the witch will show her ugly face today. hoping something happens soon.

 

[Josie1013]

ttc is more complicated and frutrating then actually being pregnant... how does that worK? lol having dull cramps... maybe the witch will show her ugly face today. hoping something happens soon.

I couldn't agree more. I think I'm driving my DH insane I've had dull cramping all week ...I think thats the frustrating part is all the symptoms are the same. I havn't started charting or anything.. just always used Monthly Cycles to keep track of everything.. I think after this month I'll start charting so I can pinpoint whats going on to keep my craziness in check

 

[jaydsmom71611]

hahaha, i agree,i partially charted (just around ovultion and now) and DH wont even talk to me about it anymore. hahaha for me atleast i think the craziness will continue. have to say this thread keeps my spirits up.

 

[Jo291]

Me too...I m on 15dpo and AF is due today. Trying to 'suck it in' so that AF doesnt come. Lol....

All my symptoms are gone 3 days ago. Also normally I have sore bbs before AF but not this month. Had light brown stringy discharge for a week after O and have been feeling very wet since O.

Have been obsesses with peeing on a stick a few times these days but still bfn. Just hoping that it's just because it hasn't shown up yet.....will wait a couple of days before testing again otherwise I will drive myself insane.

Baby dust to you all! Mum says the more you want it to come, the more likely it won't....so stay calm.....

 

[lilydaisical]

Hang on a sec, maybe I'm not out after all... As I said before, normally AF hits full force, in all her glory. I suffer for three days, and then she leaves. But here I am, 4 days late, and almost 5 hours ago there was a teeny bit of VERY LIGHT brown spotting (sorry for tmi) and now absolutely nothing. FRER showed BFN about half an hour before the spotting showed, so as far as that goes, it probably IS a no this cycle. But, pardon my acronym, WTF???

 

[Josie1013]

Hang on a sec, maybe I'm not out after all... As I said before, normally AF hits full force, in all her glory. I suffer for three days, and then she leaves. But here I am, 4 days late, and almost 5 hours ago there was a teeny bit of VERY LIGHT brown spotting (sorry for tmi) and now absolutely nothing. FRER showed BFN about half an hour before the spotting showed, so as far as that goes, it probably IS a no this cycle. But, pardon my acronym, WTF???

Maybe implantation bleeding? Hopefully someone with more knowledge can offer up an experience on this.. I never spot & am usually clockwork with the which is why I'm so frustrated this week

 

[jaydsmom71611]

lilydaisical that happened to me with my first, maybe you're a late implanter or the implantation blood didnt descend for some reason. there is still hope. i have my fingures crossed for you and to everyone else.

and jo291, my mom says that to me twice a day now. shes like go for a swim pretend u already had a period and wait. so if its not just my mom saying it, its probably very good advise. not sure how i will do but i will try not to wantit so badly lol

 

[JohnsonGirl]

STILL NO AF!! I have loads of stomach cramps and i've been starving today!!
Still BFN- surely i'd have a positive by now if it was going to happen. Really want af now so I can just move on, grrrrrr..........

 

[jaydsmom71611]

im with you lol. enough is enough, i just want to ttc again... ug

 

[kaykay]

Im cd35 today and still no sign of AF grrr!!! it is so frustrating!

 

[JohnsonGirl]

Im cd35 today and still no sign of AF grrr!!! it is so frustrating!

Have you tested again, or plan to?

 

[Josie1013]

Still no AF & BFN on 17DPO ..Frustrated!

 

[jaydsmom71611]

same here josie1013, tests r still negative and no af. im starting to wonder whats going on.

 

[jaydsmom71611]

kaykay im 35cd too, it is very frustrating. hoping for something soon for everyone

 

[lilydaisical]

Still no AF. I expected to wake up to a big hello from her, especially considering the spotting and small cramps I felt last night. But not even the least bit of spotting this morning. I'm not really sure WHAT to think.

 

[LWilson]

An update for me -- I'm on CD 36 (I'm normally 33). Last night I noticed the slightest bit of brown spotting so I didn't bother testing this morning thinking AF was finally coming. But when I got to work (I work in a hospital), later on in the morning I thought WTH, I'll test and it was POSITIVE! Faintly, but positive.

However, I tested when I got home tonight with First Response and Clear Blue Easy, both were negative. I did drink 1L of water about 2-3 hrs before I tested so I don't know if the sample is diluted? Or I could be having a chemical pregnancy, ect.

I'm going to test again tomorrow morning and see what happens.