17DPO and BFN no AF and symptomless

[greeneyesgirl]

Hey all...

Icca19 and Hena - Im now at CD40 today... still no sign, still cramping all day long expecting to have AF every time I check, but nothing. I like the sound of your method for this month, have my fingers crossed for you!

Greeneyesgirl - how are you today, any change??

Hey everyone.. still no change. No AF no BFP. I have had some mild crmaping together and some soreness on the sides of my boobs ( i have no idea what thats about.. i didnt even know they could get tender just on the sides) but other than that nothing.. I keep thinking she is her because of the extra wet CM but nothing and now my CM is back to being clear again.. I dont know what is wrong. I just want it all to be over...soon!! lol Im on CD 43 and not liking it at all!!

Stink that you are still hanging too! Im off tomorrow for my romantic weekend away... now I dont know if I can/should drink or not. Do you think that would be okay? Surely if I was pregnant it would have shown up when I tested on Sunday? I think something is just screwy with my cycle but I am not pregnant.

If I were you I'd take one more test just before you go, and if it's still negative go ahead and drink (but maybe not go crazy).
Have a great time either way!!!

I agree with Hena - take another test then have a nice celebration. You need to relax and unwind. Enjoy your anniversary. This wait is killing me!!! I read on the internet that you can take something called AC (Agnus Cactus??? or something like that) to make your period come so you can start a new cycle. Has anyone heard of that? I have a dr appt for next friday (the 17th) but it just seems so far away .. In any event Waiting2C I hope you have a fantastic weekend.. you really deserve it!. Keep us all posted.

Hena and Icca19 - thanks for keeping up with the thread. I have been feeling crampy lately so maybe AF is finally about to drag her butt around the corner and pay me a visit..

 

[greeneyesgirl]

Still waiting.... no AF..and my cramps are mild and come and go.. I dont know whats going on.. and now my boobs arent sensitive either.. I keep squeezing them and nothing (TMI i know but...)... Ughh!!..

Icca19 I was looking for your thread but cant find it

Hena - how goes the charting for you this month?

Waiting2C - r u still with me??

 

[waiting2c]

Hey Hey! Yup I am still with you, still nothing for me either. Took a test this morning and surprise suprise BFN.... going to have a wine or two tonight when we get to the beach.

Dont know what is up with us both greeneysgirl, its really unfair aye. I just would like things to go back to normal again.

I havent heard of taking something to get things back on track sorry, but sounds interesting.

Hope things get moving for you over the weekend and that they dont for me till i get back ;-)

 

[Hena]

Hi! I'm thinking of you two as the long suffering ttc'ers. And I called my last cycle the neverending cycle! Happy anniversary waiting2c, I hope the beach is lovely! greeneyesgirl, the 17th does feel like forever, but it's only one week now. I hope they can give you some good news.

I'm actually really proud of myself with the charting, hehe. I've only had to throw out one temp and that was because I got up super early to drive dh to the train station. I'm recording everything in a journal by my bed, then coppying to ff every couple of days. I think I'll start entering the data directly now that (I hope) ov is approaching.

Best of luck to you all!

Icca, can you post a link to your other thread?

 

[singers_love]

Have enjoyed reading your thread alot. I am currently on day 31. My normal cycle is 25! Just very frustrated. Hope everyone is well!

 

[greeneyesgirl]

Hi singers_love!!! Welcome to our thread. Im sure you wont have to wait quite as long as me and waiting2c to get your BFP... What have your symptoms been so far?

Hena - Im excited for you and this new cycle. I just feel like you will be announcing your BFP this cycle!!

Waiting2C - Happy anniversary!!!. Have a fantastic weekend. Im sure AF will spare you this weekend. A girlfriend of my who normally has the same cycle as me (we may be a day or 2 apart) finally got AF this morning after spotting all day yesterday do maybe that means AF is coming for me soon. Still no spotting. Cramps are gone.. My boobs are severely sore though.. but its a weird soreness.. not sore to the touch but heavy feeling and feel like sore on the inside.. kinda like when you have a sore muscle.. you can touch it with your hand and it doesnt hurt but you can feel the soreness still.... Idk whats up with my boobs.. apparently they (just like AF) have a mind of thier own this month..

