16 dpo and still bfn. anyone in the same boat??

[.scarlett]

Forgot to mention the lower back ache.......its kinda not even my back but around hips at the back...............i think my body just loves winding me up. last year when i went out to by a pregnancy test after an oops moment with OH i was convinced i was pregnant .....got home and af arrived! Lol.
Xx

 

[sadangel777]

I guess I should join ...

Currently on CD29 and 15DPO but still getting BFNs. Was using 10MUI tests with FMU so I figured I was out ... but I don't know any more. I guess I'm just holding on to hope at this point!

 

[Fluffyangel]

Hi can I join you? Am late by 3 weeks, and feeling pregnant, all the symptoms even the annoying ones like pain like breast feeding in breasts, lower backache, stretching in tummy, and yet...bfns.. I have tested like 30 times in the past 4 weeks, so annoying, and no one to talk to makes it harder as others think am nuts.. I have a scan on Monday can't wait!
to all!

 

[.scarlett]

Hi fluffyangel!
Welcome! Dont worry i think everyone on here can be slighty nuts at times! I have irregualr cycles (was regualr 31 day cycles for ten years until 6months ago!) now on cd35 i have no idea whats happening with my body atm. I am going to the doctors friday to see if i have hormonal imbalence. Havent tested yet as i feel like af is coming and dont want to see bfn!
Come vent with me xx

 

[Fluffyangel]

Hi fluffyangel!
Welcome! Dont worry i think everyone on here can be slighty nuts at times! I have irregualr cycles (was regualr 31 day cycles for ten years until 6months ago!) now on cd35 i have no idea whats happening with my body atm. I am going to the doctors friday to see if i have hormonal imbalence. Havent tested yet as i feel like af is coming and dont want to see bfn!
Come vent with me xx

Hi Scarlett! Thank you ! Nice not to feel alone anymore. My cycle are usually 35 sometimes 42. My last period was on the 29th of June! I have had so many symptoms, I have kept a diary lol. Today, it's breast pain, and I think I can see it has grown a bit, on the top, sorry if tmi
Again, another tmi....the discharge, isn't it amazing?? Have you had that stretchy snotty clear discharge? I look at it in amazement, what the body can do..sorry if it sounds freaky lol.
Just came back from reading phantom pregnancies on the Internet,really??it seems too real to me! Especially those pains in tummy from stretching and lower back pain, who would want to infringe this on ourselves?

How about your symptoms? And if we have a long cycle, how do we calculate how far we are?? As normally, the egg is only 2 weeks old at ovulation, isn't it?

Anyway, so lovely to be able to share, thank you, been feeling like janine is eastenders lol

 

[Fluffyangel]

Hi Ladies, mind if I join you? I am on 20DPO, 6 days late for AF but still getting BFN on FRER test this morning

I just want to test all the time but think my OH will call the men in white coats if I go on anymore about it haha I am never ever this late and my periods are usually like clockwork every month. I think my body is broken and not working any more

Symptom wise I had sicky feelings the week after my O date but they have passed now, so I think it was probably more likely due to the heat that we had at the time. I have some serious spots on my face and sore, swollen bbs. Feeling very very tired also.

What to do!!

Hi Jazzie, I know exactly what you mean. I have a scan on Monday and hubby said if am not, he s going to have me sectioned lol in mental hospital... Ah well, we will see if I am right, he is going to have to seriously apologise! Lol

 

[Jazzie2011]

Hi Ladies, mind if I join you? I am on 20DPO, 6 days late for AF but still getting BFN on FRER test this morning

I just want to test all the time but think my OH will call the men in white coats if I go on anymore about it haha I am never ever this late and my periods are usually like clockwork every month. I think my body is broken and not working any more

Symptom wise I had sicky feelings the week after my O date but they have passed now, so I think it was probably more likely due to the heat that we had at the time. I have some serious spots on my face and sore, swollen bbs. Feeling very very tired also.

What to do!!

