16 dpo and still bfn. anyone in the same boat??

[Fluffyangel]

I have irregular cycles (90-133 days) so I never know when I should expect to ovulate (I DO OVULATE, BEEN TESTED), but this month I ovulated on the 14. That would make me 15 DPO. I tested today and .
We have been trying for 2 years to get pregnant and it has not happened yet, but we are young and don't want to see a fertility specialist yet.
Here are some symptoms, 15DPO- please let me know what you all think and if I should hold out and test again in a couple days/weeks or give up hope this month.

*Emotional, crying at the drop of a pin, laughing the next minute
*Headache that won't go away
*Lower abdominal pain accompanied with a tight feeling in the lower/sides of stomach
*Runny nose like a cold is coming on
*Side of BBs hurt
*Weird, vivid dreams (last night dreamt I was preggers but in a wreck with an 18 wheeler...woke up sick and crying)
*Just a 'feeling' that I am this month

Now, I don't know about old wives tales and stuff, but my college advisor and I had coffee the other day and she asked me if I had any news to tell her while looking directly at my stomach (She's 65), so women's intuition?
Also, my cat has been going crazy when he gets around me, but he will lay on my belly at night.


Please, any advice is appreciated!

Oh, and to everyone who is trying! I will be following the posts so please keep us updated!

Seems possible, best to wait if you have anymore symptoms and keep telling us baby dust to you! Fx

 

[Fluffyangel]

Still waiting for AF! Was due 27/28th .... Had blood when wiped last night so thought AF arrived, put tampon in....when I was going to bed I changed it and there was nothing there....this morning there was nothing again on tissue, just when I went further up (sorry TMI!) I have had a really horrible cramp in my back the past 2 days....wish AF would just hurry up now so can get onto next cycle... I know that I'm deff not pg after about 10 BFN in the past week!!!

X

I personally don't believe in poas anymore, and I have read many women were negative and still were pregnant. It could be because of low progesterone. So hang in there, and trust your gut feeling! Am still waiting too, and pretty sure I am, even with 30+ tests saying otherwise

 

[Fluffyangel]

Am so grumpy and lion mode today grrrrrr
Had nightmare, horrible, about me killing someone and there was blood everywhere!!! I woke up, horrified, and thought, oh my god, I hope this baby is not a psychopath! lol

Went online this morning searching for meaning of it, as it is 2ndnight I dream of blood, and it says pregnant women often dream of blood, or women before /during their period. It's about life, love, and extremely emotionally stressed.

Well I am fed up with not knowing, and going into this fog! It's literally pissing me off.. Sorry gals, you can see am a bit frustrated lol

I don't know what to do with myself, am bored!! Can't do exercises, just in case, can't walk too much, just in case...any ideas? Fed up of being watching crappy tv, and movies, sitting uncomfortably

I can't even concentrate enough to read a book..been doing sudokus, to keep my brain ticking, but can't do 12 hours of that..

Anyway, I hope I didn't bring you down, sorry xxxx

 

[Jazzie2011]

Ahh Fluffyangel you go let your inner lion out, seriously just roar! Go somewhere in the house or on a walk where you can't be heard and let it all out, you will feel better! Or, put on your favourite music/cd, turn it up loud and sing, dance around the house like a loon, it's a great way to release happy endorphins and get rid of any pent up energy you have! Put on a good movie or two and loose yourself to the film for a couple of hours, a good comedy to get you laughing? I think the best way to forget about things for a while is to be around people, could you call or visit a friend of family member and have a good old catch up? Company can sometimes be the best cure for unsettledness.

I know what you mean though, I am at work during the day but spend all my time on here - oops - and thinking about whether I am preggo, it's such a huge thing to happen to us ladies and men just don't understand how it affects us physically and mentally.

Wish I could give you a big hug, keep your chin up xxx

 

[Jazzie2011]

Oooh though of another suggestion to keep you occupied, how about cooking? You could go food shopping and get lots of lovely healthy ingredients and plan some lovely meals to prepare and cook over the weekend?

 

[Fluffyangel]

Ahh Fluffyangel you go let your inner lion out, seriously just roar! Go somewhere in the house or on a walk where you can't be heard and let it all out, you will feel better! Or, put on your favourite music/cd, turn it up loud and sing, dance around the house like a loon, it's a great way to release happy endorphins and get rid of any pent up energy you have! Put on a good movie or two and loose yourself to the film for a couple of hours, a good comedy to get you laughing? I think the best way to forget about things for a while is to be around people, could you call or visit a friend of family member and have a good old catch up? Company can sometimes be the best cure for unsettledness.