Icca19.. i agree with Hena.. post a link to your thread. I would love to follow you.. So how goes BD'ing every day?

 

[Icca19]

Hey girls....i really dont know how to post a link (im not the best with computers)
All i can say is that its in the TTC forums and its titled: I have an idea!!
i havent check it in acouple days, iv been on this thread lol
Oh DH and i are still following through with our little experiment this month. and i think today im going to go to the store and get some OPKs. Im on CD11 and i still havent seen a temp spike so im hoping to see a spike and have a little happy face confirm it for me.

I had the same thing happen 3 cycles ago with my boobs hurting on the sides and like in my arm pit area (it NEVER happened to me before so i was SURE i was prego) but it just turned out to be a BFN (Sorry) but i just wanted to put that out there for you. I asked everyone i knew(this was before B&B) and no one experienced it so i just wnated to let you know that your not alone...iv been there too. BUT everyone is different so.... ya never know.

Oh and when AF likes to take her time showing up and i have tested all i can (not wanting to see a BFN anymore) as well as blood work from the Dr, ill drown all my sorrows with a couple pitchers of daquaries. Does the trick EVERY time. She shows her ulgy face the next day along with her buddy hangover (not fun) but def puts an end to her little game lol ;-)

I hope you all have a great weekend, baby dust to us all!

 

[greeneyesgirl]

Hey girls....i really dont know how to post a link (im not the best with computers)
All i can say is that its in the TTC forums and its titled: I have an idea!!
i havent check it in acouple days, iv been on this thread lol
Oh DH and i are still following through with our little experiment this month. and i think today im going to go to the store and get some OPKs. Im on CD11 and i still havent seen a temp spike so im hoping to see a spike and have a little happy face confirm it for me.

I had the same thing happen 3 cycles ago with my boobs hurting on the sides and like in my arm pit area (it NEVER happened to me before so i was SURE i was prego) but it just turned out to be a BFN (Sorry) but i just wanted to put that out there for you. I asked everyone i knew(this was before B&B) and no one experienced it so i just wnated to let you know that your not alone...iv been there too. BUT everyone is different so.... ya never know.

Oh and when AF likes to take her time showing up and i have tested all i can (not wanting to see a BFN anymore) as well as blood work from the Dr, ill drown all my sorrows with a couple pitchers of daquaries. Does the trick EVERY time. She shows her ulgy face the next day along with her buddy hangover (not fun) but def puts an end to her little game lol ;-)

I hope you all have a great weekend, baby dust to us all!

Yeah Im pretty much over the I might be pregnant stage.. Im on to the AF Please hurry the heck up stage!!!.. I just need a new cycle to start.. this extended PMS is horrible

 

[Icca19]

Agreed! i know the 4WW is the worst!

 

[Hena]

https://www.babyandbump.com/trying-to-conceive/635044-have-idea.html
I stalked you and found the link! Please don't be creaped out, I just love the fact that we're both taking the same strategy this cycle and want to keep in touch!

 

[greeneyesgirl]

https://www.babyandbump.com/trying-to-conceive/635044-have-idea.html
I stalked you and found the link! Please don't be creaped out, I just love the fact that we're both taking the same strategy this cycle and want to keep in touch!

LOL!!!... I so happy you found it.. I searched and searched and could not find it.. Dont be embarassed I tried to stalk Icca19 too Im just really bad at it LMAO!!!

 

[Hopingitwill]

Hi girls. I am in limbo to am on cycle day 37 when af was due on 33 as I gave had since having implant removed in January a 32 day cycle. Have tested everyday apart from today and had a bfn!!! It sucks being in limbo!