Hi Jazzie, I know exactly what you mean. I have a scan on Monday and hubby said if am not, he s going to have me sectioned lol in mental hospital... Ah well, we will see if I am right, he is going to have to seriously apologise! Lol

Hi Fluffyangel! Good luck with the scan, do let us know how it goes? How late are you again? Hope that your hubby is proven wrong and has to grovel and wait on you hands and feet for 9 months heehee. I still have no AF today, it's so strange I haven't had any spotting or anything just clear sticky CM. I am afraid to test again though as I don't want to see another BFN!!!

 

[Jazzie2011]

Hi Ladies, mind if I join you? I am on 20DPO, 6 days late for AF but still getting BFN on FRER test this morning

I just want to test all the time but think my OH will call the men in white coats if I go on anymore about it haha I am never ever this late and my periods are usually like clockwork every month. I think my body is broken and not working any more

Symptom wise I had sicky feelings the week after my O date but they have passed now, so I think it was probably more likely due to the heat that we had at the time. I have some serious spots on my face and sore, swollen bbs. Feeling very very tired also.

What to do!!

Hi Jazzie, I know exactly what you mean. I have a scan on Monday and hubby said if am not, he s going to have me sectioned lol in mental hospital... Ah well, we will see if I am right, he is going to have to seriously apologise! Lol

Hi Fluffyangel! Good luck with the scan, do let us know how it goes? How late are you again? Hope that your hubby is proven wrong and has to grovel and wait on you hands and feet for 9 months heehee. I still have no AF today, it's so strange I haven't had any spotting or anything just clear sticky CM. I am afraid to test again though as I don't want to see another BFN!!!

Ah sorry Fluffyangel just re read through your last posts, wow you are 3 weeks late!!! At what point did the doc say you could have a scan? I am worried if I go to docs I will be told to wait until I get a pos. hpt but I am petrified of doing anything and can't lead a normal life at the moment in case I am preggo

 

[kaykay]

Im out, the witch decided to show her ugly face over a week late. Roll on September good luck to the rest of you ladies xx

 

[Fluffyangel]

Hi Ladies, mind if I join you? I am on 20DPO, 6 days late for AF but still getting BFN on FRER test this morning

I just want to test all the time but think my OH will call the men in white coats if I go on anymore about it haha I am never ever this late and my periods are usually like clockwork every month. I think my body is broken and not working any more

Symptom wise I had sicky feelings the week after my O date but they have passed now, so I think it was probably more likely due to the heat that we had at the time. I have some serious spots on my face and sore, swollen bbs. Feeling very very tired also.

What to do!!

Hi Jazzie, I know exactly what you mean. I have a scan on Monday and hubby said if am not, he s going to have me sectioned lol in mental hospital... Ah well, we will see if I am right, he is going to have to seriously apologise! Lol

Hi Fluffyangel! Good luck with the scan, do let us know how it goes? How late are you again? Hope that your hubby is proven wrong and has to grovel and wait on you hands and feet for 9 months heehee. I still have no AF today, it's so strange I haven't had any spotting or anything just clear sticky CM. I am afraid to test again though as I don't want to see another BFN!!!

I hope so too lol, he will have to beg for forgiveness lol

Am 3 weeks late this friday, ovulated on the 27 th of July, and yet negatives tests and blood test! Hcg was 1.2... So either am crazy or pregnancy undetectable. I read lots of stories of this happening. Even though I then thought maybe I am not pregnant, when the doc told me the results, I still had symptoms and I was so angry with my body for tricking me, but some things can't be ignored! And it's 2 weeks since blood test, and still no af! Something is happening! What other symptoms do you have? It took all this time for my boobs to become sore, they just started tingling couple of days ago!