I know what you mean though, I am at work during the day but spend all my time on here - oops - and thinking about whether I am preggo, it's such a huge thing to happen to us ladies and men just don't understand how it affects us physically and mentally.

Wish I could give you a big hug, keep your chin up xxx

Aww so sweet thank youuu xx no I have no friends, all are 3 hours drive from me and as am French, my family is in France boooooooh

Wish I had a friend nearby, would be fun..boooored! Lol, am playing Xbox 360, red dead redemption, already completed it, but fancied some adventure! Yeah am gonna watch a film soon, forget a little. You know, it's one of those days when your body and mind feel like crap lol

U naughty girl, careful they don't see you at work lol!

Where abouts are you? Am in Norwich xxxx

 

[Fluffyangel]

Oooh though of another suggestion to keep you occupied, how about cooking? You could go food shopping and get lots of lovely healthy ingredients and plan some lovely meals to prepare and cook over the weekend?

Lol I have 2 kids and a hubby so I cook every day lol, but thank you do much for suggestions though, it is so sweet of you xxxx

I guess even being at work doesn't help thinking about it, be patient you too, more signs will tell you. I have greasy forehead like when I was a teen! And some spots! unbelievable..

Anyway, let me know how you get on, when will test again? Sat?

 

[thechaosismex]

19dpo. still bfn.

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I wish AF would just show up get even the faintest of lines poas! so sick of being in limbo now

 

[lilydaisical]

Officially 10 days late. I was gonna test again this morning with a test my SO got me at the store, but when I looked at the box I realized he'd gotten an opt instead of an hpt lol...

So I'm not sure what's going on at this point.

 

[Fluffyangel]

19dpo. still bfn.

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I wish AF would just show up get even the faintest of lines poas! so sick of being in limbo now

I so know what you mean! So horrible this waiting!! The worse is to feel pregnant and not to show on them! Grrr everyone thinking we re crazy...they will see... They better apologise if we are.. Good luck to u, hope u get it soon xx

 

[danielle1984]

I'm two days late so far. I did get a very faint bfp at 8DPO but did three tests after that and they all came back negative. I'm going to wait for Monday to test again if AF doesn't show up.

 

[Jessuhcuh]

Hey ladies!
If you have been following my rants at all, you will know I am now roughly 16DPO. Tested with a FRER yesterday at 15DPO, used FMU, and .
Quickly to update, I have a 90-133 day cycle, but I do ovulate. I have been to the dr. to make sure of that. I just have a very irregular period.
I had EWCM the 14. Me and OH did the baby dance on the 11, 14, and 17...
Today, I went to the restroom and has slimy brown discharge, sorry if it's TMI... but it looked like old blood mixed with CM. Is it possible that I had IB this late because of my irregular periods? If it was IB, when would I need to test now?

*There has been no more discharge or any sign of AF since this morning!

Thanks in advance, I really need advice!

*hoping for a sticky bean and to everyone ttc

 

[Jazzie2011]

Ahh Fluffyangel you go let your inner lion out, seriously just roar! Go somewhere in the house or on a walk where you can't be heard and let it all out, you will feel better! Or, put on your favourite music/cd, turn it up loud and sing, dance around the house like a loon, it's a great way to release happy endorphins and get rid of any pent up energy you have! Put on a good movie or two and loose yourself to the film for a couple of hours, a good comedy to get you laughing? I think the best way to forget about things for a while is to be around people, could you call or visit a friend of family member and have a good old catch up? Company can sometimes be the best cure for unsettledness.

I know what you mean though, I am at work during the day but spend all my time on here - oops - and thinking about whether I am preggo, it's such a huge thing to happen to us ladies and men just don't understand how it affects us physically and mentally.

Wish I could give you a big hug, keep your chin up xxx

Aww so sweet thank youuu xx no I have no friends, all are 3 hours drive from me and as am French, my family is in France boooooooh

Wish I had a friend nearby, would be fun..boooored! Lol, am playing Xbox 360, red dead redemption, already completed it, but fancied some adventure! Yeah am gonna watch a film soon, forget a little. You know, it's one of those days when your body and mind feel like crap lol

U naughty girl, careful they don't see you at work lol!

Where abouts are you? Am in Norwich xxxx

Hiya, ahh that must be hard for you to be so far away from your family love that you are playing the Xbox hehe sounds like you need a new game though if you have already completed that one!

Ah yes I am careful, not that my boss will ever notice anything that I do!!