 

[Icca19]

Yeah limbo is the worst especially with longer cycles. I'm going to be back in the 2WW limbo here in acouple more days (I hope) OPKs are looking good!
Its ok girls stalk away. I do everthing from my phone so it makes it kinda difficult but honestly if I had a computer here at home id have mt chart posted with all types of other stuff. I'm going to work on posting my chart from FF real soon. Id like to compair chatrs

 

[waiting2c]

Hey all, well as suspected AF got me on the weekend... sigh, seems to have this knack of coming at the most inconvienent times. OH now wants to NTNP until after our overseas holiday in november... glad at least I know and can stop stressing about it all.

How is everyone doing? Greeneyesgirl, you still in limbo??

You gals have been awesome, am glad I found this site, its great to be able to chat with people in the same circumstances as you! I wish you all the very best and hope to keep in touch!!

 

[greeneyesgirl]

Hey all, well as suspected AF got me on the weekend... sigh, seems to have this knack of coming at the most inconvienent times. OH now wants to NTNP until after our overseas holiday in november... glad at least I know and can stop stressing about it all.

How is everyone doing? Greeneyesgirl, you still in limbo??

You gals have been awesome, am glad I found this site, its great to be able to chat with people in the same circumstances as you! I wish you all the very best and hope to keep in touch!!

Im sorry AF finally decided to get off her butt in the middle of your anniversary weekend ... As for me Im still in limbo. AF is still M.I.A and I dont think she is gonna show on her own. Ill be so glad once the 17th gets here and the doc came give me something to make AF start.. it really is the worst. The past few days have been uite uncomfortable for me. On and off mild cramping and then on and off soreness in my breasts... Now my breast themselves are sore like before but my nipples are.. I just dont know anymore Never had a cycle like this. I started my 1st period 2 wks after my 11th bday and it has never once acted like this. Its truly frustrating. Well Im glad that at least you can put this past cycle behind you and look forward to NTNP with hubby. Ive heard it happens faster that way and its more fun

Regardless keep me posted..I love keeping up with you ladies and seeing your progress. This forum is a fantastic support system filled with wonderful ladies... Wish me luck at my dr appt. I really hope he gives me something and doesnt just send me hope to wait like some drs i heard about. They have no idea how incredibly horrid the waiting period is .. especially once it drives past the 2wk point. Waiting for AF this cycle has been like waiting on the groundhog to appear so you know how many more days of winters there will be lol

 

[Hopingitwill]

Greeneyesgirl am with you on waiting for AF - have never wanted it to show as much so i can get onto next cycle. I even wore white trousers to a christening expecting her to turn up to try and stich me up! Got another BFN today - hurts just as much. At the christening everyone was asking when we are going to have a baby - people dont realise how hard that can be when you have been trying (in our case since Jan) and others who arn't trying are expecting... not even including the BFN I had had a couple of hours before going.
Anyway hope we have some answers soon and we can move on one way and another.
Waiting2c- sorry to hear aF got you on anniversary .. but on the positive no more limbo!!!

 

[waiting2c]

Hey Greeneyesgirl - sorry to hear you are still in limbo. I really hope you get some answers on the 17th. Its so horrible that you are still waiting for things to work out. Good luck for your appointment, I will be on here to check in and see how you got on.

Hopingitwill - Hope you too get your answer, those BFNs are awful when you are late and it can all be a bit emotional!

Icca19, good luck for this TWW, I have my fingers crossed for you.

 

[greeneyesgirl]

Greeneyesgirl am with you on waiting for AF - have never wanted it to show as much so i can get onto next cycle. I even wore white trousers to a christening expecting her to turn up to try and stich me up! Got another BFN today - hurts just as much. At the christening everyone was asking when we are going to have a baby - people dont realise how hard that can be when you have been trying (in our case since Jan) and others who arn't trying are expecting... not even including the BFN I had had a couple of hours before going.
Anyway hope we have some answers soon and we can move on one way and another.
Waiting2c- sorry to hear aF got you on anniversary .. but on the positive no more limbo!!!