 

[Fluffyangel]

Hi Jazzie again lol, when I got results back from blood test, and we're negative, I asked the doc why do I have all this?? And big tummy?? So I ask her if I could see any specialist, either hormones or gynaecologist and she said maybe scan first, I said yes please!! Lol and now, it's Monday. Also cause I had tubal reversal last December, and I am at risk of doing ectopic..let's hope not though :S
I will definitely let everyone know the outcome, because I truly believe I am regnant, and this waiting is agony. I done like 30 tests at least! This is racy...but I trust my gut instinct. Going to start crochet lol, feeling like mama bear, and not sexy woman right now ahahaha

 

[Fluffyangel]

Oh, and for the past 4 weeks, I have done everything as if I was, not eating the nice stuff lol like pâté, oysters...just in case, and cooking eggs really well..I keep craving beef so much, and peanuts like mms lol

 

[orchidflower]

wow i thought i was hard done by being a day late haha!! blowing baby dust ur way!! xx

 

[Jazzie2011]

Ah bless you, well done for insisting on something from your doc, it's fascinating and frustrating at the same time!

My symptoms, well in the actual two week wait I was feeling sicky and light headed but that has passed so I think that may just have been due to the heat that we had at the time. I have spots forming by the hour on my face - yuck - and I have had sore swollen boobs for a couple of weeks. I am achey in my lower back - but that could be due to my awful bed, I really need to get a new mattress!!! And am getting alot of trapped wind - sorry if TMI! hehe. Apart from that just generally very tired and still a bit of clear sticky CM.

Do you think I should test again? I was thinking maybe do it one more time on Sat maybe and if still bfn and no AF then go see the doc? Eeeep

That is sooo sweet that you are getting all mumsy, must be your sub-conscious telling you something! Get nesting girl! :-D

 

[Fluffyangel]

Lol yes thanks you know, it does sound like you are, I have the same symptoms, and the lower backache is not the same as bad bed ache if you can manage to wait till weekend , do so, I know I can't lol, wanna have a BFp before the scan to show hubby! How late are you again? Sorry, forgot at least be a week late or 2. I don't know why it is so hard for lots of us to show positive, so annoying! Am gonna try 1 in the morning but I know it's gonna be negative. Soon I'll be able to knit jumpers for all the family with all this housebound lol, am scared to do too much, and when I start tummy aching, I just stop and sit or lie down. The first 3 months are so unpredictable and fragile. Hope you are, baby : dust: to you and all! Xx try to be patient, I read somewhere it is Nature's way to teach you to learn how to be patient ..lol xx

 

[lilydaisical]

Still no AF here. Officially 9 days late. I've also got a bit of a stomach bug. I actually fell asleep on the bathroom floor earlier because I lacked the energy to move too far after getting sick. It's been pretty awful.

On another note, I've started to notice some white odorless discharge, which makes me wonder what the heck my cycle has planned for me, and when. So frustrating!

 

[thechaosismex]

Think i should join here too with you ladies who are still "in".. 18dpo/5days late and after about 40 tests later most of them bfns, some evaps lol! and just about given up with my tired broken body !

:babydust: to all xxx

 

[Jessuhcuh]

I have irregular cycles (90-133 days) so I never know when I should expect to ovulate (I DO OVULATE, BEEN TESTED), but this month I ovulated on the 14. That would make me 15 DPO. I tested today and .
We have been trying for 2 years to get pregnant and it has not happened yet, but we are young and don't want to see a fertility specialist yet.
Here are some symptoms, 15DPO- please let me know what you all think and if I should hold out and test again in a couple days/weeks or give up hope this month.

*Emotional, crying at the drop of a pin, laughing the next minute
*Headache that won't go away
*Lower abdominal pain accompanied with a tight feeling in the lower/sides of stomach
*Runny nose like a cold is coming on
*Side of BBs hurt
*Weird, vivid dreams (last night dreamt I was preggers but in a wreck with an 18 wheeler...woke up sick and crying)
*Just a 'feeling' that I am this month

Now, I don't know about old wives tales and stuff, but my college advisor and I had coffee the other day and she asked me if I had any news to tell her while looking directly at my stomach (She's 65), so women's intuition?
Also, my cat has been going crazy when he gets around me, but he will lay on my belly at night.