I am in Bedfordshire xxx

Oooh though of another suggestion to keep you occupied, how about cooking? You could go food shopping and get lots of lovely healthy ingredients and plan some lovely meals to prepare and cook over the weekend?

Lol I have 2 kids and a hubby so I cook every day lol, but thank you do much for suggestions though, it is so sweet of you xxxx

I guess even being at work doesn't help thinking about it, be patient you too, more signs will tell you. I have greasy forehead like when I was a teen! And some spots! unbelievable..

Anyway, let me know how you get on, when will test again? Sat?

Ahh 2 kids!! How lovely, what age are they? You do have your hands pretty full then hehe. I am getting married in October so will soon be able to say 'my hubby' too yay

So I am feeling pretty awful today tbh, I can't seem to stay awake after 9 pm this week and today, and sorry if this is TMI, but I have terrible diarrhea which is totally unlike me!! Seriously I thought the whole world was falling out of my a**e (to quote the great Mickey Flannigan) this morning what is going on with me huh!!! I am going to buy another test tonight and take it tin the morning, and if this one still is a BFN I will just take it as I am not preggo and try to carry on as normal and see what happens next month. I just don't understand why I have not had a period this month when all my life I have been regular as clockwork grrrrrrr.

Hope everyone on here is feeling ok today? Has anyone tested this morning? to you all xxx

 

[Fluffyangel]

Ahh Fluffyangel you go let your inner lion out, seriously just roar! Go somewhere in the house or on a walk where you can't be heard and let it all out, you will feel better! Or, put on your favourite music/cd, turn it up loud and sing, dance around the house like a loon, it's a great way to release happy endorphins and get rid of any pent up energy you have! Put on a good movie or two and loose yourself to the film for a couple of hours, a good comedy to get you laughing? I think the best way to forget about things for a while is to be around people, could you call or visit a friend of family member and have a good old catch up? Company can sometimes be the best cure for unsettledness.

I know what you mean though, I am at work during the day but spend all my time on here - oops - and thinking about whether I am preggo, it's such a huge thing to happen to us ladies and men just don't understand how it affects us physically and mentally.

Wish I could give you a big hug, keep your chin up xxx

Aww so sweet thank youuu xx no I have no friends, all are 3 hours drive from me and as am French, my family is in France boooooooh

Wish I had a friend nearby, would be fun..boooored! Lol, am playing Xbox 360, red dead redemption, already completed it, but fancied some adventure! Yeah am gonna watch a film soon, forget a little. You know, it's one of those days when your body and mind feel like crap lol

U naughty girl, careful they don't see you at work lol!

Where abouts are you? Am in Norwich xxxx

Hiya, ahh that must be hard for you to be so far away from your family love that you are playing the Xbox hehe sounds like you need a new game though if you have already completed that one!

Ah yes I am careful, not that my boss will ever notice anything that I do!!

I am in Bedfordshire xxx

Oooh though of another suggestion to keep you occupied, how about cooking? You could go food shopping and get lots of lovely healthy ingredients and plan some lovely meals to prepare and cook over the weekend?

Lol I have 2 kids and a hubby so I cook every day lol, but thank you do much for suggestions though, it is so sweet of you xxxx

I guess even being at work doesn't help thinking about it, be patient you too, more signs will tell you. I have greasy forehead like when I was a teen! And some spots! unbelievable..

Anyway, let me know how you get on, when will test again? Sat?

Ahh 2 kids!! How lovely, what age are they? You do have your hands pretty full then hehe. I am getting married in October so will soon be able to say 'my hubby' too yay

So I am feeling pretty awful today tbh, I can't seem to stay awake after 9 pm this week and today, and sorry if this is TMI, but I have terrible diarrhea which is totally unlike me!! Seriously I thought the whole world was falling out of my a**e (to quote the great Mickey Flannigan) this morning what is going on with me huh!!! I am going to buy another test tonight and take it tin the morning, and if this one still is a BFN I will just take it as I am not preggo and try to carry on as normal and see what happens next month. I just don't understand why I have not had a period this month when all my life I have been regular as clockwork grrrrrrr.