No one has spoken more truer words!!!... I know people dont mean any harm asking when you are gonna get pregnant but it stings just the same... especially when you are trying everything under the sun to try and get pregnant. Still No AF for me. I havent tested because I cant bear to get another BFN. Im pretty confident that the doctor will tell me Im not pregnant on the 17th but at least then he can tell me what the heck is wrong and why im so late. Hopefully I will get something to jump start this next cycle so I can finally get my BFP...
I want it so bad and it makes me cry every month when it doesnt happen

 

[waiting2c]

Greeneyesgirl am with you on waiting for AF - have never wanted it to show as much so i can get onto next cycle. I even wore white trousers to a christening expecting her to turn up to try and stich me up! Got another BFN today - hurts just as much. At the christening everyone was asking when we are going to have a baby - people dont realise how hard that can be when you have been trying (in our case since Jan) and others who arn't trying are expecting... not even including the BFN I had had a couple of hours before going.
Anyway hope we have some answers soon and we can move on one way and another.
Waiting2c- sorry to hear aF got you on anniversary .. but on the positive no more limbo!!!

No one has spoken more truer words!!!... I know people dont mean any harm asking when you are gonna get pregnant but it stings just the same... especially when you are trying everything under the sun to try and get pregnant. Still No AF for me. I havent tested because I cant bear to get another BFN. Im pretty confident that the doctor will tell me Im not pregnant on the 17th but at least then he can tell me what the heck is wrong and why im so late. Hopefully I will get something to jump start this next cycle so I can finally get my BFP...
I want it so bad and it makes me cry every month when it doesnt happen

I know what you girls mean. I was at the doctors a few weeks back (when I was in the actual TWW) for something and she asked me if I was pregnant, I said hopefully and she looked at my age and said, you are leaving it a bit late dont you think. Im not even 30 yet and that was like a knife to the heart. Its not by choice. I cried myself silly in the shower on the weekend when AF arrived.

I really really hope you get your BFP soon girls, you deserve every happiness.

 

[greeneyesgirl]

Greeneyesgirl am with you on waiting for AF - have never wanted it to show as much so i can get onto next cycle. I even wore white trousers to a christening expecting her to turn up to try and stich me up! Got another BFN today - hurts just as much. At the christening everyone was asking when we are going to have a baby - people dont realise how hard that can be when you have been trying (in our case since Jan) and others who arn't trying are expecting... not even including the BFN I had had a couple of hours before going.
Anyway hope we have some answers soon and we can move on one way and another.
Waiting2c- sorry to hear aF got you on anniversary .. but on the positive no more limbo!!!

No one has spoken more truer words!!!... I know people dont mean any harm asking when you are gonna get pregnant but it stings just the same... especially when you are trying everything under the sun to try and get pregnant. Still No AF for me. I havent tested because I cant bear to get another BFN. Im pretty confident that the doctor will tell me Im not pregnant on the 17th but at least then he can tell me what the heck is wrong and why im so late. Hopefully I will get something to jump start this next cycle so I can finally get my BFP...
I want it so bad and it makes me cry every month when it doesnt happen

I know what you girls mean. I was at the doctors a few weeks back (when I was in the actual TWW) for something and she asked me if I was pregnant, I said hopefully and she looked at my age and said, you are leaving it a bit late dont you think. Im not even 30 yet and that was like a knife to the heart. Its not by choice. I cried myself silly in the shower on the weekend when AF arrived.

I really really hope you get your BFP soon girls, you deserve every happiness.

OOoooo I wish I could just slap her silly for that rude and insensitive comment. I would have cried right then and there. I will be 30 in december and I had an ectopic 2 days before my bday last year so its really stressful trying to get pregnant. I wish those who didnt have a hard understood the plight of those that it does happen so easily for