Please, any advice is appreciated!

Oh, and to everyone who is trying! I will be following the posts so please keep us updated!

 

[Jazzie2011]

Lol yes thanks you know, it does sound like you are, I have the same symptoms, and the lower backache is not the same as bad bed ache if you can manage to wait till weekend , do so, I know I can't lol, wanna have a BFp before the scan to show hubby! How late are you again? Sorry, forgot at least be a week late or 2. I don't know why it is so hard for lots of us to show positive, so annoying! Am gonna try 1 in the morning but I know it's gonna be negative. Soon I'll be able to knit jumpers for all the family with all this housebound lol, am scared to do too much, and when I start tummy aching, I just stop and sit or lie down. The first 3 months are so unpredictable and fragile. Hope you are, baby : dust: to you and all! Xx try to be patient, I read somewhere it is Nature's way to teach you to learn how to be patient ..lol xx

Morning! Oooh I do hope so, this waiting game is killing me!! Ah I bet your hubby will be soooo excited when you show him your BFP because you WILL have a BFP I am sure! I am now 8 days late, still no AF eeep! Hehe nature should know by bnow that I am NOT a patient person haha. How are you feeling today?

Still no AF here. Officially 9 days late. I've also got a bit of a stomach bug. I actually fell asleep on the bathroom floor earlier because I lacked the energy to move too far after getting sick. It's been pretty awful.

On another note, I've started to notice some white odorless discharge, which makes me wonder what the heck my cycle has planned for me, and when. So frustrating!

Ahh lilydaisical sorry you are not well you must feel so drained! Why do our bodies mess us around like this huh!

I have irregular cycles (90-133 days) so I never know when I should expect to ovulate (I DO OVULATE, BEEN TESTED), but this month I ovulated on the 14. That would make me 15 DPO. I tested today and .
We have been trying for 2 years to get pregnant and it has not happened yet, but we are young and don't want to see a fertility specialist yet.
Here are some symptoms, 15DPO- please let me know what you all think and if I should hold out and test again in a couple days/weeks or give up hope this month.

*Emotional, crying at the drop of a pin, laughing the next minute
*Headache that won't go away
*Lower abdominal pain accompanied with a tight feeling in the lower/sides of stomach
*Runny nose like a cold is coming on
*Side of BBs hurt
*Weird, vivid dreams (last night dreamt I was preggers but in a wreck with an 18 wheeler...woke up sick and crying)
*Just a 'feeling' that I am this month

Now, I don't know about old wives tales and stuff, but my college advisor and I had coffee the other day and she asked me if I had any news to tell her while looking directly at my stomach (She's 65), so women's intuition?
Also, my cat has been going crazy when he gets around me, but he will lay on my belly at night.


Please, any advice is appreciated!

Oh, and to everyone who is trying! I will be following the posts so please keep us updated!

Wow Jessuhcuh, that's soo weird about your college advisor asking you that, as you say, woman's intuition? :-D Your symptoms sound very promising!! Come to think of it I have also been having some vivid dreams lately but thought nothing of it as I am quite a dreamer anyway, have you had trouble sleeping throughout the night? I am ok unless I wake up during the night then I can't seem to ever get comfy again enough to drop off I defo think you should wait a couple of days of you can and try again, it could just be that you have not produced enough of the hormone yet to show on a hpt. Good Luck

Baby Dust to everyone!!!!!!!!

 

[Mellie1988]

Still waiting for AF! Was due 27/28th .... Had blood when wiped last night so thought AF arrived, put tampon in....when I was going to bed I changed it and there was nothing there....this morning there was nothing again on tissue, just when I went further up (sorry TMI!) I have had a really horrible cramp in my back the past 2 days....wish AF would just hurry up now so can get onto next cycle... I know that I'm deff not pg after about 10 BFN in the past week!!!

X