17DPO and BFN no AF and symptomless

[Hena]

Hi ladies, I'm so glad I found this thread, I was about to start one for the same topic! My AF was due no later than Sunday, and I'm still in this strange limbo as well...BFNs but no AF symptoms. This is now the lastest I've ever been by 4 days. I started OPKs for the first time this cycle, and think I O'd around the 11th which would put me at 16 dpo. The last hpt I did was on Thursday morning and was pearly white, no question it was neg. I guess I'll try again tomorrow. How often are you all testing?

 

[Icca19]

Well this morning I haven't test. (I ran out of tests lol) ill prob go to the store today and pick up a couple. Its tough not to. I'm going to the drs on Tuesday but ill test anyways before that.
Let's see I believe I tested on 10, 12,14,16 DPO and almost every day since.
Iv never had a BFP at home. I would love to find out on my own and plan a sweet little way to tell him, but my BFPs are always at the Drs, I guess that's why Im going all crazy testing with a HPT

 

[Hena]

Well this morning I haven't test. (I ran out of tests lol) ill prob go to the store today and pick up a couple. Its tough not to. I'm going to the drs on Tuesday but ill test anyways before that.
Let's see I believe I tested on 10, 12,14,16 DPO and almost every day since.
Iv never had a BFP at home. I would love to find out on my own and plan a sweet little way to tell him, but my BFPs are always at the Drs, I guess that's why Im going all crazy testing with a HPT

That actually gives me some hope! I keep thinking if I don't have a bfp at home there's no point in going to the doc's but maybe I'll call at the end of the week anyway.

I hope you get your wish though! I can see how you'd like to have the experience at least once! GL!!!!

 

[Greener Grass]

Hi Ladies, I'm another person whos late and still no BFP or AF I'm 16 dpo, never been late before. Have been TTC for almost 15 months now and am desperate for this to be it.

I've been testing like a maniac (20 times!) as I had a faulty test on 9dpo which was positive but i took 3 more on the same day and negative!!

Heres the link to my chart -

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/30333d

 

[Icca19]

Def keepin my FXed for you greener grass, 15 months has got to be stressfull.
It could be that maybe you just ovulated later this month. For some 16DPO is still too early.
Do you have any symptoms?

 

[Hena]

Icca, sorry to go off topic, but your avatar literally makes my heart happy

 

[Icca19]

Aww why thanks. That's my lil man (dominic) and me in my pic. We had a tornado warning the other night and there was hail all over the ground so we went outside afterwards to see it all.

 

[Greener Grass]

Yes i have so many symptoms!!

I've had cramping for over a week now, nausea, increased sense of smell, headaches, swollen foof you name it, i've got it!! I'm almost certain i'm pregnant.

I'm pretty confident i didn't ovulate later, i had a positive OPK, had EWCM and my cervix were in the right position all on the same day, plus my temperatures confirm i ov'd on this day!

Yep, 15 months is such a long time, I lost my sanity a long time ago! xx

 

[Icca19]

Wait! Avatar means my pic right? Lol I'm still a lil new to all this.

 

[Scuba]

I am too AF is 3 days late today - I have no idea whats going on - tests are all BFN - last one I took was yesterday - grrrrrrr such a rollercoaster of emotions!! xx

 

[Icca19]

I believe they say it can take anywhere between 6-12 days for implantation (that's adding up to 5 days for conception) so that's like 2 weeks there and some womens HCG levels don't double at the same rate or level as others so it could take up to a week or more to detect the HCG that's present.
Ya never know till you see Aunt Flow!

 

[Hena]

Wait! Avatar means my pic right? Lol I'm still a lil new to all this.

Oh sorry, yes! I meant your picture! What a special moment to share, that's what we're all hoping for ultimately, isn't it? I hope the storm didn't do too much damage and you're all well.

As for symptoms, I've been having the same for the past three weeks: dull ache in my stomach, accompanied by little stretching sensations and occasional burning feelings. I came over dizzy once nearly three weeks ago now, and today I've been feeling nauseous. None of my usual AF symptoms are present, which is even more unusual than a late AF. DH and I decided to test again tomorrow if this continues, maybe try one of my precious digis (never used one before) as my two bfns were on ic's.

