17dpo bfn but no af

[Molyelle]

Hi everyone. I'm 17dpo today and officially 3 days late which is unheard of for me but I did a test this morning and got a bfn followed by a day of crying . It's weird as I feel different this month, my breasts have never been this painful ever and have got more veins and I've had a lot of extra cm (sorry tmi). Has anyone been in this situation and got a bfp?
It hurts more because we've been trying for 13 months now with no luck and my best friend tried a month and told me last week that she was pregnant

 

[July28th]

Hi Molyelle,

Just wanted to send you hugs, and say I know it can be really really hard. It's never easy when you're hoping month after month and people are getting pregnant quickly around you.

I've never had a BFP so can't answer your question, but I have the same symptoms as you. I hope it's your month!

Ps if it's not mine, I'm going to take a deep breath, and enjoy a glass or two of red!