Hope everyone on here is feeling ok today? Has anyone tested this morning? to you all xxx

Hi darling, hope you feel a bit better, perhaps camomile tea would help? 1thing I have noticed!: ifi eat crappy things, like for ex, burgers that are sealed wrapped on the shelves, I get a very bad tummy. Before all this, didn't affect me, but the other day, I had only 1 bite from my hubby's as I didn't want a whole one because it wasn't homemade, next day, I had Diarrhea the whole day! So now it's all fresh cooking and things! Have you had microwaveable meal or sth? Even buying pasta already prepared from supermarket could make you sick! It's crazy how the body lets you know!so think of what you ate yesterday

Yes. 2 children, well nearly teens now: my son is 12 and my daughter 14, they both really sweet, so it's good, not too much stress!
Soon am gonna get the new mario on the ds lol, that ll keep me busy lol! And am thinking perhaps being stuck at home and not able to do much, I might continue writing my book! It's only been 20 years since I started it lol

How about you, any hobbies? Let's hope you don't start feeling sick. For me, nothing yet, just some tiny squeezeness now and then

Anyway, have a great day, take care, hope you feel better soon!! Xxxx

 

[Fluffyangel]

Oh and congratulations on your wedding!! My my, if you are pregnant, your dress won't fit eeeek, have you bought it yet? Actually what am I saying?? October is round the corner already! It felt as if it was going to be many months...sorry lol, should be ok, it normally doesn't show till few months. Have you put on any weight? For me, I look like 6 months pregnant! Ahhhhh!! I am wearing a pregnancy trousers lol xx

 

[Jazzie2011]

Hiya, I am feeling a little bit better now, been sulking at my desk all morning keeping warm. Not sure if I have eaten anything too crappy in the last day or two, we try to cook fresh stuff every night, the only think I got out of the freezer to cook last night was some garlic bread?

Wow that's so cool that you are writing a book, can I ask what it is about? :-D Yeah I have two horses so they keep me very busy, not sure how I will cope when/if I am preggo tho!!

I do have my dress and it's at the dressmakers being taken in as I had lost weight - ooops haha - so I really hope I don't put on too much before October, as you say not too long to go now though and if my bowel movements keep this up I will be tiny stick by then hehehe. xxxx

Has anyone else tested again yet?? I want to hear some BFPs please ;-)

 

[Mellie1988]

AF arrived with a vengeance this AM, cramps are absolutely horrendous, first proper AF since removal of coil atleast I know my body is getting back to normal and I have a good chance fr next month!!!

Good luck to all other ladies who are still late and waiting to test!!!

X

 

[Fluffyangel]

Hiya, I am feeling a little bit better now, been sulking at my desk all morning keeping warm. Not sure if I have eaten anything too crappy in the last day or two, we try to cook fresh stuff every night, the only think I got out of the freezer to cook last night was some garlic bread?

Wow that's so cool that you are writing a book, can I ask what it is about? :-D Yeah I have two horses so they keep me very busy, not sure how I will cope when/if I am preggo tho!!

I do have my dress and it's at the dressmakers being taken in as I had lost weight - ooops haha - so I really hope I don't put on too much before October, as you say not too long to go now though and if my bowel movements keep this up I will be tiny stick by then hehehe. xxxx

Has anyone else tested again yet?? I want to hear some BFPs please ;-)

It sounds like it was the garlic bread. If you are pregnant, your body is refusing it lol
2 horses wow! I love horses, used to ride 20 years ago when I was a teen.
Try to keep your fluid intake up, glad you are feeling a bit better
For me, am sulking now. Done more tests, those cheaply ones on the net, not even a glimpse of faint line what is going on?? Still having pain like af, and on sides like ovaries, slept 2 hours more this morning, had snotty discharge, sorry tmi lol but yet no positives...wondering if it was std?? Which really I doubt very much, as how would that happen...
So I feel lost and down again..

My book, well, it's a autobiography, but it's so hard to organise it! Going into the past and giving details or jumping from present to past like in films ( which I don't really like, I find that very confusing and annoying)

Glad you will fit into your dress I bet you are very excited!! Perhaps the stress and nerves are stopping your period? That has happened to me and I was 2 weeks late, had period couple of days after wedding lol
Do you have anyone who can help you if preggo, with your horses? I would suggest not to horseride(if you do that is) I know, that's horrible do you like riding ?

When will you be testing again?

Wish you even better this afternoon, tea (no milk) will soothe you xx take care

 

[Fluffyangel]

AF arrived with a vengeance this AM, cramps are absolutely horrendous, first proper AF since removal of coil atleast I know my body is getting back to normal and I have a good chance fr next month!!!

Good luck to all other ladies who are still late and waiting to test!!!

X

Awwww sorry to hear you are in so much pain! I hate it when it's like that. A good one is feminax express, hot water bottle and a nice bar of chocolate
Good luck for next month!! Fxx

 

[Mellie1988]

That is the plan as soon as I get home from work, Fluffy!

X