FX'd for all of us laties! Here's hoping that our hormones are just being shy!

 

[Icca19]

Oh that does sound like it could be a good thing for you, especially since it seems different from the other months. Nobody knows your body like you
Although mine has gotten me acouple times

Yes were all doing ok. Just a bit of wind rain and hail. I'm right off Lake Erie so we get some crazy weather here

 

[Hena]

Yes, my body has gotten me a couple of times too, that's why I'm not letting myself get too worked up about symptoms. Still, I want to be able to tell the doc what I've been experiencing just in case I have to go in.

Another BFN this morning, this time on Clear Blue Digital. It somehow seems fatter than a negative on a stick with those bold clear letters. Oh well...

At what point are you going to call the doctor if AF continues to be a no-show?

 

[Icca19]

This mornings test was another heartbreaker. I really thought it was going to be a + because of the extreme tenderness in my BBs this moening. Still no aunt flow.....ah! I just want something to end this 39DPO cycle (AF or BFP) either one will do at this point.
I can't wait til Tuesday so I can talk to the Dr. Maybe he can figure this out.
I'm really curious as to what my progesterone levels are right now.
And a sonogram would be awesome! No better to tell then to take a look

 

[greeneyesgirl]

Hi ladies!!!

Thanks for starting this thread. I am 4 days late.. if AF doesnt show totday it will be 5 days. I have no symptoms of AF coming. No tenderness, no cramps... Over the past few days I have been dizzy and last week I was a virtual furnance (high flashes like you wouldnt believe)lol. My O calendar says I was supposed to O in the 11th.. Saw EWCM on the 9th and 10th.. (bd'd 9, 10, 12, 13, 14, etc etc etc lol) them CM was lotiony and excessive for the past few days... this morning its EWCM again...how is that possible. I thought you only got EWCM when you were in your fertile days.. shouldnt i be past that. I already had the temp jump, the EWCM and my normal O day cramps...what is going on?

AF is almost 5 days late and no signs she is coming. I tested at 2 and 3 days late and BFNs ... If AF doesnt show today I said I would take a digi on tomorrow. Do you think I should test today? Im afraid of another BFN

 

[Icca19]

I know its tough but I would wait for another FMU. Especially with a digi (I never used one) but I wouldn't want to test unless its the most concentrated, because I couldn't read the lines for myself lol idk that's just me though

 

[Hena]

Hi Everyone, I hope you had a good weekend!
I just broke down and called my doctor first thing this morning. Glad I did too, they're booked this week (Thursday is a holiday) so they can't get me in until Friday morning. I guess if AF comes before then I'll call and cancel, but at least now I know I have an appointment! The nurse actually told me good luck on the phone which was super sweet I think they know me in there from my broken German, lol.
Sorry about your bfn, icca, it's so hard isn't it? I mean we test because we can't stand the wait, but then seeing the negative results is 100% worse than the wait!
Good luck, greeneyesgirl, hope you get your bfp this morning!

 

[greeneyesgirl]

I totally agree Hena... The bfn is the worst part of every month of trying.... I didnt get to poas this morning.. My hubby had an asthma attack and we rushed to the hospital early this morning... Thankfully he is ok. So needless to say i totally forgot about testn so i guess ill have to wait another day to find out whats up....but on the brightside my hubby is doing well and no AF yet

 

[Hena]

I totally agree Hena... The bfn is the worst part of every month of trying.... I didnt get to poas this morning.. My hubby had an asthma attack and we rushed to the hospital early this morning... Thankfully he is ok. So needless to say i totally forgot about testn so i guess ill have to wait another day to find out whats up....but on the brightside my hubby is doing well and no AF yet

Wow, that's a scare! I'm glad to hear he's okay!!!
No AF is good, fingers crossed for you tomorrow!

I think I'll poas Wed or Thurs morning because DH is going away on Thurs for the weekend and won't be able to come to the doctor's with me. If this is a bfp, I really hope he can be there to see it.